What are the sweet and lovely thing u will do for someone u like/ love?

Hi, Pride

Don't get me wrong lei...I asked because I thought something happened previously that cause you to loss interest or confident in r/s...sometime we need go dating with guy to understand him better and vice versa...initially it may be to occupy his time but you won't know, he may grow to like you when he know you better...fate is a very funny thing...

Btw, how old are you?
 


Hi Outcast,

No worries
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Yea... i think so... but sometimes just feel confused... curious whats in his mind...
 
Hi, milo

No lah, I don't meant to say powder is not honest or 'normal'...from the way he writes and comments...he came across to me as a knowledgeable, suave and matured guy with some weird thoughts but sometime a litte too arrogant lah...yalor...may be he is well travelled and entertained...know a lot of mamasan and girls...so have different taste for woman....

Powder...so you find your wife physically more sexy or her mind...all the while like this since you first know her or changes with time?....hold your hand to your heart and answer...cannot play cheat...
 
Outcast,

i dun think u would be able to grasp the spiritual aspects that i view life with.

milo is rite, i am Heavily exposed to pretty women, i have had countless opportunities, i see no need to have an orgasm with a pretty face... after the orgasm, tat's it. i get nothing, do i? i dun see any value in it.

my wife is simple n normal, with a tremendous heart to understand me n trust me.
 
btw, if u need me to hold my hand to my heart, u probably won't believe me if i do, your views on things are still shallow for now, u're not able to see beyond the physicals, n expectations.
 
Wah...can you humble abit and give chance huh...what cannot grasp and shallow....ya...I may not as experience and expose as you but you don't have to put down people like that ma...sometime cannot tahan you....very blunt you know....are you quiet by nature? Are you a scorpion?
 
Powder, if most guys think like you do, there won't be so much infidelity. For one, I'm attracted to guys who are indifferent to babes. Very charming. But not easy to find such a guy, in fact a lady just have to wear slightly lesser and she will notice alot of roving eyes.
 
Outcast,

didn't u want me to be honest? now u prefer me to 'give chance'...

i dun think i'm putting u down, just telling u that u won't be able to understand what u want me to tell u. i'm not scorpion, i'm honest.
 
Aiya, miyako..those people like him that is indifferent to babe are weird people...he remind me of one couple...æˆé¾™ä¸Žæž—风娇...the wife must support the hubby silently and invisibly..very understaning and unassuming....tough to be such people wife...may be I am not spiritual and deep enough...he is near heaven and I am still on the ground.....

But becareful of guy that are indifferent to babe, may be some really find mind more sexy but some maybe gay....
 
Miyako,

seeing pretty things, everyone likes. needing to have sex with a pretty face, not necessarily fulfilling. to be honest, i think i'm indifferent becos it is so readily available to me... when u have such easy access to anything, u are less likely to treasure and 'act upon' the opportunity.
 
Yalah, yalah...prefer you to be honest lah...mr honest....cheh...don't think I don't understand ok...not all but roughly...

You speak like a monk you know....no wonder indifferent...
 
Outcast, that's the reason why u are shallow. and also why i dun need to pretend u're not.

yes, if i dun wanna fcuk all the pretty women i meet, it is becos i wanna fcuk all the guys instead. excellent deduction!

smack-on! u should devise national policies.

but really, if u look like christy chung, i dun even wanna have dinner with u, let alone date u. it must be painful to even ask u for directions.
 
Cheh, I didn't say man that are indifferent to babe is definitely a gay...don't be too smart ok.....

Lucky you are not the only guy left in singapore...so I am not worried and you are married....cheers!
 
Powder, yup understood. Perhaps that's why I'm taking my bf for granted because he's so 'readily available'. Humans like to hanker over the 'unreachable'. Don't know if it's 'fang jian' or what.

Outcast, although I don't know Powder personally, I feel that there's truth in what he says. Yes he might not put it across the way that you like it, but I'm quite sure he does not mean it in a bad way too. Sometimes I hear the cruel facts which is good.. Rather than living in a lie. He does a pretty good job in bursting my bubbles. Haha.
 
Tingyi

But if you look around, pretty face is the one with the upper hand and getting all the attention and rewards...this is the fact of life...I seem so many cases happening around me...so its still better to be a pretty face and they not necessary without brain and big heart....

Miyako

I am ok with powder's attitude lah...don't have to be so serious lor...he is entitle to his view and I entitle to mine...no heart feeling...I am not going to loss sleep over it....sweet dream everyone!
 
Miyako,

gotta assess if it's becos of that... if it is, u know what to do liao. some women like to tame wild horses, they tend to go for bad boy types n try to change them, thinking that they are the chosen girl to finally tame this wild horse. normally will end up getting hurt.

ya, also got the married men... the ones who seem nice, and normally turn out to be happy. of cos if the guy wants to the chance as well, his marriage will probably be a 'sad' one and usual story abt lousy wife... then as a girl u have the tendency to wanna sayang him.
 
Outcast,

yes it's definitely true that good-looking pple have the upper and in most things. but i dun think tat necessarily translate to them being sought-after life partners... u need more than looks to have a happy marriage. in fact i dun think looks are even that impt for a life partner...

wanting to fcuk a pretty face, and making love with someone who connects with u spiritually... the second one is wayyyy more fulfuilling.

yup i'm really lucky not to be the only guy left in spore, everyday i thank my lucky stars for that. i can't imagine the consequences of that... i'll definitely be caged up, going by the nature n tendencies of women.

i dun speak like a monk, i just dun speak like i will fcuk anything that moves, has a vagina n a prettyface.
 
Powder, from the way you shared, I believe you cherish your wife and family very much. That is most important but not necessary easy to do. Humans are easily uncontented and likes to take people/things for granted. Just look at the amount of 'disgruntled voices' within us and around us.

Although I don't have the experience, I can understand about fxxx someone whom you do not connect through the heart or have no feelings for. It's just an 'act' that pleasures you but at the end of it, your heart does not feel fulfilled and you feel empty. We don't call it 'making love' for nothing.

Yes of course, who does not like beautiful things? They are meant to make life more pleasing to the eye.
 
Nice to look at and life partner is for sure different things lah.

Firstly, let's not pretend our instincts doesn't exist. We would instinctive be attracted to beautiful people. But, marrying them is not even the question here mah.

Secondly, when powder mentioned he preferred brains than looks. He is speaking on the context of life partner which I agree with. Nothing weird about that. And the assumption that somehow his wife is not physically attractive to him is a weird one. And to suggest he is a monk?
Come on, monks are also men with normal sexual instincts.

In the nutshell, both of you are speaking of different things to begin with. Why the personal assumptions and suggestions of gayness etc? its pretty uncalled for.

And powder, any guys that honestly admits to his lust also don't automatically wants to bed any babe lah. Monks, prists or whatsoever, we are just normal men.
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Oh...we are still in this topic huh....at least one thing in common...I agree that I may be attracted to a handson guy but that doent mean I want to go to bed with him or marry him....life partner is different....I am at the beach now...weather is fantastic today...life is beautiful....enjoy!
 
yes Outcast, wasn't that my point in the first place...

so i was wondering why u think i'm not being truthful when i said i'm indifferent (to pretty girls or watever).
 
well milo, so easy to follow dick, downfall comes fast. fulfilment comes in many forms... not always lust n sexual. i get a bigger orgasm from doing deals n making money
 
Ok ok...may be we are talking about different things...when I talked about the ah lian, its purely those with no commitment or ONS type of attraction...not about life partner...life partner is of course more than appearance....the question about your wife..don't meant to be rude..if yes..I take back...bloody hot today..
 
not offended at all la, i'm very straight talking too. my wife is modern like most of u ladies, but she retains the kind of values like our mum's generation. i have alot of love for women of our mums era... cos i have a similar character.. can take alot of shit, with alot of love for pple.
 
Hi, Tingyi

You like beach too?...what do you usually like to do at the beach? Some of my lady friends don't like any activities under the sun..scare of wringles lor...

Powder

No doubt there are a lot of good values during our mom's era but I don't like the blind sacrifices they make for their family regardless of the reasons or their won happiness...like my mom...I will never be a single mom like her...why make yourself and the kid so miserable....both deserve a better life....pretty dumb...
 
The 'blind suffering' are probably made from the goodness of their hearts. I think it's an admirable trait. Single mum or not, everyone goes through times of suffering. Some more than others. But this doesn't mean that complete families don't suffer too or are assured 'better lives'. It's just a matter of how we deal with it.
 
Anyway my contribution to Pride's question: my husband helped me apply the dressing every day when I had a terrible wound on my leg, even I cringed at the sight... and thought of it.
 
Outcast,

Your single mother is unhappy and miserable?

And even so, not every single parent is unhappy and miserable. And kids of single parents not necessary miserable.

And regarding Ah Lians throwing at us.. no, we don't necessary take a second look.. even for flings..
 
Ok...my mom is much better now...at least from outside...probably she has resigned to her fate...but I always felt she deserve better...at least have someone to share her life with...like a life partner...yes...she is a very resilent lady...goes through a lot of shit and knock...to pride's question...the sweetest thing done for me is not from my bf but my mom...she saved on herself and bought a laptop for me as a present during my poly time which we ill affort to then so that I don't have to stay in school everytime and I am not disadvantage as comperaed to others....she don't know anything about computer but she asked around...the laptop is not working now but its still with me.....
 
Outcast>> your mom is damm sweet and nice to you. But i believe maybe to her, her greatest happiness is to have you in her life than anything else.
 
nichie, I am a outdoor person so v tanned, go swim for at least 5 times a week and i went cycling @ pasir ris beach/ECP too...luv the beach!!
 
outcast,

Have you ever have a heart-to-heart talk with your mum? Is she really happy? You think she deserve someone to share her life with.. But what about her thinking? Don't think for her.

Not everyone must die-die have a life partner..
 
swim 5 times a week?
Ting Yi, u swim during your lunch hours? Else, normally on the weekdays, there is always no sun left by the time we exercise.
 
Susanna & Outcast, you not worried about photoaging?

Once in a while I do go with my bf to sun tan at Sentosa but I apply sunblock and wear a cap.
 
Hi, Mrs ng

Do you really think that her greatest happiness is to have me in her life? When I am young and make her angry, she ever said that her greatest regret is to give birth to me...I remember it and use to hate her but as I grow older...this hatred slowly fated away because I saw how hard life was for her...but she never said she love me before...I always thought I am a burden to her...tonite when I look at her sitting on her bed rubbing medicated oil on her leg...I realise my mom is getting old...and she has no one but me to rely on...sometime I thought may be its my fault that she is in such situation althought I don't want it to be this way..
 
milo, im not working now :-) so I go ard noon time.
bobian, i m those who put on weight easily especially if staying idle at hme so gotta spend 1-2hrs exercise daily.

Doll, actually quite scared so I always swim in the little shade + apply lotsa sunblock. I used to go sentosa too but then it's quite a distance fr my hse so u wear bikini lah..heehee..
 
SM

If you didn't ask and I didn't think about it, I will not realise that we have not such heart-to-heart talk before....my relationship with my mom is a turbulence one...I am quite rebellious when young due to my background...often made my mom angry and she will scold and beat me...and I will shout back at her...I didn't feel she love me at all...our relationship only get better much later but the damage have been done I guess...we can never open our heart again...I hope she can find her own happiness and not so lonely...even I want to talk to her I doubt she will open out to me...
 
nichie, how about now? I had my fair share of rebellious days too, the most impt is to look forward and not at the past.
Do spend more time with her to rekindle the kinship.
 
Tingyi

Wah...envy lei...you are a taitai now...very day go beach to swim and cycle...you must be very fit...so are you into triathlon or did you take part in the safra bay run recently? How abt the coming stanchart run?

Put on weight easily? What is your wt and ht?
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Why go around noon time and not morning or late afternoon since you have all the time you want? You wear bikini too?
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Same here, I will defintely put on sunblock when out under the sun but I seldom sun tan...
 
No lah, I never quarrel or shout at her anymore because I know she is the closest person to me in this whole world...we only have each other...yes..I think I need to spend more time with her...thanks.
 
nichie, im far from being a taitai, we are not rich leh :p
juz preparing for my hb's overseas posting so i hv some spare time now, I did not go to the beach everyday lah...I go to the public pool as well. Definitely not fit :p, I can't run and everybody will be at home when I reach the finishing point. This actually happened during my school days lor...
How about u? Did you participate in the marathon?
I follow my mum and we are those who put on weight easily. Can you imagine that i pile on 30kgs when I was pregnant? Almost hit 100kg! No joke...My ex colls even gave me the nick - ah pui heeheehee..
I m 165cm and 54kgs now, morning till afternoon, i spend time with my mum and gal and when she's back from school, I will sneak off for the swim while she's taking her afternoon nap. Like to spend more time with them especially when im not working now
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Eh i've no figure for bikini leh...probably will make those at the pool puke...im not those sexy or chio type~

Me too, just find as time goes by, jus want to spend time with my parents more ~
 
Susanna, swimming in the shade may not help much as the sun rays can still get to you from the reflection of the water. Just apply lotsa sunblock.

Actually, I am a dry duck aka can't swim. I just like to dip in seawater. It's good for blood circulation and the muscles because your body is constantly keeping a balance in "moving" water.
 


ting yi, i duno about u but swimming for me is more recovery therapy exercises. Basically, not very effective in cutting fat.

If you want to shed the fat effectively, read up on HITT and HIRT. And the best time for fat burning is in the morning before any food. This is the time where your body has the least insulin. So, all the energy used is not from your sugar and carbo intake.

I talk alot about all the fat burning technique but my exercise regime is basically bodybuilding only. I hate cardio. :p
 
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