Vi, not to worry. Each one of us have different methods of working. For me, up till last month, I was still telling everyone who asked "what preparation? No need la.. everything more or less settled".
But when the cards were printed, that's when the story changed. Cause I printed my own map, so I have to cut them, and with school work piling up, that's why I do feel a little bit more hectic.
But bit by bit lor. I only spend weekends doing the invitation cards and maps. I spend my weekday evenings doing my photo montage + listening to songs to decide on my wedding songs, studying and yes, I even spend nights just catching up on anime and drama watching cause I am too lazy to do wedding preps anymore.
So although mentally I do know that I have a lot of things outstanding, I also know one of the reason is cause I am not stressing myself to finish EVERYTHING asap. After all, as long as I meet the deadlines hubby and I set for ourselves for each to-do item, he pretty much does not nag at me.