GDL is the one where the groom brings all the stuff (cakes, etc)? Now having a big headache about when to have it. My gran wants it end of this mth, but FH family say too early. Furthermore, gran asked the date was a thurs when I have to be in school teaching. So gran said, never mind, claire dun need to be there??? Then mom wants sunday coz parents have to work, but like no auspicious sundays. Wah lau, also dun know how. AD Mar 6, so not that many wkends left. Giving out invites is straight after GDL? FH suggested on sat, then mom say if that's the case we go and send out the invites ourselves? Didn't realise so much bother over this ceremony.
FH family got strange tradition. Night before AD, FH will sleep in marital bed with one of the male nephews/cousins. Dunno for what lah, but their family a lots of boys...going to feel so weird tho on wedding night. bed been slept in before...