Red flags to watch out for

[newproject]

How to let go if the other party is consistently using the child to cause trouble? No one in the system wants to do their job to disarm the party causing conflict and instead gives them the full power to do so. This is why there are men who kill their ex wives and children, because the system does not identify female narcissists to disarm them from causing further pain. I have seen too many cases of men being forced into poverty by the marriage system that I will no longer believe in it nor encourage people to get married anymore. We should all just cohabit and forget about our Asian values because people get punished for doing so. It will become the norm in no time when enough people know about men's rights as husbands and fathers.

Bro you are a bit extreme for me and I'm no SJW like some guys commenting here.

I know the real world and what's in the ideal world or books can be very different .. By right is like this but by left...

I know in practice the law (or rather people in the system ) gives the benefit of doubt to females but my experience in matters that you are talking about while it isn't zero is much less than yours given your age experiences so I will give your views greater creditability .

 

[cjnsal]

How to let go if the other party is consistently using the child to cause trouble? No one in the system wants to do their job to disarm the party causing conflict and instead gives them the full power to do so. This is why there are men who kill their ex wives and children, because the system does not identify female narcissists to disarm them from causing further pain. I have seen too many cases of men being forced into poverty by the marriage system that I will no longer believe in it nor encourage people to get married anymore. We should all just cohabit and forget about our Asian values because people get punished for doing so. It will become the norm in no time when enough people know about men's rights as husbands and fathers.

I sympathise with you predicament. You must have gone through a really tough period to have so much hatred bottled up inside you. Your views are skewed and extremely negative. I advise you seek some help from counsellors etc because all these negativity is not doing you any good.

Whether you like it or not, the world is full of good and bad people. Just because you have had 1 bad experience, that doesnt mean that every single person will get into a bad marriage. Spreading such negativity on a wedding forum honestly doesnt make sense because its a forum filled with hopeful brides-to-be planning for their marriages. I would think HWZ forum would be more suitable for you since your target audience should be aimed at men (and telling them to avoid marriage).

Good luck my friend. Hope one day you would recover from the negativity and find someone worth loving. All the best to you.

 

[newproject]

Spreading such negativity on a wedding forum honestly doesnt make sense because its a forum filled with hopeful brides-to-be planning for their marriages. I would think HWZ forum would be more suitable for you since your target audience should be aimed at men (and telling them to avoid marriage).

I agree to a point but you are close to advocating for censorship.

I think a exchange of ideas is good. What's the point of living in a bubble where everyone has the same ideas and views as your own!

There is way too much group think

It is through exchange of diverse views and opinions that one learns and grows.

 

[life_is]

Hi life_is

Pertaining to what u said,
"I don't see judges putting female child abusers behind bars nor punishing them for committing perjury. " Are you sure you get the facts right? The law still prevails irregardless of gender whenever any offence is committed.

Understand that ur bitter abt what is happening to u but wouldn't it be wiser if you seek help from someone ,perhaps a counsellor who might be able to help u.if you think it's useless,at least u speak to someone who is able to give u a clearer perspective of things and lessen the pain ur carrying.Its not gd for u to carry so much emotional burden.it weighs u down.

Here are the facts.
The counsellor heard from my child that he gets beaten whenever he says he wants to stay with me. By the same person who abused him to frame me and filed a false ppo. Swear to god on my life that his happened and the police and msf believed her lies. No one will help the child. They will always tell the men to suck it up even with female abusers. I'm not being negative, just being factual. If this is happening in our system, why should men get married? To sign away all their rights and be enslaved to such women who won't hesitate to abuse their own children for their selfish reasons? Men should read and know their rights before they sign on the line. If you guys want more facts, here is the deal: you cannot prevent the wife from changing. There are cases where wives change after many years because they want money. The system will favour them and let them get the flat and a free meal ticket while the men will be homeless and poor with zero rights to see his own children or protect them. Don't let that be you. I have seen enough cases that justify my views. And men should come to know about it so they know what they sign up for.

 

[life_is]

I sympathise with you predicament. You must have gone through a really tough period to have so much hatred bottled up inside you. Your views are skewed and extremely negative. I advise you seek some help from counsellors etc because all these negativity is not doing you any good.

Whether you like it or not, the world is full of good and bad people. Just because you have had 1 bad experience, that doesnt mean that every single person will get into a bad marriage. Spreading such negativity on a wedding forum honestly doesnt make sense because its a forum filled with hopeful brides-to-be planning for their marriages. I would think HWZ forum would be more suitable for you since your target audience should be aimed at men (and telling them to avoid marriage).

Good luck my friend. Hope one day you would recover from the negativity and find someone worth loving. All the best to you.

My child said to me that the child protection officer did not believe him when he told her that he was beaten at home. The system protects such people. Child protection officers here only protect women and not children, even if women ate the abusers. Even now, he is saying that the police help bad people. These are the facts. In America such women would have been barred from seeing their children pending investigation. Instead, our system here allowed her to bring the child back to be silenced. I swear on my life this woman is a liar and the system is grossly unfair and biased. And the right thing to do is to educate men about their rights here so they know what they sign up for. Just don't get married and cohabit instead to protect men's rights. Let the women here learn to fight for justice and true equality by openly condemning such women who abuse the system for personal gain. Until the women join forces and weed out the bad ones, men should never bother getting married here. It's the only fair thing to do, especially when even lawyers in the system know how unfair the system is.