Tell me?? how to stop her from giving my things..
- Thread starter zolyn
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who? me? eh, i dont really get it you know.. why are the people here overly sensitive huh?? but anyway, nvm, i wont argue with you. you guys are somehow the experts here. not gonna offend any of you. =) i'm just a newbie. say wrongly, i apologize. we good? or you're gonna examine my comments word by word? if not, i'm really pleased to hear. anyway, i'm outta here. ciao!
nothing with u being a newbie, there's no seniority in a forum.
i'll give u the benefit of a doubt and try to explain to u... basically when u said "sometimes when ppl are not facing same problem, they dunno how it feels. sometimes things are easier said than done", u're basically slapping everyone who doesn't share the same exact problem makeup as Zolyn. (so it's not me being overly sensitive, but u being absolutely insensitive to the time some have spent trying to solve her problems)
so if that's so, why even need to start a thread seeking for solutions?
it's not abt liking each other or anything... it's abt solving problems. u dun like the nurse, u still wanna cure your cancer rite? the nurse dun like yur face, she still gotta fulfill her medical obligations rite?
u guys are too caught up in feelings...
i'll give u the benefit of a doubt and try to explain to u... basically when u said "sometimes when ppl are not facing same problem, they dunno how it feels. sometimes things are easier said than done", u're basically slapping everyone who doesn't share the same exact problem makeup as Zolyn. (so it's not me being overly sensitive, but u being absolutely insensitive to the time some have spent trying to solve her problems)
so if that's so, why even need to start a thread seeking for solutions?
it's not abt liking each other or anything... it's abt solving problems. u dun like the nurse, u still wanna cure your cancer rite? the nurse dun like yur face, she still gotta fulfill her medical obligations rite?
u guys are too caught up in feelings...
powder,
maybe after so long.. it is us who haven't learn..
Mostly all they need is hugs, lots of love.. understand their situation.. ok... no harsh words.. no negative comments.. etc etc etc
Like this thread.. it is utterly useless... suffer for 1 year for the problem.. when it can be solved easily by talking to hb and telling other people.. then saying hb thinks she is petty... come here ask for what to do.. then almost immediately.. hb becomes understanding.. and problem resolved?
So in the 1 year. why didn't she talk to hb and make him understand.. and suffer for it?
Just puzzling to me..
they are not here to solve problem.. just for someone to listen and agree to their words..
maybe after so long.. it is us who haven't learn..
Mostly all they need is hugs, lots of love.. understand their situation.. ok... no harsh words.. no negative comments.. etc etc etc
Like this thread.. it is utterly useless... suffer for 1 year for the problem.. when it can be solved easily by talking to hb and telling other people.. then saying hb thinks she is petty... come here ask for what to do.. then almost immediately.. hb becomes understanding.. and problem resolved?
So in the 1 year. why didn't she talk to hb and make him understand.. and suffer for it?
Just puzzling to me..
they are not here to solve problem.. just for someone to listen and agree to their words..
i guess u're rite. and i know u are. i kept my mouth shut most of the time here anyway except stating the obvious... dun buy - problem solved, lock it up - problem solved.
until u shift out of a house that has thieves, u simply have to guard against them. i dun see any good in shouting 'thief' everytime when it's not something that's new... in fact the problem has been around for awhile.
also, there's an obvious prejudice against the china-SIL... i mean, all these things all add-up. if one is really seeking harmony, then one's conversation would have already steered to that direction by this point of the thread... but at this point of the thread it's still the same bitching and more incidences... then it's obvious that solutions were never an integral part of starting this thread.
most pple with a decent understanding of the world, would have seen it.
so i have to apologise to lolliepop for the harsh words, but seriously - u didn't see it, nor were u able to see it. YET, u made a comment that slapped everyone without realising it... so what was expected of the forummers here in the first place? have u even thought abt that?
until u shift out of a house that has thieves, u simply have to guard against them. i dun see any good in shouting 'thief' everytime when it's not something that's new... in fact the problem has been around for awhile.
also, there's an obvious prejudice against the china-SIL... i mean, all these things all add-up. if one is really seeking harmony, then one's conversation would have already steered to that direction by this point of the thread... but at this point of the thread it's still the same bitching and more incidences... then it's obvious that solutions were never an integral part of starting this thread.
most pple with a decent understanding of the world, would have seen it.
so i have to apologise to lolliepop for the harsh words, but seriously - u didn't see it, nor were u able to see it. YET, u made a comment that slapped everyone without realising it... so what was expected of the forummers here in the first place? have u even thought abt that?
Powder,
You are senior member in this forum, therefore you should have better experience or advise for us.. the way you said, you are hurting lolliepop.
Since this thread obviously BELOW you, why are you keep reading it. Then it time for you to stop. If you keep posting, then you are telling everyone in this thread you are below. Sorry, if offence you.
You are senior member in this forum, therefore you should have better experience or advise for us.. the way you said, you are hurting lolliepop.
Since this thread obviously BELOW you, why are you keep reading it. Then it time for you to stop. If you keep posting, then you are telling everyone in this thread you are below. Sorry, if offence you.
they examine ur sentences word by word just to make sure everything's perfect. i'll say, drop it. lol.Zolyn,
it has nothing to do with seniority. i can be a newbie and still have more reason than both of u... so dun use that against me, and insult my ability to reason. dun mention my experience nor advise when u weren't even bothered to answer prior to my last post.
the only way for me to hurt lolliepop is for lolliepop to allow me to hurt her... if she wants to grasp the depth of what i'm saying, she would never feel hurt...
by the way i was telling lolliepop and u, "sori, but the if that's the level of thinking u guys are at, then this thread is obviously BELOW me."
the reason why i'm replying to u now is out of courtesy.
the reason i replied to lolliepop is out of benefit of a doubt that she couldn't see it.
sm isn't at that level of thinking, so i reply him.
IF u think using that "BELOW" statement against me is a very wise thing to do, then think again.
by the way, i'm not offended. i'm just not afraid to be straight to tell u guys that u have a serious problem which will continue to manifest in your lives if u dun set it right...
it has nothing to do with seniority. i can be a newbie and still have more reason than both of u... so dun use that against me, and insult my ability to reason. dun mention my experience nor advise when u weren't even bothered to answer prior to my last post.
the only way for me to hurt lolliepop is for lolliepop to allow me to hurt her... if she wants to grasp the depth of what i'm saying, she would never feel hurt...
by the way i was telling lolliepop and u, "sori, but the if that's the level of thinking u guys are at, then this thread is obviously BELOW me."
the reason why i'm replying to u now is out of courtesy.
the reason i replied to lolliepop is out of benefit of a doubt that she couldn't see it.
sm isn't at that level of thinking, so i reply him.
IF u think using that "BELOW" statement against me is a very wise thing to do, then think again.
by the way, i'm not offended. i'm just not afraid to be straight to tell u guys that u have a serious problem which will continue to manifest in your lives if u dun set it right...
powder,
actually, it has nothing to do with my real life. seriously. when i said those words to Zolyn, it was purely just to kinda comfort her. i believe she's wise enough to follow some advises here. but i said that only to, again, comfort her.
and, yes, i'm not at all offended or hurt by whatever you said. because i believe everyone has their own opinions about things. so, by all means, say anything. when i find it useful, i'll read it touroughly, if i don't like certain things, all i do i scroll down and not take it too heart. life is so much easier that way.
actually, it has nothing to do with my real life. seriously. when i said those words to Zolyn, it was purely just to kinda comfort her. i believe she's wise enough to follow some advises here. but i said that only to, again, comfort her.
and, yes, i'm not at all offended or hurt by whatever you said. because i believe everyone has their own opinions about things. so, by all means, say anything. when i find it useful, i'll read it touroughly, if i don't like certain things, all i do i scroll down and not take it too heart. life is so much easier that way.
zolyn,
Obviously, you still have a problem with people reading and replying.
This is an open forum.. anyone can continue to read.. we stop when we like it.. and continue to reply if we want.. and stop if we think it is getting nowhere.. not for you to say even if you started this thread.
Of course if you are not happy, we can't help it. YOu can ask for the thread to be removed.
Obviously, you still have a problem with people reading and replying.
This is an open forum.. anyone can continue to read.. we stop when we like it.. and continue to reply if we want.. and stop if we think it is getting nowhere.. not for you to say even if you started this thread.
Of course if you are not happy, we can't help it. YOu can ask for the thread to be removed.
sgbabydoll
Active Member
Wah, case still not closed yet ah?
sgbabydoll
Active Member
Zolyn, my unsolicited advice for you - If you start a thread to receive hugs and kisses, do not state that you want comments, advices or suggestions. It's misleading to others that you are interested beyond ranting about some domestic affairs.
Doll...
Dont you think this case should be closed.
All,
This matter is solved. More or less you guys advise, is already taken to action..
I appreciated.
** I do understand that different people, different point of view. It's also we are in different angle to see thing. No hard feeling.
see you guys in other thread..
Dont you think this case should be closed.
All,
This matter is solved. More or less you guys advise, is already taken to action..
I appreciated.
** I do understand that different people, different point of view. It's also we are in different angle to see thing. No hard feeling.
powderful07
New Member
Personally...
I find it simply shocking that you regulars can't seems to grasp the underlying essense of the threadstarter right from her first initial few posts..
Have you peeps lost that sense of observation without my majestic presence the past couple of weeks?
I would have flick the power switch on my flame-thrower to "Crispy Crisp" level on the first day already...
Admit it...you peeps need an arsehole like me around...
I find it simply shocking that you regulars can't seems to grasp the underlying essense of the threadstarter right from her first initial few posts..
Have you peeps lost that sense of observation without my majestic presence the past couple of weeks?
I would have flick the power switch on my flame-thrower to "Crispy Crisp" level on the first day already...
Admit it...you peeps need an arsehole like me around...
powderful07
New Member
powder...
That's the difference between you and me, I would have anticipated the ..."typical 'easier said than done' comments and the 'not in my shoes dun understand' comments"...and started throwing the Molotov cocktails...
sm...
Who asked our gathering got til so late...end up too tired to motivate my arse back to office...
That's the difference between you and me, I would have anticipated the ..."typical 'easier said than done' comments and the 'not in my shoes dun understand' comments"...and started throwing the Molotov cocktails...
sm...
Who asked our gathering got til so late...end up too tired to motivate my arse back to office...
powderful07
New Member
yah, she was virtually having body spasms when her body wasnt infused with alcohol...poor thing
miloice
Well-Known Member
hi lollipop,
sorry if I'm digging history from yesterday.
But, I need to point out that it isn't the case of powder or sm digging out every word and ensuring its all correct. That's an unfair statement that indirectly suggests that they are trouble makers out to find fault at others.
Honestly, its getting tiring and irritating, thread after thread, to have people coming in and shoot down anything that is not nice or agreeable to them, using the same excuses "u r not in my shoes so u will not understand" and "its easier said than done".
I can tell you, its about the most common excuse people have used to continue dwelling in their probs but not wanting to change it. If you stay around more and read into the thread. It is becoming a vicious cycle. There were even individuals that resorted to creating multiple account talking to herself to attempt to simulate some support for her strong anger to those that pointed out the issues.
sorry if I'm digging history from yesterday.
But, I need to point out that it isn't the case of powder or sm digging out every word and ensuring its all correct. That's an unfair statement that indirectly suggests that they are trouble makers out to find fault at others.
Honestly, its getting tiring and irritating, thread after thread, to have people coming in and shoot down anything that is not nice or agreeable to them, using the same excuses "u r not in my shoes so u will not understand" and "its easier said than done".
I can tell you, its about the most common excuse people have used to continue dwelling in their probs but not wanting to change it. If you stay around more and read into the thread. It is becoming a vicious cycle. There were even individuals that resorted to creating multiple account talking to herself to attempt to simulate some support for her strong anger to those that pointed out the issues.
Miloice,
"There were even individuals that resorted to creating multiple account talking to herself to attempt to simulate some support for her strong anger to those that pointed out the issues." This sound interesting..
Does people really doing that? How did you manage to find ou?, Can you show some tips, so that i can also be awared of such thing..
"There were even individuals that resorted to creating multiple account talking to herself to attempt to simulate some support for her strong anger to those that pointed out the issues." This sound interesting..
Does people really doing that? How did you manage to find ou?, Can you show some tips, so that i can also be awared of such thing..
miloice
Well-Known Member
Zolyn,
go read more post written by shortcake.
I simply escalated it to Chin Leng to confirm the point. With admin rights, he would know the source of the posts.
There is no award. That poster took things personally and made it an issue with those that advised or disagreed with her. And went on to hurl personal attacks on various threads.
go read more post written by shortcake.
I simply escalated it to Chin Leng to confirm the point. With admin rights, he would know the source of the posts.
There is no award. That poster took things personally and made it an issue with those that advised or disagreed with her. And went on to hurl personal attacks on various threads.
laundry_woes
New Member
simi sai?