Master David Tong's Advice Corner (Geomancy and Fengshui)


Hi Mrs Sim to be,

21st May 09 is not a good general Tong Shu date for wedding purpose. If you haven't book, i will advise you to select a better date
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hi David,

Just want to check Is 10 10 10 or 20 10 10 suitable for our Ad?

Groom: Goat
Bride: Monkey
Groom Parents: mum (horse), dad (rat)
Brides parents: Mum (rooster) dad (ox)

Please advise thx.
 
Hi David,

We plan to ROM on 090909. Although it is on lunar 7mth, heard that the TongShu states it is a good day for wedding.
Can I check if it is ok for us to ROm on this day?
Me: Dog
him: Monkey
our parents: Tiger, snake, dragon, goat

Thank you so much!
 
Hi Jeslyn,

For 10th Oct 09, it is not a general Tong Shu auspicious date for wedding and it will clash to Horse, which is the groom's mum.

As for the 2010 dates, I will not be able to give you the general Tong Shu auspicious dates as the Tong Shu will only be out in July period. The only way to do it now will be via Bazi Wedding Date selection.

In any case, 20th Oct 2010 will clash to Rooster, which is your mum's animal sign.

Hope this helps Jeslyn
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Hi summer,

Yes 090909 is in the 7th lunar month. And in the Tong Shu, it is a general good day for wedding. This day does not clash to any one of you as well (will clash to Pig). I will not be able to tell specifically if it is a good or bad day for both of you as this got to be determined by both your Bazi. But for general good day, yes it is
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Strictly speaking from the perspective of Chinese Metaphysics, you can get married in 7th lunar month. There is no "rule" that says cannot. Authentic date selection does not take into account our tradition or cultural beliefs. It is mainly a form of Chinese Astrology.

However, being Chinese, we tend to follow these tradition and cultural beliefs. If your parents and your spouse's parents does not mind both of you getting married in the 7th lunar month, then yes you may go ahead. Normally I will not select dates in this month for my clients coz even if the couples are ok with it, 99% of the time, their parents or grandparents will mind.

Hope this helps summer
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Hi David,

I am planning to have the ROM on 14 June 2009 but i am not sure if this is a good date. Appreciate if you could advice.
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Thank you very much.

I feel mine is slightly complicated due to
1. my husband to be is not Chinese
2. and his parents + my dad may not be present at the ROM

Groom: Horse
Bride: Horse
Bride parents: Mum (ox) Dad (snake)
Groom parents: Mum (rabbit) Dad (ox)

Thank you
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Hi Candy,

14th June 09 is good "general" Tong Shu date for marriage purpose. It will not clash to any of you.

From the date selection perspective, it is not complicated at all Candy. The way to select the dates will still be the same
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Hi David,
I am thinking of holding booking my banquet on either 25/10/2009 .Is it a good date?

Groom: Rat
Bride: Dragon
Bride's Parents: Mum(Snake)
Groom's parents: Dad (Dog), Mum(Monkey)

Thanks!!
 
Hello David,

Hope to gain your advise if 2009 is a good year to wed as I saw from the news that according to the Taiwanese, it is not a good year as it is a year of loneliness.

We are planning to wed on 28 oct 2009
Groom : Snake
Bride : Rooster
Groom's parents : Rooster and Tiger
Bride's parents : Monkey and Pig

Is it an auspicious day? Thanks!
 
Hi Yvonne,

25/10/09 is a good 'general' Tong Shu auspicious date for wedding. It does not clash to any of you. I can't tell if it is a good or bad date specifically for both of you as the Bazi has to be taken into consideration. But in terms of 'general' good days, yes it is good.

Hope this helps
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Hi Mrs Lim,

28th Oct 09 is an auspicious Tong Shu date for wedding.

It is not true. There is no such thing. That is just a TV program and it is for entertainment purpose. If every single person that gets married in 2009 divorce or have other marriage issues, then I am convinced. But in real life, this is not the case. Most of them are still living happily after marriage, till the rest of their lives.

Whether a year is good or bad for marriage cannot be determined by just the year alone. Every year can be good or bad and it depends on your Bazi.

Hope this helps
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Hi, I believe wedding dates should be according to our bazi. It's like different beliefs different culture they have a different yr for gd and bad wedding. Like the TV program it says this yr 2009 is not good for wedding and I heard from another feng shui master yr 2010 is also not a good yr to get married. So when is a good year? So I feel that by calculating using your bazi will be a better way to determine ur wedding date.
 
Bingo...if every yr ppl tell u it's no good for marriage, then u dun need to get married liao right? Our Bazi is unique to ourselves only and cannot be taken as a 'one-size-fits-all' kinda concept.
 
Hi David shifu,

we have planned to get married on 20 mar 2010. Is that an ok date? we dont need a super auspicious date....Both of us are born in the year of dog.
 
Hello David,

Thanks for the advices, we chose the date ourselves, now its only the timing, we may visit you for the timing advices. I think this is a good outlet for couples to gain some insights from you if they believe in the tong shu rather than speculate. :-)
 
Hi everyone,

Yes Thomas and Liling are correct. Everyone of us has a different set of Bazi, and hence the good year or date to get married is different. Saying a particular year (such as 2010) is not good for marriage for everyone is certainly not true. In that case, like what Thomas mentioned, we all no need to get married already, or have to wait and wait for many years before we can get married. The worse thing is...all hotels will suffer coz those 2 years no one wants to get married!

Authentic date selections is independent of any religion, beliefs, tradition or culture. It is a form of Chinese Astrology. This is very important to understand. I hope everyone will calms your fears about 2009 or 2010 is a bad year for marriage. It is certainly 101% not true
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Hi Jalene,

The tong Shu for 2010 is not out yet, so there is no way to determine general auspicious Tong Shu date now. What i can only help is to see if that day clashes to either of you or your parents.

What are your parents' animal signs?
 
Hi Mrs Lim,

That is a good general date
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Yes the auspicious timing for each day is very important. A day may be auspicious, but if the timing is wrong (eg sign the ROM doc on a bad hour), it will negate the auspiciousness of that good day. So, in general, not only a good day is important, the timing is just as important.
 
Hi jalene,

This day will clash to pigs. Therefore, it does not clash to any of you (except the groom's side).

As for whether if it is an auspicious date, the only way to do it now if you want to select 2010 dates will be via Bazi Wedding Date Selection.

Hope this helps jalene
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Dear btbs, I personally find david very friendly and professional..my friend recommended him to me for my new house and selection of weddg dates before this forum thread started.. His fees are reasonable thou not the cheapest but the service is great. Thanks David ! See u soon!
 
Hi David,
Thanks so much
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his parents are older than mine.. so definitely the sign is not pigs.
its good enough for me, as we are not going into details to look for a auspicious day..timing etc.
Appreciate your advice David!
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Hi David,

Would you kindly advise if 28th Nov 2009 will be an auspicious wedding date for us?

Bride = dragon
Groom = goat

Thanks!!
 
Hello David Shi Fu,

Could you please advise as to whether May 29, 2010 is an auspicious wedding date for us.

Bride=Tiger
Groom=Sheep
Bride's Mother= Dragon
Bride's Father=Dog
Groom's Mother=Tiger
Groom's Father=Rat

Thanks so much. Your advice is greatly appreciated.
 
Hi ng,

28th Nov is not a general Tong Shu auspicious date for wedding. Furthermore, this date will clash to the Groom. Not advisable to use at all.

Hope this helps Ng
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Hi Jennifer,

The Tong Shu for 2010 is not out yet. It will be out sometime around July this year, so in terms of Tong Shu general auspicious dates, I can only check for you when it is out. The only way to do it now will be via Bazi Wedding Date selecton, which is selecting auspicious dates using both your Bazi. This is the right and authentic method of selecting wedding dates. Tong Shu is not an accurate means of selecting wedding dates and is more for "mass consumption".

For 29th May 2010, this day will not clash to any of you. As to whether if it is good or bad for both of you, I can't tell without the Bazi of both of you.

Hope this helps
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hi we are planning to get married on either april 18 or july 18 2010 ..which one is a better date or both are good for marriage? thanks!
bride=sheep
groom=horse
 
Hi devilishcin79,

Bazi refers to your birthday and time of birth (according to your birth certificate).

For Bazi Wedding Date selection, it is part of the consultation service that I provide to my clients, hence I will not be able to provide the dates here in the forum as it will be unfair to my clients who consulted me. Hope you understand.

Selection of dates using Bazi is a much more detailed process and involves lots of work to derive the dates, so as to arrive at the date where it is specifically good for both of you only. The auspicious timing for each day will also be provided specifically for the events that will take place (eg, signing of ROM documents, fetching the bride etc etc).

Have a Happy Lunar New Year
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Hi angel,

The Tong Shu for 2010 is not out yet. So the only way to select auspicious date for 2010 is via Bazi Wedding Date selection.

Hence, I will only be able to advise you if it happens that a particular is definitely no good or clashes to you or your parents. As for general Tong shu auspicious days, the Tong Shu will only be out sometime around July period.

For April 18th, it is defintiely a bad day and not suitable for wedding purpose.

Hope this helps and Happy Lunar New Year to you.
 
For those who are reading this thread now...

A Happy Lunar New Year to you. May the Year of the Earth Ox brings you good health and lots of wealth!
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Hi David

Would like to seek your advice on holding my wedding on 4 Dec 09

Groom=Rooster
Bride=Monkey
Groom's father=Pig
Groom's mother=Dragon
Bride's father=Dragon
Bride's mother=Horse

Thank you..!
 
hi thanks for your response ...so definitely, we wont go on with the april 18 2010 since its not suitable for wedding purpose...

how bout my second choice which is...July 18, 2010? thanks and happy lunar new year to you too..

bride=sheep
groom=horse
bride's mom=rooster
bride's dad=sheep
groom's mom=dragon
groom's dad=tiger
 
Hi angel,

July 18 2010 will not clash to any of you. It will clash to pigs.

The tong shu is not out yet, so in terms of general auspicious dates, i won't be able to tell you now. It has to be calculated using Bazi.

Hope this helps
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