Master David Tong's Advice Corner (Geomancy and Fengshui)

Hi, Mr Tong,

We plan will celebrate our wedding at Oct 19th, 2013, can you help us check, is it good for us or not?

Groom: Rooster, ( 6 Apr, 1981 -- 6-7 a.m)
Bride : Dragon, ( 26 Feb,1988 -- 1-2 p.m)

Groom's Dad: Rooster, (1945)
Groom's Mom: Tiger, (1950)

Bride's Dad: Rooster, (1958)
Bride's Mom: Dog, (1958)

And what day good for our engagement?

Thanks Mr. Tong ^__^
 


Dear Master Tong

We are planning to get married between Sep 2013 and Jan 2014 can you suggest a good date for us? Thank you.

Groom: Snake, Jan 9 1978
Bride : Horse, Aug 14 1978
 
hi Master Tong

i was previously adviced by you that 19th Oct 2013 is a general good date. However we were unable to book our wedding this date, hence could you advise if 5th Oct 2013 is a good date or any date in Sept to Nov?

groom: 22 Oct 1979 (Goat)
Grrom's dad: 12 Oct 1958 (Dog)
Groom's mum:26 Jul 1958(Dog)

Bride: 16 Jun 1986 (Tiger)
Bride's dad; 04 Nov 1958 (Dog)
Bride's mum: 7 May 1958 (Dog)

many thamks in advance!
 
Hi Isabelle

1. Understand from your previous post that couples who are going to marry can't attend all red and white events 3 months before and 3 months after their wedding. How about the couples' parents and siblings ? Are they allowed to attend the red and white events ?

Yes no problem for them...but of course some very pantang ones prefer not to go as well (esp parents)

2. Are we allowed to get married during the month of Nine Emperor gods festival ?

Yes no problem. Date selection has nothing to do with all these.
 
Hi REunion

That day is a general tong shu good date for wedding. But clash Dragon. So make sure none of ur parents are parents will do

* Note that tong shu dates are general dates only. Both your bazi (birthday & time of birth) are not taken into considearion yet. A good date in the tong shu can still be deemed as inauspicious if the date and both your bazi are not compatible *
 
Hi 2012novbride

I dont get your qns...just make sure you dont go will do. The person that goes to get the bad luck. So whoever dont believe wants to come, their is basically their problem, not yours
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I mean that if our relatives are also getting married after us (within 3 months), by right he should not attend ours.

I get what you mean. As long as we do not attend any red/white event, we should be fine. Those who don't believe are their problem. We just do our part and observe the rules.

Thanks Master Tong.
 
Hi, Mr Tong,

We plan to hold our ROM on 25 Jan 2013 and our wedding banquet on 22 Feb 2014, can you help us check, is it a good date for us?

Groom: Pig, ( 17 Sep 1983)
Bride : Monkey, ( 30 Jun 1980)

Groom's Dad: Horse, (7 Aug 1954)
Groom's Mom: Pig, (11 Nov 1959)

Bride's Dad: Dragon, (18 Jan 1953)
Bride's Mom: Pig, (14 May 1959)

Thanks Mr. Tong ^__^
 
Hi Master Tong

We have previously checked with you in Aug if 2013 was a good year to get married for me and my HTB, and all we need is a good date to get it started. We have planned to ROM & wedding banquet on 14 Dec 2013, could you advice if the date is good?

Our zodiacs are as below:-
Groom & Bride : Tiger 1986

Groom's dad (deceased in 2010) : Horse 1954
Groom's mum : Rat 1960

Bride's dad : Pig 1947
Bride's mum : Rat 1948

Thank you. Look forward to hear from you.
 
Hi kiatzmingz

14/12 is not a general good date for wedding

For dec, only 22/12 and 28/12 are general auspicious dates for wedding

Hope this helps
 
Hi Master Tong,

I have booked 25th Dec 2013 for my wedding day. It was a pretty rush decision to decide on this date due to the availability of ballroom.
Would appreciate if you could check if it is alright for us to proceed with this date to hold our wedding and ROM?

Otherwise could you please advise on another date in Late 2013?

Our zodiacs are as follow

Groom: Rat (21 Dec 1984)
Bride : Rabbit (12 August 1987)
 
Hi Master Tong,

Is it true it is bad luck to get married on 2013 because it is considered Widow Year?

Groom: Horse (23 Dec 1978)
Bride: Monkey (21 Apr 1980)

Groom's Dad: Pig (26 Sep 1959)
Groom's Mom: Dog (15 Sep 1958)

Bride's Dad: Dog, (23 Oct 1946)
Bride's Mom: Tiger, (15 Aug 1950) - Deceased
Bride's Aunt: Sheep or Monkey (1943 or 1944 not sure, original birth certificate record was lost/destroyed during the war)

We were thinking of having any of the following wedding dates:
- Nov. 08, 2013
- Dec. 08, 2013
- Jan. 08, 2014
- any good day from Feb. 01 to 28, 2014

We got scared reading about the Widow Year,
but we are also pressured since I may have a difficult pregnancy, if having my first child at 34 or 35 years old (born April 1980).

Hope you can help us.

Thank you very much, Master Tong!
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Hi Betty Chua

No such thing as widow year cannot get married. If yes, all hotels should be vacant for 2013, but on the other hand, mostly full already. So long as your zodiac don't clash that yr will do.

8/12 and 8/1 are general good dates for wedding. U can use those 2 dates if you are looking at general dates only.

Hope this helps
 
Hi Master Tong,

Would like to check if the date is suitable for wedding 09 Nov 2013. Or any good weekend date for 4th quarter of 2013?

Groom: Dec 1985 (Ox)
Bride: Oct 1985 (Ox)

Groom Dad: Apr 1955 (Sheep)
Groom Mum: Aug 1959 (Pig)

Bride Dad: May 1956 (Monkey)
Bride Mum: Sep 1962 (Tiger)

Thank you..
 
Hi Master Tong,

My warm greetings to you. I happened to see this website and we sincerely will like to know about the good wedding dates in 2nd half of 2013 or in 1st half of 2014 for myself and my future wife.

Groom: Snake (26 Oct 1977)
Bride: Pig (25 Oct 1983)

Groom's Dad: Dog (16 Jan 1947)
Groom's Mom: Pig (15 May 1947)

Bride's Dad: Goat (05 May 1955) - Deceased
Bride's Mom: Dog (17 Mar 1958)

Thank you very much for your time.

Max Rex
 
Hi Master Tong, we would like to enquire if 1/8/15/22/29 November 2014 are good dates. The couple's zodiac signs are tiger and dragon.
 
Hi Master Tong,

Would like to check if the date is suitable for marriage.
-2 nov 2013
-9 Nov 2013
-16 Nov 2013
-23 Nov 2013
-28 Dec 2013

Groom: 24 Sept 1983 (Pig)
Bride: 12 Nov 1986 (tiger)

Groom Dad: 1957 (Rooster)
Groom Mum: 1961 (Ox)

Bride Dad: Jun 1957 (Rooster)
Bride Mum: Sep 1960 (Rat)

Thank you!
 
Hi Master Tong sorry for the double post but here are more details
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. Would like to check if any of these dates are suitable wedding dates?

1/8/15/22/29 Nov 2014

Groom: Mar 1986 (Tiger)
Bride: June 1988 (Dragon)

Groom Mum: Dec 1963 (Rabbit)

Bride Dad: Dec 1959 (Pig)
Bride Mum: Jan 1960 (Pig)

Thank you v much in adv!
 
Hi Max Rex

2013 is a bad yr for wedding as snake yr clashes with your wife born in pig year. Best is 2014. But the tong Shu for 2014 will only be out next year 7th lunar month, hence if you looking at only general dates, can only do it then. Right now only way is using bazi to select
 
Hi A Neo

Only 29/11 doesn't clash to anyone. Will have to wait till tong Shu is out to check if it is a general good date or not

Hope this helps
 
Hi Master Tong, I would like to check if 31/12/13 or 13/12/13 is a good day for marriage?

Groom: Dog
Bride: Dragon

Groom's dad: Dog
Groom's mum: Horse
Bride's dad: Monkey
Bride's mum: Rooster

Thank you!
 
Hi Master Tong,

Please advise is the following date suitable for our wedding in 2013.

Wedding date: 07 July 2013 & 07 Sept 2013.

Groom: 03 March 1983 (pig)
Bride: 07 April 1986 (tiger)

Groom dad: deceased
Groom mum: 28 May 1956 (monkey)

Bride dad: May 1947 (pig)
Bride mum: 25 March 1950 (tiger)

Thank you
 
Hi Eevonne

Both are general tong Shu good dates for wedding

However, as groom is born pig year, 2013 snake yr clashes to him and is a bad year for wedding for him. If possible avoid getting married in 2013
 
Master Tong,

Need your advise here. Earlier I have engaged a fengshui master (recommended by friend) to find a suitable date for wedding (coz tong shu not out). The master given me 06-oct-2013. However, I saw from a Iphone App for tong shu which indicates 06-oct-2013 not suitable for wedding. I am worried. Can you advise.. Thanks!
 
Hi Master Tong!

Appreciate if you could advise on auspicious wedding dates for Jan, March - May 2014.

Groom: Rooster, 9 Sept 1981
Bride: Dragon, 15 Aug 1988

Groom's
Mum: Pig, 18 October 1947
Dad: Rooster, 28 Jan 1946

Bride's
Mum: Sheep, 6 March 1955
Dad: Tiger, 8 October 1950
 
Hi Master Tong,

Hope you can advise on a non clashing date(sat) for Q4(oct - Dec) 2014.

Wedding date: 4,11,18,25 Oct 2014 1,8,15,22,29 Nov 2014, 6,13,20,27 Dec 2014

Groom: 08 Jan 1984 (Pig)
Bride: 30 Sept 1986 (Tiger)

Groom dad: 25 Oct 1955 (Goat)
Groom mum: 27 Jan 1958 (Rooster)

Bride dad: 08 Dec 1950(Tiger)
Bride mum: 13 Aug 1954(Horse)
 
Hi Master Tong,

I just saw the date from your previous post that 06 sep 2013 (Friday) is a PO RI (super bad day). My BF and I have checked with another fortune teller that it is a good date for us. Can you please advise?

Me: Rooster (1981)
Him: Horse (1978)
My BF's son : Rat (2009)
My BF's Father: Ox (1949)
My BF's Mother: Tiger (1950)
My Dad: Horse (1954)
My dad's remarried wife (Rabbit)

Thank you so much for your help. !
 
Master Tong,
My husband and I, both rats (1984)are having our wedding banquet on Oct 19 2013 (Already ROM-med on June 28 2012). Our good friend is having his wedding (he is also a rat, 1984. not sure of his wife to be) on January 10 2014. Understand that we are not supposed to attend any weddings 3 mths before / after our wedding. How strict is this 3 month rule? The difference here we are talking abt is 9 days. Is it material?
 
Hi Hc

Don't worry abt the tong Shu. It is inaccurate. If a feng shui master select for you the date using both your bazi, that date overrides the tong Shu dates.
 
Hi Cindy and Pepe

The tong Shu will only be out next year after 7th lunar month. So if you only looking at general good dates, I can only check next year after it is out. For now,the only way and correct way will be using bazi to select
 
Hi Catherine

2013 is a snake year. And 6th sept is a Pig day. And snake and pig clashes, which is why that day is a bad day. When you open the tong Shu it is a Po Ri. Whichever method you use, that day is a bad day. I can't comment on how he derived this date though. Hope this helps.
 
Hi Zhao Min

If you want to be very accurate, usually it will be 100days before and after your wedding, cannot attend red n white events. This is our Chinese belief, so no way to measure right or wrong. But best to follow since wedding is once in a life time event
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Hi Master Tong,

Groom: 15 Aug 1986 (Tiger)
Bride: 03 Feb 1986 (Ox)

Groom's dad: 6 April 1953 (Snake)
Groom's mum: 16 May 1955 (Goat)

Bride's dad: 12 Jan 1954 (Snake)
Bride's mum: 05 Jan 1957 (Monkey)

Kindly advise on good dates that falls on Sundays, for November-December 2013? Thank you so much!!
 

Dear Master Tong,

Thanks for your advice, If I understand you correctly, the wedding dates must be a general good date in the first place and probably the couple will be to choose these dates that is best fit the groom's parent, bride's parent, bride and groom.

My fengshui master calculated our Bazi by the time and year we born. Would it be possible that a general bad date could be a good date for wedding for couple (like a customised calculation?
 
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