Hi odae,
I think that depends on who u feel shld be responsible for which task. Like for banquet, I will ask my cousin and one of my sis in law to help at the reception. At least they noe who is my relative. I'll request them to write down the name of relative on the ang bao itself too. And the other will tell the guest which table they shld be at.
I dun have any bridemaid, only jie mei. Will juz ask them to be in all white or all purple. Still thinking....
Juz now saw the set of purple gold at Lee Hwa. Wow, so beautiful. I like that ring alot. hmm.... Maybe shld tell my MIL that purple gold is our rule. haha....
Amy, at first thot maybe no nid tiqing. But MIL said this Sunday is a good day, she'll go tiqing. So, I juz obey lor. See wat they going to tok. Kind of funny. But think both of them click well. They met before and really tok alot.