hi Dora,
*big hug* for u! Keep ur chin up k? Wedding preps involve alot of decision-making & sometimes guys just get put off having to make the decisions.. Afterall, u gotta admit, often at a wedding, the bride is the centre of attraction & the star of the day, the groom is somewhat a side-kick?
I guess also due to the fact tt u've ROM, legally married for 3 years, the excitement is no longer there?? Maybe u shd write a nice email to him, penning down the little sweet moments u enjoyed with him when u 2 first got together.. It's kind of taking time off the preps & reminding both urself & ur HB what were the things which brought u 2 together
U can always talk to ur ILs & ask them to prepare their guest list, u get ur parents to prep theirs & ur prep ur own.. Tell ur HB the deadline & if he doesnt get his done, he basically wun be having colleagues & frens amonst the guest.. Tt shd get his butt moving!! It's going to be a gd wake-up call for him when he knows his parents are already prepared & he is still yaya-papaya-ing! In the meantime, on ur part, just prepare additional 2-3 tables for his input..
U are right, u've done alot of things liao.. The rest will get better if u're going to think positive k? Jiajia you! U can come in here & air ur frustrations