Master David Tong's Advice Corner (Geomancy and Fengshui)

Hi Cheri_Evo,

The 2011 tong shu is not out yet, hence i can only select for u the general dates after it is out. Note that even in the tong shu, it may state as a good day, it can still be deemed as inauspcious if both your Bazi and the date is not compatible. The tong shu is for mass consumption only and it assumes if a particular day is good for wedding, then the whole world is good for wedding! In real life, we know this is not true. After factoring in both your birth details, only then we can tell if that day is really suitable for you or not.

Btw, since you are born Rooster year, 2011 is a bad yr for wedding as Rabbit and Rooster clashes. but for the groom, he is born in Dog year, hence 2012 will be bad for him. Ideally you should do it this yr 2010 or in 2013.

You can email me at [email protected] for more details about the Wedding Dates selection package. Thanks.

Hope this helps
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Hi Weixiang,

Yes you are correct. I've been stating this in this forum that those born in Rooster yr cannot get married in Rabbit yr 2011. I guess i assume those who ask would have read earlier threads and wanted to do it in 2011, irregardless..as there are some of clients who have no choice but to do it in 2011 coz HBD is chasing them for the marriage cert etc etc.

I guess i will have to state them again everytime
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Glad that you've booked your wedding banquet. Right now, it is near impossible to book 2011 weekends banquet and the tong shu is not even out yet! Anyway, most of my clients now are starting to go for 2012 dates
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Sure, do email me if you need other dates coz your wedding is coming soon. Hope you are having fun preparing for it
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Hi Carmen,

As you are born Rooster yr, 2011 is not a good year for wedding. Ideally you should not do it in 2011. But the groom is born in Dog yr, hence 2012 is not good for him as Dragon and Dog clashes. Ideally you should do it this yr or 2013. Hope this helps
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Hi muffin,

Your ROM date does not clash to anyone.

But for your AD date, it clashes Rabbit and also it is a very bad day for wedding. Hence avoid this date at all cost.

Will have to wait for tong shu to come out to check for you the general good dates.

Hope this helps.
 
Hi Master Tong,

Thank u for ur advice. It seems tat we have no choice but to go ahead with our wedding in 22nd Oct 2011 as we have booked our banquet. One more thing to check with u also, i understand on this date, it crashes with dragon. If my nephew is born of yr dragon, can he open wedding car door for my partner? Any advice which animal signs are good for us?
 
Hi Cheri_Evo,

All your "key personnel" cannot be dragon (eg, your bridesmaid (Jie Mei), bestmen (Xiong Di), the little boy that is going to open the car door and the little boy that is going to roll on the bed)

You can use any animal sign boy for opening the car door, except the one that clashes, which is Dragon. If you really want to go in depth as to which animal sign is better on that day, it will be Tiger and Horse, but this is not necessary.

Hope this helps
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Hi Master Tong,

Thanks a lot for your advise.

May I seek further advise for suitable solemnisation dates in Dec 2010 and Jan 2011 for both weekdays and weekends?

Thank you!

Bride: 1985 Ox
Groom: 1983 Pig

Bride's Mum: 1952 Dragon
Bride's Dad: 1949 Ox

Groom's Mum: 1956 Monkey
Groom's Dad: 1953 Snake
 
Thank's a lot for your help Mr. Tong..

So only 05 March 2011 is a 'potential' good date for wedding for us? how about on April 2011? Because i heard from my grandpa April is a month of dragon, and it's good for both of us. And we're still waiting for the tong shu to be out too. But when you said that the tong shu should be out ard August period. when is that for sure? Because some people said that the tong shu come out on september.

Thank's Mr. Tong.. =)
 
Hi Master Tong,

Sorry for the confusion. I am looking at 2010.

Please advise suitable dates for solemnisation in Nov & Dec for a weekday.

Groom : Horse (1 April 1978)
Groom's Dad : Dog(Deceased)
Groom's Mum : Tiger
Groom's Brother: Tiger
Groom's Sis : Dog

Bride : Goat (26 Feb 1979)
Bride's Dad : Ox
Bride's Mum : Tiger
Bride's Sis : Snake

Thank you very much!!!
 
Hi Master Tong,

Could you kindly advise which of the following dates will NOT clash with our zodiac?
As we prefer weekend from Sept - Dec 2011

10,11,17,18,24,25 Sept 2011
8,9,15,16,22,23,30 Oct 2011
5,6,12,13,19,20,26,27 Nov 2011
3,10,11,17,18,24,25,31 Dec 2011

Bride: Pig
Bride's Parent: Snake & Horse

Groom: Monkey
Groom's Parents: Horse & Dragon

Thanks for your help in advance!
 
Hi Master Tong,

Thanks for your detailed reply. Apparently, most couples here do not bother to read previous posts and threads.. hence, there would always be people asking for good dates in 2011, despite rabbit year clashing with roosters...

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I will be emailing you for the two other dates soon.. Thank you so much.. The fees were well spent.

I booked my 2011 weekend wedding banquet in Dec 2009... :D heehee.. coz i very kaisu...
 
Hi Master Tong,

Pls ignore my previous mail..
Could you kindly advise which of the following dates will NOT clash with our zodiac?
As we prefer weekend from Sept - Dec 2011

8,15,16,23,30 Oct 2011
5,6,12,13,19,20,26,27 Nov 2011
3,11,17,18,24,25,31 Dec 2011

Bride: Pig
Bride's Parent: Snake & Horse

Groom: Monkey
Groom's Parents: Horse & Dragon

Thanks for your help in advance!
 
Hi Master Tong
Can you please advise which are the good dates to AN CHUANG in 2010? Preferably Sep or Oct

My AD is on 10.10.10,I am Horse(78)and he is Snake (77)

Thanks
 
Hi Master Tong,

My fiance and I would like to seek your advice on our wedding date, which we planned on the 1 January 2011.

Bride: 07 Dec 1984 (Rat)
Groom: 15 Aug 1976 (Dragon)

Bride's Mom: 15 Mei 1954 (Horse)
Bride's Dad: 06 July 1954(Horse)

Groom's Mom: 10 Dec 1952 (Dragon)
Groom's Dad: 23 Aug 1949 (Ox)

Thank You for your help in advance.
 
Hi Master Tong, thanks for ur advice.
May I know whether will 8th Oct 2011 much suitable for us compared to 22nd Oct 2011?
 
hi master Tong,
need your advice on the following date for wedding
19 June 2011
10 July 2011
23 July 2011

Bride 29 dec 1982 (eng)
15 nov 1982
Bride father 3 march 1952 (eng)
8 feb 1952
Bride mother 26 apr 1953 (eng)
13 march 1953

Groom 31 march 1982 (eng)
7 march 1982 (eng)
Groom father 24 sep 1951 (eng)
24 Aug 1951
Groom mother 11 feb 1952 (eng)
16 jan 1952

We really appreciate your kindness in helping us guide to a better future.
 
Year Clash, Month/Day Clash Days...

It is not just years that are governed by this cycle; months and days are as well. That is how you get the personal clash day. If you were born in the year of the dog and it is the day of the dragon then you could have very bad luck on that day.


It is considered a highly inauspicious day and together with other inauspicious days such as the year breaker days and month breaker days, should not be use for any auspicious activities such as ground breaking, moving house, opening ceremonies or commencing new businesses, purchasing properties, travel, marriage etc.

For Roosters, lunar Rabbit Year 2011 is not a good year for wedding. Ideally you should not do it in 2011. But the groom is born in Dog yr, hence 2012 is not good for him as Dragon and Dog clashes. Ideally you should do it this yr or 2013.
 
Hi Master Tong

My boyfriend is born Rooster yr and I am born in Dog yr. I know that ideally we should not get married in 2011 and 2012. However, my father passed on recently so we cannot have wedding this year (according to Cantonese belief). And we do not want to wait until 2013 to get married.

In such a case, how can we still proceed with our marriage in 2011? What can we do to avoid the "clashing"?

Thank you in advance for answering to my enquiries.
 
Hi Master Tong,
One of our friends' mother just passed away. What is the guideline (nos of days) if we should invite him to our wedding?
 
Hi mehmeh,

Here are some general tong shu good dates (Dec 2010, Jan 2011):

01/12, 08/12, 20/12, 01/01, 06/01, 15/01, 18/01, 30/01

Note that both your Bazi are not taken into consideration yet. Hence if the tong shu general date and your bazi are not compatible, these dates can still be deemed as inauspicious for both of you.

Hope this helps
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Hi Ketty,

April is the Qing Ming month, normally we dont choose dates around that period. The tong shu is not out yet. Exactly when depends on the publisher. It can be anytime these few weeks or even next month
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Hi Chan,

Here are some general tong shu dates:

- 04/11, 12/11, 25/11, 26/11, 01/12, 07/12, 20/12

Note that both your Bazi are not taken into consideration yet. Hence if the tong shu general date and your bazi are not compatible, these dates can still be deemed as inauspicious for both of you.

Hope this helps
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Hi DovMal,

Bazi method is the right and authentic method to select a wedding date. The tong shu is just a general date selection only. Think abt it...if a tong shu says that a particular day is good for wedding, then the whole world is good for wedding? Logically this already doesn't sound right or convincing. There will still be someone good and someone bad on that day, and the only way to determine that is to check and analyse both your bazi to determine if that day is specifically good for both of you.

Hope this helps
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Hi E Tan,

You can do An Chuang on 3rd Oct 2010.

This day clashes Dragon, hence make sure the good fortune couple that An Chuang for your does not belong to this sign.

Hope this helps
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Hi Cleo,

This date is a general tong shu good date for wedding and does not clash to any of you (clash Dog ).

Note that both your Bazi are not taken into consideration yet. Hence if the tong shu general date and your bazi are not compatible, these dates can still be deemed as inauspicious for both of you.
 
Hi Cheri Evo,

The only way to determine this will have to involve calculating both your Bazi. Using a tong shu alone cannot tell you this.

Hope this helps.
 
Hi ang ru yi,

Only 23 July 2011 does not clash to anyone (clash Rooster).

Note that this is not a good date yet as the tong shu is not out. Will have to check the tong shu after it is out to see if this is a general good date. The only way to do it now will be using both your Bazi to calculate

Hope this helps
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Hi Meiz Koh,

You cannot avoid the clash. This is not Feng Shui or Chinese Metaphysics. More of our chinese customs and beliefs. Most chinese believes you have to do it within 100 days or 1 year later (some 3 year later). One way to get around it will be to do your wedding within 100 days or at least ROM within 100 days and do your AD in 2011. This is the best way to do it, though the best will still be to wait till 2013 or do it this yr.
 
Hi David,

like to add on to vitamincc18... say if a friend's father passed away, and he attends a wedding.. what are the possible implications?
 
Hi Weixiang,

This is a principle of respect for the deceased, no implications. If a person's close ones passed away, isn't it not right to hold a big celebration immediately after that? This is our chinese customs only, not feng shui
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Hi Master Tong

Thanks for your prompt reply. Yes, but my boyfriend's family believe that we cannot ROM within 100 days so must be in the next lunar year. (Minority in the chinese belief.)

If ROM and AD is in 2011 and my boyfriend is a rooster, what will happen? Will this cause bad luck to ourselves, to our family or?
 
Hi Master Tong,
I would like to seek for your advise on suitable solemnisation dates in October 2010.

Bride: Tiger (1974)
Bride Mum: Ox
Bride Dad: Ox

Groom: Rabbit (1975)
Groom Mum: Rabit

Hope to hear from you soon. Thank you.
 
Hi Master Tong,
I would like to seek for your advise on suitable dates in 2011, for holding both ROM & AD together.

Bride: DoG (17 July 1982)
Bride Mum: Dog
Bride Dad: Sheep

Groom: rooster (19 Jan 1982)
Groom Dad: Dragon

Please let us know which are the good dates for us. Hope to hear from you soon. Thank you.
 
Hi vitamincc18

If your friend does not believe in all these, he or she can still attend. The person that goes to will suffer the bad luck. Hence both of you are ok, so long as you don't attend other's. Whoever wants to come to your wedding, you cannot control them
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Hi Meiz Koh,

The actual impact will have to look at both your Bazi. If a couple's bazi indicates that they will have a bad marriage or potential to divorce, getting married on an inauspicious date may actually trigger this to happen or result in more arguments and quarrels etc.
 
Hi bunnypaw_bride

Here are some general tong shu good dates you can use:

6/10, 7/10, 20/10, 23/10

Note that both your bazi are not taken into consideration yet as a good date in the tong shu can still be deemed as inauspicious if the date and bazi are not compatible.

Hope this helps
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Hi Master David

Can I have a auspicious wedding date for Year 2011, somewhere ard mid - end of next year.

Groom : 25th Feb 1980
Bride : 28th Sept 1981

Groom's father: Mouse
Groom's mother: Dragon

Bride's father: Tiger
Bride's mother: Snake
 
Hi Master David,

Am looking for an auspicious wedding date for Year2012. When will the tong shu for 2012 be coming out?

As you know, couple needs to book the banquet, minimum at least 1 yr in advance so hw do we get the auspicious date when the tong shu for 2011 is not even out yet, esp those who are planning in the early 2011?

Please advise, thank you.
 
shroom: what i did was, i paid David for his consultation fees... in return, i get a list of auspicious dates and timings based on bazi...

i consulted david in Nov 2009, where i finalised and booked my wedding banquet in Dec 2009... My AD is in Jan 2011...

For such services, its understandable that it cannot be done for free. David will need to calculate and determine the dates which are most suitable according to your bazi.. Anyway, David's charges are very reasonable... so far, i have 3 separate friends who have already engaged his services already.

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hence, its personalised using your bazi, not just mass consumption like in the tong shu. where the so called good dates might end up not being good dates due to clashes with one's bazi.

for me, marriage is a once in a lifetime important event, a next phase in life.. hence, i would rather have a detailed reading than just using some tong shu, when its like mass consumption.
 

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