jus_me,
No wonder u so free! Staying with in-laws? Hmm...well, I dunno coz I'm not staying with in-laws but would not like the idea. They can come to stay for a couple of months if they like, but to stay permanently, hmm...sorry to say that, but me dun really buy the idea. Any particular reason why you are staying with them? Issit your hubby is the only son? My in-laws are just staying a few blocks away from us, so we can go back almost everyday to visit, and actually they also dun like to stay with us, coz they say they now retire already, also want some couple time which they have sacrificed for the kids for so many years. They scared that they got to be the bb's nanny if the bb comes along one day. Haha...
I think to stay with in-laws you got to be very sensitive about their way of thinking and needs. Like sometimes my MIL would be a bit pan dang and say during that time of the month cannot wash hair when she see my dark circles which are actually due to late nights. So I don't argue with her and say that it's not scientific to say that, so I just smiled. I know that she advised me is for my own good and also out of concern, so I don't make her lose face by proving her wrong. Maybe that's just one of the way on how to live in harmony with the in-laws, there's 1001 things to learn. So just be more tolerant and always think in their shoes. To live with elderly can be a lot of fun too. They can share with you household tips and where to get good bargains, how to handle kids who fall ill middle of the night etc. So it's not that bad afterall.
Seabreeze,
yes, me still as busy. Now helping my parents reno their house, last year it was my house, now their turn...oh...got to relive that nightmare liao.