Can my elder sister (not married) be my bridesmaid/jie mei?

nateibbed

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Had asked my sister to be my bridesmaid for wedding wedding. my mom says that no elder sister can "pei jia" (follow the bride out). got taboo on this. i think bad luck for the elder sister.

my sister and i have no clue on all these taboo stuffs.

any advise?

thanks!
 


felirocious

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My opinion will be since parents say cannot, then try to follow if possible.

Some Friend I know had their elder sibling involved, some don’t.

I don’t wish to complicate matter but it may be related.. .But I also heard before that the bride needs to hang the clothes of the unmarried elder sibling over the door etc on the wedding day. Some friends of mine had to do such action...
 
My opinion will be since parents say cannot, then try to follow if possible.

Some Friend I know had their elder sibling involved, some don’t.

I don’t wish to complicate matter but it may be related.. .But I also heard before that the bride needs to hang the clothes of the unmarried elder sibling over the door etc on the wedding day. Some friends of mine had to do such action...

I got heard this before
 

nateibbed

New Member
My opinion will be since parents say cannot, then try to follow if possible.

Some Friend I know had their elder sibling involved, some don’t.

I don’t wish to complicate matter but it may be related.. .But I also heard before that the bride needs to hang the clothes of the unmarried elder sibling over the door etc on the wedding day. Some friends of mine had to do such action...

ya. my sister read that online. but its more towards, if you're getting married earlier than your elder sister. you have to hang and walk under her skirt, but people now buy new skirt.
 

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