ps: pardon the long reply, everyone. in a pensive mood, and said a bit more...
rosel:
thanks. she's actually like all other girls on the streets when in plain casual gear. like i said, credit to SGBridal staff (jenny) for doin a good job. anyway, all brides will look beautiful. but most important, it's from the heart. the joy will make every bride special in their own way.
i mentioned the whole process in the blog portion of the site (since i figured everyone will ask the same questions i did when i took the journey).
gown selection can be done anytime when you want to do the shoot. but a day (at least half a day) was needed to get the 7 gowns altered and ready for my missus, as she's the small size type (imagine jc girl size).
we did our selection the day before the studio shoot. the selection process took my missus about 3-4 hours. as the style she wanted, and what sgbridal initially brought out, didn't match. took both parties a while to get the selection process going. once the staff got an idea of our preferences from those gowns we shortlisted (but not confirmed), they subsequently brought out the relevant types.
so you decide when you want to pick the gowns, and make an appt with them to view their wardrobe. but have an idea of the style, or pattern, you want. it'd help the staff a great deal, and save a bit of time for everyone. else the first hour will be blind gropin for a good feel.
as for security.. both of us went in by foot (ie SBS bus, customs, jb taxi), as my van is not allowed into m'sia. we didn't encounter any probs. most important, is to dress simple, look simple, and watch over belongings. we just each packed a backpack of our own overnight stuff.
also, we booked the hotel next to sgbridal (hotel crystal crown). and when not doin shooting (esp at night), we just stayed inside the room, watch tv, and ordered room service. we only went out with my missus' family and their friends when they came into jb by cars, and in groups. for supper. the other place we ventured on our own, is jusco tebrau. by cab.
as for outdoor shoot, if you don't drive, kevin/kenneth will drive you to the outdoor location, so no worries.
my missus is currently goin thru a bad case of gastric, due to the stress from work, and domestic matters. lost a bit of wt again. lucky i'm handlin almost all the weddin planning on my own (except for aesthetics like flowers, colours, and the honeymoon). so less thing for her to worry. i'd expect a small alteration to happen again when she fits for the AD gowns (we've already made our selection from the last visit).
even then, we're not about to let everything else affect the wedding plans. if we gotta marry each other with pimples on our faces, so be it. there's no law that says it must be (or will be) perfect on the day itself. so why make life difficult for ourselves? some of the pics came out well, simply because we just hang loose, and have some fun in the studio, which eased everyone, and helped kevin capture some nice shots.
so, just relax, and let things flow. then less binging, and wt can be controlled easier. only when you relax for the whole process, then you can pick out the right gowns, and do the good poses, and good pictures. nevermind even if there were a few glitches along the way, which we also encountered. i get to laugh at some of my ugly crater shots, horrible smile. my missus get to shriek in horror at my permed hair (which went wrong in my stylist's hands, and captured for eternity in studio shots). these are memories.
hope it gives you some clearer idea, and ease your worries.