Master David Tong's Advice Corner (Geomancy and Fengshui)


Hi smurfyblogger

Yes giving gifts or ang bao is fine, so long as you dont attend the wedding if within 3 months of each other's
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Hi master Tong

You mentioned that An Chung should be done by a good fortune couple. Can it be done by the bride's parents if they meet your definition of "good fortune couple"?
 
Hi lily

I have to wait for the tong shu to b out in ard Aug/sept period to check if it is a general good date or not. Right now have to use bazi to select .
 
Hi Master Tong,

Need your advise. We are looking for dates to ROM & wedding banquet on the same day next year oct-dec.

Groom: 1 feb 1985 rat.
Groom's Mum: 26 may 1959 pig.
Groom's dad: 23 dec 1954 horse

Bride: 7 sep 1986 tiger
Bride's Mum: 03 mar 1950 snake
Bride's dad: deceased
 
Hi Js Tan

The tong Shu for 2013 will b out only in aug/sept this yr. hence can only check after it is out. Right now only way is to use bazi to select , which is more accurate as tong shu r generic dates only.
 
Hi Master Tong..
Planning to ROM on 30th july 2012
Blessing Ceremony on 21th Oct 2012
Traditional chinese ceremony and Customary 0n 8 March 2013

Groom: 15 June 1981 (Rooster)
Groom's Dad: 7 Sept 1947
Groom's Mum: 18 Sept 1946

Bride: 1 Dec 1985 (Ox)
Bride's Dad: 13 Jan 1928(Dragon)-deceased
Bride's Mom: 4 April 1945 (Rooster)
 
Hi Master Tong
Would appreciate your advice if the following dates are good dates to ROM.

- 30 Sept 2012
- 10 Nov 2012

Groom: 20 May 1979 (Goat)
Bride: 17 Aug 1981 (Rooster)

Thanks a lot for your advice!
 
Hi Master Tong,

We are planning to get married on Jan/Feb 2013 next year.

We would like to seek your advice when would be a good date for us to marry

Groom: Jul 22, 1981 Rooster
Bride: May 21, 1982 Dog

Many Thanks
 
Hi Master Tong,

We'll be getting married in 2013 and would like to seek your advise if any of these dates clash with our immediate family.

June: 8, 15, 22, 29
July: 6, 20, 27
Aug: 3
Sept: 7

Groom: 24 May 1986 (Tiger)
Groom's Dad: 15 Nov 1943 (Goat)
Groom's Mum: 16 Oct 1946 (Dog)

Bride: 11 January 1986 (Ox)
Bride's Dad: 06 June 1960 (Rat)
Bride's Mom: 26 December 1963 (Rabbit)

Thank you so much!
 
Hi Master Tong
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Planning to hold traditional chinese ceremony and customary on 6th December 2013


Groom: 26 Febuary 1987 (Rabbit)
Groom's Dad: 1st Nov 1953 (Snake)
Groom's Mum: 18 Sept 1955 (Sheep)

Bride: 25 January 1987 (Tiger)
Bride's Dad: 22 Dec 1953(Snake)
Bride's Mom: 12 August 1958 (Dog)

I would like to check if I can contact you for a full consultation and get my dates by coming Saturday?
 
Hi kawaiiyuni

For 2013 dates the tong Shu is not out yet till aug/sept period, so can only check affer that.

For your rom, 30/7 clash dog which is groom parents

For your blessing, that day clash rooster, which is groom. Hence both days r considered bad dates

Hope this helps
 
Hi Nonni

I need both side parents animal zodiac signs. 2013 tong Shu is not out yet, so can only check after aug/sept after it is out. Feb 2013 is cny period, so definitely no dates. Only Jan 2013.
 
Hi yuwei

Only the following dates don't clash to any of you

- 8/6, 29/6, 7/9

Rest either clashes or very bad dates for wedding

Hope this helps
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Hi Siew May

I am currently overseas till 19/7. You can drop me an email if you are keen for the wedding dates consultation but can only do it after I am back
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Oh. I will need the date by Friday. Can you please help with this? Thank you!

Planning to hold traditional chinese ceremony and customary on 6th December 2013


Groom: 26 Febuary 1987 (Rabbit)
Groom's Dad: 1st Nov 1953 (Snake)
Groom's Mum: 18 Sept 1955 (Sheep)

Bride: 25 January 1987 (Tiger)
Bride's Dad: 22 Dec 1953(Snake)
Bride's Mom: 12 August 1958 (Dog)
 
Hi Master Tong,

Parent's zodiac signs are;
Brides Mum and Dad - Pig
Grooms Mum - Dragon
Grooms Dad - Monkey

Is the 12th January 2013 a good date?

Kind Regards
Nonni
 
Hi Master Tong,

Our choice wedding dates are 02 Dec and 22 Dec 2012 or 11, 17, 18 Nov 2012. Priority for Dec. What do you think of the Dec dates? Please advise which is more suitable for us. Thank you.

Groom birthday: 31 July 1980 Monkey
Groom dad: 27 July 1944
Groom mum: 17 Jan 1954 Snake

Bride birthday: 08 June 1980 Monkey
Bride dad: 25 July 1940 Dragon
Bride mum: 1941 Snake (deceased)
 
Hi Master Tong,

29th Nov 2012 a good date for ROM?
30th Nov 2013 a good date for Chinese wedding?
If not please kindly advice a date.

Groom: 14 Sept 1984 (Rat)
Groom's Dad: (Sheep)
Groom's Mum: (Rooster)

Bride: 08 January 1985 (Rat)
Bride's Dad: Snake (deceased)
Bride's Mom: Dragon (deceased)
 
Hi Master Tong,
Would like to check whether 29 Mar and 30 Mar 2013 are good dates for ROM and customary wedding? Would May 2013 or June 2013 is better for us holding the customary wedding? Thanks

Groom: 2 Feb 1983 (dog)
Groom's mum: Goat (1955)
Groom's dad: Tiger (1950)

Bride: 16 Oct 1981 (Rooster)
Bride's mum: Dog (1946)
Bride's dad: Goat (1943)
 
Hi Master Tong,

Saw all your posts and replies to all the grooms and brides there, really appreciative that you are taking so much time and efforts to do this...

My fiancé and I are planning to get married on September next year (2013).

We would like to seek your advice if 21 Sep, 2013 is an auspicious wedding date for us, as this date does not reflect anything much in the Chinese calendar..

Groom: 05 July, 1983
Bride: 05 June, 1984

Bride's mom: 21 Oct, 1959
Bride's dad: 09 Nov, 1958

Groom's mom: 7 May, 1949
Groom's dad: 02 Aug, 1940

Once again, thank you for your reply…
 
Hi Nonni

As groom is born Dog yr, Jan 2013 is still dragon yr and clashes with Dog, not a good yr for wedding. Ideally after 4th Feb 2013 in Snake yr.
 
Hi Elaine Tan

29th Nov is not a good date for ROM. U can use 30th Nov 2012.

For customary, the tong shu will only be out Aug/Sep period, hence can only check after it is out. Now the only way is use Bazi to calculate.

** Note that the given dates are general good dates only. A good date in the tong shu can still be deemed as inauspicious if the date and the couple's bazi are incompatible**
 
Hi cutie

End March is Qing Ming period, not suitable for wedding/ROM

For 2013 dates, have to wait till tong shu is out in Aug/Sept before i can check. The only way now is use Bazi to calculate the dates and tong shu dates are for mass consumption only and generic, whereas bazi calculation is specific to individuals, more accurate.
 
Hi Shino Wen

U can do ROM this yr in Dragon yr first, then at least you are officially married in a good yr. Then hold your banquet next yr. This is the best way to do it if no choice
 
Hi Xiaomin

2013 is the year of the Snake, which clashes to Pig, hence a bad yr for wedding for the groom.

The tong shu for 2013 is not out yet hence you can't find anything in the calendar. Have to wait till Aug/Sep. Now the only way is to use bazi to calculate the dates.

Btw 21/9 clashes to Monkey, hence if any of you is born Monkey yr, will clash to them too.
 
Thanks Master Tofor your enlightentment...

But if we need to get married in 2013? is 21 Sept 2013 auspicious as this is a given date to us, with no other info taken from us, other than our parent's and our's english birthdate.

Groom: 05 July, 1983
Bride: 05 June, 1984

Bride's mom: 21 Oct, 1959
Bride's dad: 09 Nov, 1958

Groom's mom: 7 May, 1949
Groom's dad: 02 Aug, 1940

So is this date accurate based on the above info?
 
Hi Master Tong

I have a cousin custommary wedding at 8 Dec 2012, whereas my ROM is at 22 Dec 2012. So I would like to check whether I can attend her wedding?

Thanks
 
Hi Master Tong,

I need your advise.

I want to attend my friend's wedding dinner and I hope my friend could attend mine, but how far apart for the dates should there be in order not to have any clashes for the happiness occasion? is it limited to only between the relatives holding wedding banquet?

Thanks & regards.
 
Dear Master Tong,

We need your advice, we are planning to ROM on 12 October 2012 , is it good date for us to choose ?

Groom : 10 april 1986 (tiger)
Groom's dad : 24 feb 1947 (pig)
Groom's mom : 15 nov 1966 (horse)

Bride : 5 april 1987 (rabbit)
Bride's dad : 15 sept 1943 (sheep)
Bride's mom : 16 feb 1965 (snake)

And is it okay for us to attend friends wedding within 3 months before & after, as we only perform ROM not the customary wedding yet.

Thank you & regards
 
Hi Xiao Min

This date clashes to monkey, which is none of you. However, have to wait for the tong Shu to be out to check if it is a general good date or not. I can't tell if the date is accurate or not as we need to use bazi to calculate the dates and whoever you get the dates from, he must use bazi to calculate (that means, both ur birth time must b taken into the calculation too) too, else just a general date, not according to bazi.

Hope this helps
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Hi Iwan

8/10-6/11 is Sui Po month in 2012, hence not a good month for rom or wedding

As both rom and customary are red events, so they must be more than 3 months apart, else cannot go.
 
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