helo jady,
maybe i can help you with some... hmm, let me see..
1) guo da li items suppose to get your hubby side to prepare. if you wana help him, maybe help him to source for wedding cakes? melrose and kyo not bad.
2) for wedding cards, have you got them printed? if yes, then you can start writing liao.. for your relatives side, get your parents or in law to help, cos relatives always address in chinese and they can write in chinese better mah..
3) to inform relatives, let both side parents to do the job. but i guess by now, they all know that both of you are getting married, so no worries ok?
4) you may wish to arrange your food tasting either end of this month, or immediately after you back fm aus, remember, you may still need to change dishes you dun like and that take time to decide loh.
5) it's time you sit down wif hubby on the confirmed attendance and start assigning tables liao.. if this is done, even your wedding invites should be a breeze, just need to write only, and that, you can delegate.
6) for RSVP, once you sent out your invites, you can call your guests a few days later to confirm. for friends, you might wana get their address and send to them, since you outstation, or get hubby to send it for you? relatives one, sure your parents and in-laws can help rite?
7) for red wine, i have bought mine fm a wine shop in toa payoh. my hubby looked at the prices and told me very reasonable. and we ordered 5 crates liao. if you have not got any supplier, i can give my contacts to you.. but need to be fast, cos if the wine need to freight in, you need to get one month in advance, but if delay, then uh oh...
8) your mum's dress, maybe get your siblings or aunties to go shopping with mum to get the dress.. cos you seem really bz with work.. after she decided, you can go down and buy when you free, or get her to buy 1st and you pay later.. you can do that when back fm aust..
9) i tot si dian jin fm your in law? you wana choose the design ah?
10) for videographer, have you source out? i signed up mine 2 months ago. if you still have not found one, i can recommend mine to you..
11) teadress fm bridal? if that's the case, you can choose one of these days? or maybe when you collect your album?
12) bedside lamp is for wedding purpose ah? if not, try ikea loh, no time to shop? try their online catalogue, though you cant buy online, you can still look at the products they have..
13) when is your bridal giving you the album? i just chose my pics yest, so they can only give me back the album end sept... that is not a prob mah, collect only rite? but will have prob if you doing a photo montage..
14) mentioned above liao..
15) need to buy cd meh? maybe download fm internet? dun have to go down purposely to buy? what song is that?
16) for 2nd march in, i can suggest a few to you if you dun mind. but only after you tell me what is your 1st song, then i be able to know your taste... hehe... as for the rest of the songs for the dinner.. buy a classical cd or a jazz one should be good enough? if not, i can gif you a few titles also...
sorry.. hehe.. too loh soh, too kpo.. but i also kan cheong for you, so many things not done... hehe