Hi Hi,
Even though married for 5 mths, i can still 'accidentally' call my MIL , auntie instead of Ma. Heng that my PIL hardly talk to me, all i need to remember is- call him 'Pa', when see him at home, then not need to communicate liao.
My Dear call my mummy as - Auntie-Ma(1)Ma(1), still learning to cut off the Auntie. kekeke
Btw I don't address my PILs as "FATHER" or "MOTHER" felt so distant, so we call them Pa/Ma or Ma Ma, same as the way how my dear call his parents. Good thing can identify btwn my side and his side.
As for the ranking, I am better than my dear, he don't even know the 'tang' and 'biao' different, he only know gor and jie hahahahh
Just that I use Teochew to addresss instead of Hokkien the upper generation. hahahah
But my dear's family really big... got 3rd Granduncle's son's and grandsons etc. Funny part was even my Auntie-in-law (who was the one who carry the pot of tea during the AD), also cannot identify, I have to 'mentally draw linkage' on the spot myself and address them to drink the tea).
Divasan,
Your cup cake is meant for the GDL or the AD wedding cake?