Master David Tong's Advice Corner (Geomancy and Fengshui)


Hi Master Tong,

We are planning to have our wedding on Jan-March 2014. What dates will you recommend? We would prefer a weekend. Thank you so much for your assistance!!

Groom: 1 Sept 1983 (Boar) 未时
Bride: 26 May 1985 (Ox) 上子时

Groom's dad: 1953 (Snake)
Groom's mum: 1957 (Rooster)

Bride's dad: 1951 (Rabbit)
Bride's mum: 1957 (Rooster)

Thank you so much!
 
Hi Master Tong,

We are planning to have our wedding on May 2014 and ideally the date is on a Saturday :)
We appreciate your kind assistance and advise on the date.​

Groom: 23 Nov 1983 (Pig)
Bride: 25 Dec 1986 (Tiger)

Groom's dad: 1950 (Tiger)
Groom's mum: 1961 (Ox)

Bride's dad: divorce
Bride's mum: 1965 (Snake)

Thank you so much!​
 
Hi Master Tong,

We are planning to have our ROM some time in either Oct, Nov or Dec 2013 and preferably on a Saturday.

Greatly appreciate if you can advise on the suitable dates.

Groom: 26 Mar 1987 (Rabbit)
Bride: 21 Dec 1988 (Dragon)

Groom's dad: 1959 (Pig)
Groom's mum: 1960 (Rat)

Bride's dad: 1959 (Pig)
Bride's mum: 1961 (Ox)

Many thanks.
 
Dear Master Tong,

As we need to book for banquet for 2014. We select 29/11/14. Please advise if the date is fine.

Groom: Goat-1979
Bride: Monkey-1980
Groom mum: 1939
Bride dad: Pig-1947
Bride mum: Cow-1949

Thank youDear Master Tong,

As we need to book for banquet for 2014. We select 29/11/14. Please advise if the date is fine.

Groom: Goat-1979
Bride: Monkey-1980
Groom mum: 1939
Bride dad: Pig-1947
Bride mum: Cow-1949

Thank you
 
Hi David,
We are planning to have our wedding on May/June 2014 and ideally the date is on a Friday or Saturday. Can you advise the suitable dates?
Groom: Pig-1983
Bride: Cow- 1985

Thank you!
 
Hi sk81

The only general good weekend that dont clash anyone will be 28/12

* Note that these are general tong shu dates only, and both Bazi (birth data) are not taken into consideration. A good date in the tong shu can still be considered bad if the date and Bazi are not compatible *
 
Hi Shanshan & Adeline_spy

The 2014 tong shu will only be out in aug/sept this year, hence the only way to choose now is using bazi. Tong Shu dates will have to wait till it is out
 
Hi michy_tmy

the only general good dates for Sat that doesnt clash to anyone in your family are

- 2/11 , 28/12

* Note that these are general tong shu dates only, and both Bazi (birth data) are not taken into consideration. A good date in the tong shu can still be considered bad if the date and Bazi are not compatible *
 
Hi sj7980

That day doesnt clash to anyone, but will have to wait till Aug/Sep for the tong shu to be out in order to check if it is a general good date or not. Right now the only way to select is using both your Bazi

Hope this helps
 
Hi melody852001

The 2014 tong shu will only be out in aug/sept this year, hence the only way to choose now is using bazi. Tong Shu dates will have to wait till it is out
 
Dear Master Tong, for the tradition of not going to each other's wedding within 3 months, what if the one of them has ROM more than 3 months before n is only throwing banquet dinner? Does it mean we can attend each other's wedding? Thanks
 
Dear Master Tong,

We are planning on a wedding later this year between Oct/13 to Dec/13. Would appreciate your kind advise on a auspicious date for us to tie the knot preferably on a weekend. Details as follows:

Groom : 6/Dec/82 [Dog]
Bride : 4/Jul/82 [Dog]

Groom's parents : both 1953 [Snake]

Bride's Dad : 1945 [Rooster]
Bride's Mum : 1951 [ Rabbit]

Thanks in advance, Master Tong.

Regards, Joz
 
Hi michy_tmy

the only general good dates for Sat that doesnt clash to anyone in your family are

- 2/11 , 28/12

* Note that these are general tong shu dates only, and both Bazi (birth data) are not taken into consideration. A good date in the tong shu can still be considered bad if the date and Bazi are not compatible *


Thanks Master Tong.

What about 8 Dec, will it clash with anyone?
 
Dear Master Tong,
Me and my husband Would like to hold our customary dnr on 1.3.2014 or either 22.2.2014. Can you please advise if these is a good day for us? Bride: 16 Oct 1980 Monkey Groom: 16 Oct 1977 Snake. My parent are both born in year Rooster n My FIL: Snake and MIL : Dragon. Thank you for your time n expertise advice.
 
Dear Master Tong,

As we need to book for banquet for 2014. We select 29/11/14. Please advise if the date is fine.

Groom: Goat-1979
Bride: Monkey-1980
Groom mum: 1939
Bride dad: Pig-1947
Bride mum: Cow-1949

Thank youDear Master Tong,

As we need to book for banquet for 2014. We select 29/11/14. Please advise if the date is fine.

Groom: Goat-1979
Bride: Monkey-1980
Groom mum: 1939
Bride dad: Pig-1947
Bride mum: Cow-1949

Thank you

Hi sj7980

That day doesnt clash to anyone, but will have to wait till Aug/Sep for the tong shu to be out in order to check if it is a general good date or not. Right now the only way to select is using both your Bazi

Hope this helps

Dear Master Tong,

We had booked the date for banquet. This case can we still engage your service to help us on the timing for An Chuang, Guo Da Li etc? Thank you.
 
Hi Lexuan

22/2 is a super bad day for wedding

1/3 clashes to Ox which is none of you. Will hv to wait till tong shu out to check if that is a general gd date or not
 
Hi Master Tong,

Mine is 21.03.1986 Tiger and my htb is 26.11.1982 Dog. May I ask next year 22.02.2014 Sat good for us for wedding?
Bride mum : Horse
Bride dad : Dog
Groom mum : Tiger
Groom dad : Horse
Your prompt reply is greatly appreciated.
Thank you very much :)
 
Hi Master Tong,

I will be holding my ROM on 6th July'13. My HTB n me did not consult anyone for the date. Does it necessary to pick an auspicious date for ROM? As for my actual day will be around end of the year.

Thank you very much for your advice :)
 
Hi joelreen

Yes you need a good date for rom as that is the most important date for wedding. That is the official date both of you become husband n wife, not the customary wedding day
 
Hi Master Tong

Can you please advise on a few dates in 2014 to hold our solemnization & banquet?

Groom: Rabbit, 26/06/1987
Bride: Tiger, 18/01/1987

Groom's
Mum: Ox, (1961)
Dad: Snake, (1953)

Bride's
Mum: Monkey, () Passed away in year 2012
Dad: Horse , (1954)

Thank You
 
Hi Master Tong,

Can advise if 30/11/2014 or 13/12/2014 good for wedding dinner? Details of bride and groom + families as follow:-

Groom: 06/01/1988
Bride: 23/11/1988

Groom's parents
Dad: Horse 1954
Mum: Goat 1955

Bride's parents
Dad: Monkey 1956
Mum: Rabbit 1963

Thanks.
 
Hi Master Tong,

I looking at buying EC but the design of the kitchen sink and stove are almost oppsite each other is that a bad feng shui for the family?

Thanks
 
Dear Master Tong,

We are planning on a wedding early next year between Feb/14 to Mar/14. Would appreciate your kind advise on a auspicious date for us to tie the knot preferably on a weekend. Details as follows:

Groom : 29/nov/81 [Rooster]
Bride : 17/may/89 [Snake]

Groom's parents : both 1952 [Dragon]

Bride's Dad : 1958 [Dog]
Bride's Mum : 1963 [ Rabbit]

Thanks in advance, Master Tong.

Regards,
Juergen
 
Hi,

May I check if 6th Sept 2014 is a good date to hold wedding banquet and ROM?

My birthday : 15th Dec 1984 Rat
Fiance's birthday : 6th Dec 1980 Monkey

My mum : Tiger
My Dad : Rat

Fiance's Dad : Pig
Fiance's Mum : Rat

Thank you in advance.
 
Hi Xing An

If you looking at generic dates, the tong Shu for 2014 will only be out in sept this year, so can only check then. Right now have to use bazi to select
 
Hi myzticalz

30/11 doesn't clash to anyone ' will have to wait till tong Shu to check if it is a general good date

13/12 is in the Po Yue, bad month for wedding , not advisable to use this date for wedding :)
 
Hi pen pen

Yes as a general guide, stove and sink cannot be directly opposite each other. Fire and water clash and will result in health problems . How bad will have to see onsite to measure the direction first then can tell.
 
Hi Juergen

The tong Shu for 2014 will only be out sometime in sept this year, so have to wait for it to come out first then can check. Now the only way is to use bazi to select
 
Hi pinkyrach

As bride is born rat yr, by right 2014 horse yr will clash her and not a good yr for wedding. Not sure if you can wait till 2015 :)
 
Dear Master Tong,

Me and my husband are planning to get married this June 2013. Can you please help us choose the best wedding date for us. We've chosen June 8, 9, 17, 18 and 29.. Which one is the best and luckiest date for us to marry. Thank you very much in advance.
Here's our birth date:
Bride (January 17, 1986 - Ox)
Groom (May 21, 1986 - Tiger)
 
Hi Master Tong,

Please advise if year 2014 is good for marriage.

Bride: western birthdate- 14 February 1991
Mum: Monkey
Dad: Goat

Groom: western birthdate- 15 March 1990
Mum: Pig
Dad: Rooster

Thank you for your advise!:)
 
Dear Master Tong,

We have been given the date Mar 29th, 2014 Saturday for our ROM, ceremony and dinner.
I just found out that Ching Ming will be Apr 5th and people normally start 10 days earlier. Hence in another word, our wedding will clash with Ching Ming. Does it matter actually? I feel uncomfortable about it.
 
Naturally after wedding day, it's has been a loooong time since I logged in here. Forum page has changed, as so long never logged in until I forgot my old id/password, and have to create a new one.

Anyway, just to share that after a year of trying to conceive, I followed David's advice and moved house. Now, my second one is due this July!!! We had the luxury of rebuilding the house from scratch. From the initial house-hunting (David told us to die die find house to face certain direction), to the layout of the house. we all consulted him.

Now here's is the shocking part...............

a couple of months ago, I was in HK for a trip. My friends recommended me to this famous tarot card-reading master. And so I went to kaypoh. Sat down, told to shuffle a deck of cards. Showed my cards on the table. All the while I did not say anything. The master started with the first card and said " Your new house, is very very good. Keep it. It is built with the elements of fengshui."

I was like "What the.....??" How did he know?

Anyway, he went on to decipher the rest of the cards of my life. All were accurate.

The morale of the story: David's advices are good!
 
Hi Master Tong,

Would like to seek your advise if 2014 is a good year for our solemnization and banquet?

Groom: 29.02.84 (rat)
Bride: 15.10.85 (ox)

Groom's father: ox
Groom's mother: horse

Bride's father: dog
Bride's mother: ox

Thank you.
 
Hi deloresyam

Yes usually I won't give dates that period. Usually 10 days before Qing Ming is sweep tomb period, so that period we avoid choosing dates for wedding. Whoever choose for you should understand all these Chinese culture , cannot choose blindly.
 
Hi Colorainbow

2014 horse yr clashes to Rat, hence a bad yr for groom to get married in. 2015 is Goat yr, bad for Ox. Hence 2013 will be the best yr, else 2016!
 
Hi kenyeo

Nice to hear from you again and many tks for your feedbacks here in the forum :) Glad that you are doing well now :) Amazed by your tarot card reader too haha.
 
Hi myzticalz

30/11 doesn't clash to anyone ' will have to wait till tong Shu to check if it is a general good date

13/12 is in the Po Yue, bad month for wedding , not advisable to use this date for wedding :)

Thank you Master Tong.

I see from this webpage - 30/11/2014 (http://www.zdic.net/nongli/2014-11-30.htm) and 13/12/2014 (http://www.zdic.net/nongli/2014-12-13.htm) that both seems to be Po Ri or Po Yue. How do we determine?

I wanted to get married on 30/11 but my mother insist on 13/12.

Thanks.
 
Hi Master Tong,

Would like to seek your advice if 2015 is a good year for our solemnization and banquet? Thanks!

Groom: 27/7/1982 (dog)
Bride: 16/6/1986 (tiger)

Groom's father: horse
Groom's mother: goat

Bride's father: dog
Bride's mother: rabbit
 


Hi master tong,

Can you help advise which best wedding date for us. 6,7,20,21,27,28 june 2014

Bride: 23 aug 1985 cow
Groom: 14 april 1983 pig

Bride mum: chicken
Bride dad: dragon

Groom mum: chicken
Groom dad: rat
 

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