(2005) Brides of year 2005
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ting, 1 of my ex-coll v ke lian...aft she give birth...her hb forced her to go gym take supplement to slim down....she can't even wear those sleevless 1 & those clothes can c the fats wan...the hb say if wear like dat is a disgrace f him...cos her hb is instructor so v particular abt outlook...but saw her hb photo oso not handsome & short...
PP hahacaitlyn, but she still say like dat she can oso slim down loh...she can't wear black color clothes too...cos her hb will scold her "i am not dead y u wear black color" i was like wat sort of hb is he?? i really pei fu her she still can tolerate him!! mayb f the sake of child bah...cos mother is always so noble wan loh!!
jam,
ya lor, how com ehis hb like that one?...its all bcos he made his wife pregnant and she has to help him to give birth to his kids, thats y become plump mah..tink your fren sure bery sad...cos like that the hb only tink of himself and din tink of the wife lor... *angry*
Hi Daphne,
oh dear..poor gal gal...feeling better now?
ya lor, how com ehis hb like that one?...its all bcos he made his wife pregnant and she has to help him to give birth to his kids, thats y become plump mah..tink your fren sure bery sad...cos like that the hb only tink of himself and din tink of the wife lor... *angry*
Hi Daphne,
oh dear..poor gal gal...feeling better now?
me kenna some throat virus = sore throat. got fever on fri so that's why half day and then fever again on sun so MC again until yesterday.
SDL missed me? sure or not? *bish* SDL keke......
jam, your fren's hb hor..... me dunno what to say. still got such man on earth ah?
SDL missed me? sure or not? *bish* SDL keke......
jam, your fren's hb hor..... me dunno what to say. still got such man on earth ah?
jenn, when are we going for threading again? then u can pass to me lor... no hurry.
over the weekends i watch I not stupid 2 on vcd.... watch already i am thinking about having kids. cos i dunno if i know how to discipline them..... now must need key to open their hearts somemore.... more stressed ah.....
over the weekends i watch I not stupid 2 on vcd.... watch already i am thinking about having kids. cos i dunno if i know how to discipline them..... now must need key to open their hearts somemore.... more stressed ah.....
at first she told mi her hb is instructor so i imagine he's those kind macho handsome wan so he ya ya lah...cos my dis ex-coll look abit auntie loh...when i saw her hb photo i nearly fainted...dis type of pattern oso can b ya ya?? cannot always ren & bcome a habit to let hb bully...b4 my AD she hv left our co liow...so think still the same everything son & hb...only think of herself the last!!
me n hb decided liao.. cannot have good cop, bad cop.. both must stand firm together! hahaha.. coz i find tt some kids whose parents have very clearly defined good cop,bad cop role can be quite manipulative.. they'll learn v fast how to get everything they want! hahah.. but i guess i'll probably be fiercer than my hb.. haha
when i watched the show, i already can relate to it very well. i remember last time when i gave tuition in my uni days.... i used the scolding method and i remember also asking my kids, you dumb already ah? ask you qns and u cannot ans ah?
hehe.... then yesterday i saw my students again cos they stayed in same blk as my mum and i tried a different approach to talk to them and surprisingly, it does works. u really need to talk to them as if they are adult and have a discussion with them instead of telling them.
hehe.... then yesterday i saw my students again cos they stayed in same blk as my mum and i tried a different approach to talk to them and surprisingly, it does works. u really need to talk to them as if they are adult and have a discussion with them instead of telling them.
caitlyn, i think discussion method is ok when it comes to reasoning with the students but when they do it wrong, cannot discuss lah.... they will reason their way out. must occassionally throw temper at times to let them know the seriousness of the mistakes they did. if not, they will always think that everything can be discussed then jia liat.... but then we must also be very careful of what we request them to do lor... like xiang yun scolded her son for using hp during dinner times but they had double standard for themselves which is bad. so what we set down as rules must be reasonable too....
actually i think when it comes to own kids, as caitlyn says, it's really different. my mgr for instance, she is one high flier in the company but then as a results she has no time for her son and she uses material stuff to compensate. each time we go lunch, she will buy lots of toys (it's almost on a weekly basis) to give to her son. i asked her if isn't what she's doing is actually spoiling her son but to her, she ok with it. but then when it comes to other pp kids, she got no patience. haha.... so it's easy for us to say now but then when it's our turn....
can you imagine that her son is only 5 yrs old and can request to have a train design cake for his birthday. then my mgr forgot and bought another design of train and her son got angry and refused to go school and insist on the train cake that he wants. end up my mgr has to call all the cake shops and ask if they have this design and then order the cake. doesn't matter that the original cake is bought already and that she has to spend extra to rush the cake.
daphne - i agree w u.. but too bad her parents dun realise it.. sighz.. but i told hb already.. if i ever become those kinda too kind mother.. pls wake up my idea! hahha.. i firmly believe when young must be very strict.. then slowly release control and start reasoning when they're older and able to understand
now my nephew is in sec 2 he really those kind u c u wanna to pak him liow...really like ganster type, the way he talk, action etc c liow oso buai ta han!! he say if he is not like a ganster he will let school mates bully so in order not to get bullied he muz act like a ganster...biang... he kanna schoolmates box eyes twice within 4 mths...so i tell him the way u behaviour really kam pak...
jenn,
i think with kids, the bond between couple will be stronger bah. cos both will have more communications, be it on the kids or other matters.
for us, we have agree upon good and bad cop.
i will be the bad one and hb will be a good one.
not that i am more fierce, but i can handle kids better than my hb and my patience is better. hehehehehe...
i think with kids, the bond between couple will be stronger bah. cos both will have more communications, be it on the kids or other matters.
for us, we have agree upon good and bad cop.
i will be the bad one and hb will be a good one.
not that i am more fierce, but i can handle kids better than my hb and my patience is better. hehehehehe...
jam, don't underestimate the power of peer pressure. it's really there. my mgr's son also requested to have some water bottle of dunno what cartoon character lah. at first my mgr refused but then he thrown tantrum and cry until my mgr buay tahan. turned out, all his classmates have and cos he doesn't have, he's left out of the clique. for us, having friends in school is impt lor cos that's the thing that make school more fun. even at work, also got such peer pressures. my lunch group are more of the shopping type and their tastes are very high end kind...... at first i under pressure cos each time lunch time means, mango lah, zara lah, and dunno what other brands. but for us, we know how to manage that expectations cos we been thru more and know how not to fall into that. for me, i just do more window shopping and don't bring too much cash and credit card out to resist temptations. but for kids, they dunno how to manage that and so the only way to be in is to have what others have.
