KK, Unicorn, Nickel, c0co
It's not quite er ren shi jie for both of us that I crave, but just that I personally feel I am not ready to be a mother yet. Heavy heavy responsibility for the next 25 years.
c0co
If you want to follow NFP method, then don't do it during menses, cos u may ovulate during menses (v rare but possible). Peak day (when most fertile) typically occurs between day 13 and day 15 (plus or minus from day 14).
I think last few days before menses (i.e maybe day 26 or 27 if you have a 28 or 30 day cycle) should be quite safe. I usually restrict it to these few days. =)