Master David Tong's Advice Corner (Geomancy and Fengshui)


Hi master tong,

Sorry for asking such noob questions.....

whats the difference with the Bazi and tong shu?

Also which is more accurate and what do i need to supply to you to get the dates?

Thanks for your understanding and patience.

Janice
 
Hi Master Tong,

I notice you mentioned 2013 is not a good year to marry for pigs, may I know which year will be good after 2013?

Bride - Mar 1986 (Tiger)
Groom - Jan 1984 (Pig)

Bride's Mum - Jun 1949 (Cow)
Bride's Dad - Jan 1952 (Dragon)

Groom's Mum - May 1962 (Tiger)
Groom's Dad - 1957 (Chicken)

And may I know how much is your Eternity Wedding Package?

Thank you!
 
Hi Master Tong,

We are planing to get married in 2013 please advice on good dates for us

Bride - Jun 1982 (Dog)
Groom - Jan 1981 (Monkey)

Bride's Mum - Passed on more then 8 yrs ago
Bride's Dad - May 1946 (Dog)

Groom's Mum - Dec 1953 (Snake)
Groom's Dad - 1954 (Horse)

Added info - Groom's Dad's Mom passed away May 2012
 
I would like to enquire if there is lunar 30 april in 2013? Is it a good date? It keeps appearing on all online calendars that lunar april 2013 is only till 29. Is that true? Really appreciate your help to verify this. Thanks!
 
Hi Master Tong

Can I know if the following dates are good for moving into a new house?

28 or 29 Jul 2012
04 or 05 Aug 2012
11 or 12 Aug 2012

Husband 1975 (rat)
Wife 1977 (snake)
Baby boy 2012 (dragon) - yet to be born, only in Oct.

If the above dates are no good, can you kindly propose other dates for us end July/early Aug before the lunar 7th month?

Thanks so much.
 
Hi Master Tong,

Me and my fiancé is planning to get married on 2012.

We have a few dates at hand for our venue and would like to seek your advice for an auspicious date.

16, 23 sept
14, 28 oct
4, 18 nov

Groom - 09 Dec 1985( Ox)
Bride - 19 Feb 1985 (Ox)

Thanks
 
Hi Master Tong,

I am born in year of rat and my bf is born in year of pig. Since you have mentioned 2013 is not a good year for marraige for pigs, is 2014 a bad year for marriage for rats too?

Can we still select dates in 2013 based on bazi and avoid 'bad' impacts?

Thanks.
 
Hi Master Tong,

I'm getting married in Dec 2012.

However my elder brother decided to ROM on Mid-Autumn Festival this year but not having any tradition ceremony like the lunch/dinner yet at the moment. But he's having the tradition lunch/dinner at the lady's side hometown in China.

Will there be any crash? Anything to be avoided?

Thanks in advance.
 
Hi Master Tong

Just a slight change for my earlier post. Gotten the zodiac wrong.

Groom - 09 Dec 1985(Ox)
Bride - 19 Feb 1985 (Rat)

Thanks
 
Hi Master Tong

Due to some reason my gf and me need to get married this year.

Groom: May 1987 rabbit
Bride: Feb 1984 rat

Bride's mum: Aug 1959 pig
Bride's dad: April 1954 horse

Groom mum: march 1951 rabbit
Groom dad: may 1951 rabbit

Preferably aug-oct this year for ROM & actual date.

Thanks!
 
Hi Master Tong,

My fiance and I are planning to get married on December this year.

We would like to seek your advice if December 30, 2012 is an auspicious wedding date.

Groom: July 18, 1981
Bride: October 22, 1983

Bride's mom: Aug 17, 1958 Dog
Bride's dad: Jan 13, 1957 Monkey

Groom's mom: Mar 7, 1954
Groom's dad: Sep 16, 1950

Thanks in advance!
 
Hi Janice

Tong shu uses generic good date catered for mass consumption only. Think of it logically.. if this day is good for wedding, then whole world good for wedding? Too simplistic right? Bazi uses both your brith data to make sure that date is only good for both of you specifically, and not mass public. If you are keen, just drop me an email and i will revert with more info
 
Hi lily_ongym

Yes, only until 29th, no 30th
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Hi Quinny

For move in and start reno dates, the house direction have to be taken into consideration. Hence usually Feng shui master have to go down your house to measure to derive the dates. Without that piece of info, we cannot derive the move in or start reno dates as a general good date is as good as none as it can accidentally trigger the bad qi in the house.
 
Hi Master Tong,

Thanks for the feedback. Could you advise us then on what are the good dates for wedding from October to December 2012?

Thanks in advance! (Re-posted info below)

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Groom: July 18, 1981
Bride: October 22, 1983

Bride's mom: Aug 17, 1958 Dog
Bride's dad: Jan 13, 1957 Monkey

Groom's mom: Mar 7, 1954
Groom's dad: Sep 16, 1950
 
Hi Master Tong,

Appreciate if you could advise whether it's ok to place a mirror above the bed head area where we're sleeping for couples. Is that considered as bad fengshui? Thanks in advance.
 
Hi Master Tong,

Any advise from you as per my above query?

Just to ratify the above query.

My elder brother decided to ROM and hav the tradition lunch/dinner on Mid-Autumn Festival this year at the lady's side in China but not locally yet.

Will there be any crash? Anything to be avoided?

Will appreciate ur advise.

Thanks.
 
Hi Master Tong

We are planning to get married this year and we have the following dates

16, 23 aug
14, 28 sept
4, 18 nov

Groom: 9 dec 1985(Ox)
Bride: 19 feb 1985(rat)

Groom's dad: 16 apr 1949(Ox) deceased
Groom's mum: 5 apr 1952(dragon)

Bride's dad: 26 jan 1957(monkey) deceased
Bride's mum: 16 aug 1956(monkey)

Pls advise.

Thanks
 
Hi Master Tong,

I would like to know if Nov 23rd 2013 would be an alright day for my hubby to hold our ROM as well as banquet.

Groom: 11 march 1989 (snake)
Bride: 26 feb 1989 (snake)

Groom's dad: (rooster)
Groom's mum: dragon)

Bride's dad: (dog)
Bride's mum: (dog)

Really appreciate it.

Thank you! :D
 
Hi Master Tong,

I would like to check on An Chuang.. May I know whether this process can be done by the Groom's parents? I was told that it cant be done by Groom's parents.

Another thing is the Groom's dad is currently sick ( as in diagnosed with Cancer but his way to recovery), is this okay for An Chuang?

Thanks.
 
Hi Master David,

Can you advise good dates in 2013?

Groom: Dragon, 1976
Bride: Goat, 1979

Groom's dad: Dog, 1946
Groom's mum: Snake, 1953

Bride's dad: Tiger, 1950
Bride's mum: Snake, 1953
 
Dear Master Tong

Please advise if it is okay to skip the An Chuang procedure? Must it be done together with the chinese customary wedding? Can it be done when we move to our new house a few years later (after customary wedding)?

Thank you.
 
Hi Ivy

By right siblings cannot get married same yr. If really no choice, at least 3 mths apart. Otherwise there will be a clash and your cannot even attend each other's wedding/ROM.
 
Hi rainz

Usually it is done by good fortune couple (full family, lots of children/grandchildren, spouse cannot pass away, no divoroce, no major health problems). Hence his dad cannot qualify. have to find some other elderly to do it
 
Hi little_dilemma

The tong shu for 2013 is not out yet. It will only be out in Aug/Sept this year, hence i can only check general good dates after that. Now the only way to select is using bazi to select
 
Hi 82kwkmcl

An Chuang must be done BEFORE wedding. It is meant for chinese wedding. After wedding, no pt doing anymore and for new house an chuang, it is done according to feng shui.

To do or not to do, that is really your decision. But usually as chinese and for chinese wedding, we do it
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Hi Master Tong,

Thank you for your advise above.

Can I confirm that although the ROM/wedding is not done in Singapore, do you mean that it will also crash with mine in dec?

My parents say it's okay since is at oversea and not at local.

If he really wanna go ahead with their ROM/wedding, does it mean that I can't attend his and he can't attend mine too?

Please help... I am in a confused state now.

Thank you in advance.
 
Hi Master Tong,

If Nov 23rd 2013 is a very bad day for wedding. Can you advise what other days in Nov 2013 are an alright day for wedding?

Thank you so much for taking the time!
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Hi Master Tong,

We are getting ROM in 2013 weekends and would greatly appreciate if you could advise us on the auspicious dates for all weekends after Mar 2013 .

Groom : 27 Mar 1984 - Rat
Bride : 05 June 1987 - Rabbit

Groom Dad : 1961 - Ox
Groom Mom : 1961- Ox

Bride Dad : 11 july 1944 monkey
Bride Mom : 04 march 1948 rat

Thank you very much~
 
Hi Master Tong

How about these additional date?
7th Oct 2012
20th Oct 2012

Groom : 27 Mar 1984 - Rat
Bride : 05 June 1987 - Rabbit

Groom Dad : 1961 - Ox
Groom Mom : 1961- Ox

Bride Dad : 11 july 1944 monkey
Bride Mom : 04 march 1948 rat

Appreciate your advise.

Thanks
 
Hi Master Tong,

We are planning to get married on March next year.

We would like to seek your advice if March 2, 2013 is an auspicious ROM (Be in Singapore) date and March 30, 2013 for wedding (Be in Malaysia) date.

Groom: Apr 19, 1984 Rat
Bride: Jan 06, 1984 Pig

Bride's mom: Dec 10, 1954 Horse
Bride's dad: Jun 5, 1952 Dargon

Groom's mom: 1954 Horse
Groom's dad: Apr 01, 1950 Tiger


Pls advise.

Thanks
 
Hi Master Tong

The post earlier was wrong.

How about these 2 dates?
7 oct 2012
20 oct 2012

Groom: 09 dec 1985(Ox)
Bride: 19 feb 1985 (Ox)
Groom dad: 16 apr 1949(Ox)
Groom mum: 5 apr 1952(dragon)
Bride dad: 26 jan 1957(monkey)
Bride mum: 16 aug 1956(monkey)

Thanks
 
Hi Master Tong,

I am back again. The previous date i chosed 15 Aug, already fully booked .

So i have to chose another date.

3 Sept 2012 is it ok for us? or any date (weekday) in Sept 2012 or Nov 2012 (weekday).

Sorry for the trouble

bride: May 1976
Groom: May 1971

Family of Groom: Pig both.
Family of bride: decrease.
 
Hi Master Tong,

Can I check if i can give a wedding gift to a good friend who is getting married 2 months after me? I understand that I can't attend her wedding as it is less than 100 days, correct? Many thanks for your advice!
 
Hi Ivy

It is not a matter of venue/where it will be held. It is because he is your sibling.

Usually by right it should not even happen and must have more than 3 mths gap apart at least. If really no choice, the most you can do is not to attend each other's wedding or ROM

Hope this helps
 
Hi Corinne & Hui Qin

the tong shu for 2013 will only be out in Aug/Sept period, hence for general tong shui good dates, i can only check for u after it is out. Right now, all dates selections for 2013 are using bazi to select, which is personalised to both of you only . tong shu dates for generic for mass consumption only. I am even starting 2014 dates soon end of this mth
 


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