hey blueberi,
I cannot speak, I only know how to say Wa bo butt hia, meaning I dont know how to listen or speak, I also dont know. whaha...Abit ma lu lah, coz my older relatives will suan say I am hainanese yet dont know how to speak, blah blah. I dont care lah. I grew up living with Grandmother, she speaks hokkein with me lor. But I also not so fluent in hokkein.
Hi Gin, yeah, she have to address the card to Eldest Brother and not as your uncle. LIke my case, we written wrongly as Grandma when we wanted to send the invite to her. My mum said, she is the one representing us to send the invite, so by right she should write the invite as Mum.
eh, poh heng got this wedding catalogue, if u all have a chance to go, take a copy. Inside have those little notes which is very useful like say for example for an chuang, you need peanuts, gua zi, longan, red dates etc so that couples will zha sheng gui zi.