What are the sweet and lovely thing u will do for someone u like/ love?


when i was about 7-8 months' pregnant with my first child, my husband was hospitalised for severe food poisoning at SGH and just so happened that my dad underwent heart bypass surgery there too. so even with my swollen ankles, feeling bloated and uncomfortable, i came to the hospital every day to visit my husband and then when he takes his nap, will shuffle slowly to the other block to visit my dad in ICU and then walk back to my husband's room. did this for several days while they were admitted. this to me, is love.
 
when ex-HB deferred a purchase of his dream car just so that he could buy a jewellery suite for me.

i didnt know he deferred it, until i heard from his friend.

i didnt ask him for the jewellery suite, i only mentioned that i liked it.

i returned the jewellery suite after the divorce. he can keep it as his family heirloom
 
I believe everyone has a fair share of their stories...
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In my case, one of the recent ones shall be those times I underwent an open heart surgery in SGH this year. Videotaped his encouragement and accompany me throughout my stay in ICU and high dependency ward. Feed me, help me etc. No doubt he is tired, he will be with me everyday from morning till night without fail..
 
For me, I treat my MIL well, respect and love her as much as he does..His bro is staying with us and altho I do not like certain of his behaviours (he has terrible personal hygiene problems), I accomodate with the differences...

For him, he makes breakfast in the morning because I need more time to prepare for work..Also, he is always ready with heat pack whenever I have menstrual cramps..
 
I was asked to accompany my sis to New York by my BIL who was worried for my sis alone there for business trip. During this 1 week my BF will call my kids every night to check on them and update me via skype. He offered to spend a day with them by fetching them to my house to play wii which was bought by him and skype with me together with the kids. This really meant alot to me.

To me meeting my love one with the right love language is sweet.
 
When you are dating and in love.. everything is sweet.. is there anything sweeter?

I remembered.. that was when I first learn how to drink kopi-O kosong.

No need sugar in coffee when you are in love.
 
"No need sugar in coffee when you are in love."

Wahahahahhahahaa...very true. Even bittergourd also tastes like kaya toast when you are in love.
 
No need sugar in coffee when you are in love = Just being curious, have you gotten used to drinking without sugar? Do you still need sugar in your coffee now? keke...
 
since im here i might as well confess something.

i still have a diamond necklace from him with me.

it was passed down from his late grandmother.

his mother asked me if i could return it.

at first i told her yes.

then my mum told me why be so kind to return it. divorce means split already, right.

so up to this day, i have not returned it. partially because i agreed with what my mum said and partially because of sheer laziness and heck-care-ness

i feel wrecked with guilt. i feel terrible.

i dont want to look at it or use it, just pretend it is not there. dont know what to do with it.
 
it is quite expensive, but i suspect other DILs in the family got nicer jewellery than me, so im also keeping it out of revenge why the DILs got better pieces ...

ah ... im revisiting the hatred and the poison again. just hate it
 
its not the things that is more important. Its simply enjoying the moment together with the one we love and cherish. Every minor thing can be sweet when one is spending quality time together.

Just had lunch with wife. And its sweet & nice.
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If its me, I would return it. I mean she take the trouble and thick skin to ask it back, I wouldn't act blur lah.
 
I like fantasy's post. =>

May: Since u dun intend to return the necklace, then dun keep also la. Sell it off n use the $ to pamper urself w a nice spa package or holiday or tech gadget or bag.

Milo: How come u have time to meet ur wife for lunch? U're self-employed?
 
Evon, why not? Just drive down. Not that far.

My company doesn't monitor my movement under their noses. And its not 8-6 either. In fact, I lunch regularly with my mother. Its a simple way to bond with our loved ones.
 
Hi, milo

I have been reading your post and find that you are quite a logical, responsible, mature, caring, loving....etc guy..kind of like no flaw lei...are you really like that in real life? If yes, wah...your wife is very lucky...so are you what we see what we get?

How old are you? What is your weight and height?
 
Same for you sm, you make it as if its so fun and hype to be a divorcee and better to be divorced than being married...hmm..you are such an understanding and logical guy from your post, wonder why your wife divorce you...or the other way round...
 
It's passed down from late grandmother hence it's of sentimental value.

I might juz keep the jewellery suite while return the late grandma's jewellery.
 
Flaw or no flaw.... subjective....
I'm probably one impatient driver on the road that you would curse at.

What's important is living our lives to the fullest possible and being honest with ourselves.

I will not be one of those drivers that would leave namecards behind. Because I know how ridiculous some claims can be. One needs some common sense and not be eaten by others. Everyone is capable of being nice and mean. In a way, we can decide how we want to respond.

Height, weight har.... avg 30+ yr guy loh. On the heavier side.
 
Love is a daily affair....

Making sure he has clean & ironed clothes, food for his meals. Learn new recipes to cook new healthy dishes, bake his favourite cakes and muffins, cook his favourite food, clean up his cooking mess. Being independent and taking good care of myself and baby so that he dun have to worry about domestic affair.. tell him i love him too...

For him, looked into my eyes and tells me he love me, call me during every lunchbreak, after work, cook for me on weekends, taking care of baby when he is home, get me stuff i need, making sure i'm never alone in hospital when i had pregnancy complication, thanking me for everything i did for him, make sure im happy and call me sexy even after i gave birth!!!

We kiss and hug each other whenever we can get!! i love my hubby! and he knows that...
 
Wah milo, sound like you have not much 'defect'lei...

Alittle play cheat, why never tell us your wt n ht? Don't tell me such things also secret hor...on the heavier side..very vague lei...in my mind...you are handson n charming type...cannot be you have big belly and bald hor... I always tried to visualise how you and other look like by what you all have said here...eg job, family, interest, hobby etc...may be I will start a new thread for people to tell us some basic information of themselves so that we can have at least some visual attached to the nick...
 
Hi, Avocado

Really have a sweet feeling reading your post..may be is the food, healthy dish, cake n muffins smell
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I can see food form a quite important part in your relationship...is your hubby big in size?(With all the good foods you cook)
 
most 30+ surely got some tummy lah. Somemore my body type gain weight very easily combined with my love of food.

I'm no goodie 2 shoes guy. Defect or not, everything is really quite subjective. I surely do not fall in the category of the 5Cs or pure good guy expectation of no vices. Ok, I don't smoke nor sleep around. That's about it. I gamble, don't go church, watch porn. Go figure. I'm just another chap. I don't live to others expectations of me, why should anyone?
 
Kekeke...ok

Social gambling is ok, I buy 4D or toto sometime too, most people watch porn, you christian?

Of coures, we live based on our own will and expectation.
 
Hi Outcast

Cheers. He is six foot tall and about 82kg... so im not sure if he's big in your context...

this morning, i asked him about the sweet things i did for him , then he mentioned the love shaped post-it notes he finds on mornings sometimes (hubby, food in fridge).... haha, food-related..

to be honest, i am not born to cook (but always like baking) but cos im not working now (SAHM) on one year maternity leave, hence i make use of time at home to learn new things.. its also budget-friendly too....

but of all, the sweetest thing is to pray for each other when we don't know what else to do....
 
Thanks for sharing all the sweet and lovely stories...
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Been out of relationship for few years... almost forgot how does the feeling of being loved, being pampered and to love someone... trying to rem the sweet and lovely thing had before... but couldnt recalled ... sad hor...
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I think love is simple... a small gesture like a hug, a kiss... is sweet and lovely enuff
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ya, only if u like the guy... else try feeling sweet n simple if it comes from tat irritating ah beng chasing u, u know the one with the long fingernail on his pinkie? hehe
 
Avocado...wow..six foot tall...are you as tall?

Keke..heart-shape post-it..very cute lei..

You have one year maternity leave!? Paid?
 
Wah..pride..what happen..a few years without relationship...ya..I think we lady need to be loved to feel good and needed...
 
Powder

I bet if a very pretty and sexy ah lian chase after you..not only you won't feel irritated but will also always drink kopi_o without sugar lor...horrrrrrrr...must be honest ok...
 
for ONS kind of fantasy... The sex appeal is there.

But if everyday face brainless bimbo, can be really irritating.
 
hi outcast,

Y? i always believe to get the right person rather than to rush into a r/s cuz of hunger of love, attention, pamper etc...
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but will my mr right appear? nobody know... haha
 
Outcast, everyone has different taste and exposure. Powder's job probably has a lot of entertainment. Powder is just being honest.
 
Pride, being proactively seeking isn't rushing. When you just wait, u r leaving things to chances only. If opportunity doesn't come, would you just continue waiting?

For sure no need to rush. As long you maintain an active lifestyle and social cycle, opportunity will be there.
 


Hi Milo,

Yup. I understand...
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Sometimes when u met someone u really like... but u dunno how he actually feel towards u... he like u as well or he just need a company to occupied his times? that can be very lost...
 
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