Hi hi
Minky and Rosalind, me teochew too
But my FH is Hakka. So I dunno follow teochew customs or Hakka.
But I really dunno what to do regarding the GDL stuff. Only know abt the "pin jin" and the "si diann jin". When I ask around, some colleagues give abalone, some give pigs trotters...aiyah, very confused liao.
I want to ask my grandma but in the end didn't cos' by right should be guy side ask one mah, rite? So now gotto arrange for a meeting between both sides. Dunno if now is too soon or not.
Regarding the "si dian jin", are you gals asking for them? Heard that now some brides asking for "si dian zuan" liao. In fact my colleague said his wife one cost him almost $10K. Think that's abit too much. Maybe I will ask for diamond earrings (that's 2) and a necklace with pendant (another 2). Anyone has "bargained" for this yet?
Yup, my parents not asking for any tables too. Cos' we are the ones paying and not his parents. Think that's a load off our shoulders
Rosalind
Yar, I will still try to make it. Should be ok
Go all the way to Jurong must treat me to coffee ok hehe...