Hi Ladies!
So many posts ... I'll like to give my two cents worth but I think I'll have to reread again!
Firstly, I think the reason why Marriott doesn't have the service of bringing food up is because they will be giving you a $60 voucher for your before or after dining use in your suite. That $60 should be sufficient to cover your meals la.
As for the real cake, I think if I'm not wrong, you can actually choose the cake (choose the most expensive one la!) and have them bring it up to you after the wedding for you to enjoy at your own pleasure. Having a dummy cake there is for viewing pleasure. At first I also wanted a real cake. But having thought through it again, if I can choose to have another cake bring up to my room later, why do I want a plain cake that I cut? Not too sure what you guys think. But do reconsider, ya?
For the 1-week reservation, I think it's because your date is a hot date. If some people who come later and are very keen to book with them, they would also have to pressure you to make a decision. That's why it's important to confirm the hotel especially for the 5-star hotels. Sheraton also said the same thing to me. Actually the minute they know that you are confirm going to book with them, they will reserve the date for you already. That's when you don't have to worry, and they don't have to worry. If you are not sure if you want Marriott, and someone else wants that date, that's when you find yourself being pressurized to make a decision la. Just my 2 cents worth.
By the way, hope no one finds my post irritating or offensive. No offence meant. Sorry I didn't address to any name too. Been really busy with work.
I've personally searched through about 8 hotels. Marriott was first on my list but we were worried about the cost so after looking at the wedding package, we skipped it and searched around. Went through many ballrooms, different coord from other hotels, was unhappy over this and that. So finally decided to go back to Marriott. Cost is indeed a factor, but at least now we are happier and we don't feel that we have to compromise certain areas for a lower cost.
Should you need to tickle my brain, do feel free to ask! Sorry for such a lengthy post.