depressed_guy
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This is rather a sad story which i eventually convinced that Woman's Charter still HAS some value.
Call this person Ms X. She's married for >5yrs with 4yr old daughter and ~2yr old son.
She and her husband staying just side by side flat with husband's family.
She has been on bad terms with MIL coz of her temper. And her MIL is VERY protective of son despite son is near 35yrs old.
The relation between Ms X and her MIL deteriorated to the worse extreme as she is often seen quarreling with her husband which her MIL is extremely displeased and been telling her son to divorce Ms X.
Ms X's husband is on rather bad terms with her now. With her MIL added pressure the marriage has already been running on interest remaining from the past love. And her MIL those typical aunties whom wants daughter in law to serve tea to her at her demands.
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Above is a short summary of the relationship and condition.
Currently they're on most extreme case.
Ms X's husband family been scolding her and telling her to get out of family.....to stop bothering her husband so he can find another wife more "obedient".
Ms X husband also been quarreling everyday since couple weeks back.
Just a week ago Ms X climbed onto the corridor parapet wanting to commit suicide......
The reaction received......husband told her "please carry on and stop making a scene" and he went out to chill out.
Her MIL keep taunting her with extremely hurting words like "please jump and don't make empty threat"
Only her own sister there begging her to come down......while her husband family telling her to go ahead and jump.
Eventually she didn't jump......but her MIL there mocking "i said she won't dare to jump".
Now Miss X suspect the birth document and passport of her children are withheld by husband since she cannot find it despite she was the one taking care of it.
On recent quarrel.....husband wanted to go police make report in attempt to file for Personal Protection Order (PPO) as wife used nails to scratch him......no weapons involved....just cat fight.
He has since opened a new bank account for self and have all pay banked into new account instead of their common shared bank account.
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Seeing all these scenario can sort of concluded the husband is bent of chasing the wife away while making preparation.
Her 2 children dislikes husband's family. But her MIL feels very sore the kids is more attached to Ms X's family thus forbid any of her family from visiting the kids.
Any advice what Ms X should follow up next?
This is not an illustrated story....need some advice.
Call this person Ms X. She's married for >5yrs with 4yr old daughter and ~2yr old son.
She and her husband staying just side by side flat with husband's family.
She has been on bad terms with MIL coz of her temper. And her MIL is VERY protective of son despite son is near 35yrs old.
The relation between Ms X and her MIL deteriorated to the worse extreme as she is often seen quarreling with her husband which her MIL is extremely displeased and been telling her son to divorce Ms X.
Ms X's husband is on rather bad terms with her now. With her MIL added pressure the marriage has already been running on interest remaining from the past love. And her MIL those typical aunties whom wants daughter in law to serve tea to her at her demands.
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Above is a short summary of the relationship and condition.
Currently they're on most extreme case.
Ms X's husband family been scolding her and telling her to get out of family.....to stop bothering her husband so he can find another wife more "obedient".
Ms X husband also been quarreling everyday since couple weeks back.
Just a week ago Ms X climbed onto the corridor parapet wanting to commit suicide......
The reaction received......husband told her "please carry on and stop making a scene" and he went out to chill out.
Her MIL keep taunting her with extremely hurting words like "please jump and don't make empty threat"
Only her own sister there begging her to come down......while her husband family telling her to go ahead and jump.
Eventually she didn't jump......but her MIL there mocking "i said she won't dare to jump".
Now Miss X suspect the birth document and passport of her children are withheld by husband since she cannot find it despite she was the one taking care of it.
On recent quarrel.....husband wanted to go police make report in attempt to file for Personal Protection Order (PPO) as wife used nails to scratch him......no weapons involved....just cat fight.
He has since opened a new bank account for self and have all pay banked into new account instead of their common shared bank account.
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Seeing all these scenario can sort of concluded the husband is bent of chasing the wife away while making preparation.
Her 2 children dislikes husband's family. But her MIL feels very sore the kids is more attached to Ms X's family thus forbid any of her family from visiting the kids.
Any advice what Ms X should follow up next?
This is not an illustrated story....need some advice.
