Master David Tong's Advice Corner (Geomancy and Fengshui)

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sealion17

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

We have decided on 1 June 2013 as our wedding date. Does the chu jia timing matter? It seems to be that the timing of 7-9 am clashes with Pig, the birth sign of the groom's mother.

please advise, thanks.
 


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mitzsze

New Member
      
Dear Master Tong, 

Sorry for missing your instructions in the earlier post
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here is the repost info with the preferred time indicated.

would like to seek your advice on a good date for our ROM aka AD as we are deciding for a simple ceremony.

Groom 11 Aug 80 - monkey 
bride 30 Jan 76 - rabbit 

groom dad 1943 - goat 
groom mum 1946 - dog 

bride dad 1944 - monkey 
bride mum 1948 - rat 

Time period preferred :  fri, sat or sun from April to June period.
 Thanks
 
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happywoman

New Member
Hi master david tong,

Thks for advise . I have chosen a few dates, need ur advise whether is advisable for both us to ROM.

Bride :dragon
Groom :pig
Parent : all pig

3 may 2012
3 sept 2012
10 dec 2012

thks in advance . By the way, is it ok for a person
who born in the year of dragon to get rom on the year
of dragon ?
 
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jenniz16

New Member
Dear Master Tong,

We would like to seek your advice on a good date as we are planning to ROM in Apr 2012.

Groom's dob: 12 April 1987 (rabbit)
Bride's dob: 16 January 1988 (rabbit)

Groom's dad zodiac sign: passed away
Groom's mom zodiac sign: 15 July 1954(Horse)

Bride's dad zodiac sign: 17 December 1953 (Snake)
Bride's mom zodiac sign: 20 October 1952 (Dragon)

We were actually looking at 29 April, is it a good date?

Looking forward to hear the good news.
 
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mingyi

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

With regards to the auspicious move-in dates, may I know if this date is the date we start to move things in after renovation or is it the date we start to live in the flat?
Kindly advise. Thank you!
 
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pinkyspree

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

We thinking of having the wedding in 2013.

We have a few dates here : 4 may , 8 June, 22 June or 19 Oct. Any of these are good dates?

Bride 11 May 1982 Dog
Groom 22 Sep 1981 Rooster

Bride Mum 1953 Snake
Bride Dad -passed away

Groom Mum 1958 dog
Groom Dad 1955 Lamb

Thanks
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mingyi

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

I would also like to check if it is necessary to find an auspicious date to go to our new flat for the first time? And is it ok to go during the Qing Ming period?

Thanks in advance! ;)
 
cmg_consulting

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Sherry Lim

That date clashes to Ox (groom), hence cannot be used.

The tong shu for 2013 is not out yet hence if you looking at only general dates, the tong shu will be out in Aug this yr, hence you can contact me then. right now, the only way to do it will be using bazi to calculate, but i do charge for this as it is part of my consultation service, else will be unfair to my paying clients.

Hope this helps
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Jesline Tam

Here are some general gd dates for end 2012

- 13/11, 15/11, 18/11, 25/11, 27/11, 30/11, 07/12, 09/12, 13/12, 21/12

** Note that there are general tong shu good dates only and both your bazi are not taken into consideration yet. If the date does not match both your Bazi, the date is still considered inauspicious, even if the tong shu says good as tong shu is for generic mass consumption only
 
cmg_consulting

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi mitzsze

No worries
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Here are the general gd dates for 2012 April - June:

- 21/04, 18/05, 20/05 (no dates in june)

Hope this helps
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** Note that there are general tong shu good dates only and both your bazi are not taken into consideration yet. If the date does not match both your Bazi, the date is still considered inauspicious, even if the tong shu says good as tong shu is for generic mass consumption only
 
cmg_consulting

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi happywoman

For ur dates:

3 may 2012 - Not a tong shu gd date for wedding
3 sept 2012 - in 7th lunar mth
10 dec 2012 - Clash Pig

hence all dates cannot be used.

Yes, dragon person can be married in dragon yr, no problem. all u need is a gd date
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Jennifer Tan

29/4 is a bad date for ROM. There are no good weekend dates for you to ROM in April. Other mths can? All the weekends in April either clashes to your or no gd. First 2 wks of April falls into Qing Ming mth, hence out
 
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Ivy Quek

Only 19/10/2013 is a potentially good date that dont clash anyone. However if it will be a general tong shu good date or not, will have to wait till tong shu is out in Aug this yr. Now the only way is to use Bazi to calculate and confirm
 
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cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Mandy

Yes, it is our chinese belief (not feng shui) that we must choose a good date to open door for the 1st time.

I guess you have no choice if your flat comes in Qing Ming period as HDB requires you to report defects within 7 days
 
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stardust31

New Member
Hi Master Tong

noted.

Bride: Ox
Groom: Goat

Bride's mum: Rooster
Bride's dad: Horse

Groom's mum: Dragon

we plan to do:

GDL/AC: 12.05.11

or

GDL: 12.05.11
AC: 18.05.11

also, AC can be done by the couple themselves right?

thank you!
 
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mingyi

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Thank you for the reply.

With regards to the auspicious move-in date, our customary is on 19 Jan 2013 and we will only be moving in (live in the flat) 2 days later but the next auspicious move-in date is on 24 Jan 2013.
Anyway to work around this?
 
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kitminish

Member
Hi Master Tong,

Is 25 Dec 2013 a good wedding date for us?

Bride 14 Feb 1988 Dragon
Groom 15 Mar 1986 Tiger

Groom Mum 1947 pig

Bride Mum 1964 dragon
Bride Dad Jan 1963 Tiger
 
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sleepypiggy83

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

We are planning to get married end of 2012 or early 2013.
Pls advise when is a good date for both ROM and customary?

Bride 10 Aug 1983 (pig )
Groom 21 Sep 1977 (snake)

Groom mum 26 feb 1950 (tiger)
Groom dad 12 mar 1950 (tiger)

Bride mum 30 May 1952 (dragon)
Bride dad 7 dec 1945 (rooster)

Thank you.
 
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happywoman

New Member
hi David Tong,

thks again for ur prompt reply and advise .

looks like all my prefer dates r out .
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here is my third option dates:

1.month of may or june as long is weekday.

hope u can advise the best day for both of us

thks .
 
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sealion17

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

What are the good dates for ROM if we plan to do so in April 2012?

Bride: Ox
Groom: Rat

Bride Mom: Goat
Groom Mom: Pig
Groom Dad: Monkey

Thanks!
 
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sharon90

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Is it advisable to go for ROM in 2012?

Bride: 1 Oct 1990 (Horse)
Groom: 24 Dec 1986 (Tiger)

Bride Dad & Mom: 1961 (Ox)
Groom Dad: 1962 (Tiger)

Thank you!
 
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missiepoof

New Member
Dear Master Tong

We would like to seek your advice on a good date for wedding ROM and AD (both on same day).

Proposed dates:
ROM and AD – 12, 13, 19 or 20 Jan 2013
(if the above dates are not suitable, are there any other better dates before Chinese New Year in 2013? preferably on Sat/Sun)

Bride DOB – 3 Sep 1984 (Rat)
Groom DOB – 1 Dec 1986 (Tiger)

Bride Dad DOB – 30 Jul 1943 (Goat)
Bride Mum DOB – 6 Aug 1952 (Dragon)

Groom Dad DOB – 17 Sep 1946 (Dog)
Groom Mom DOB – 23 Nov 1949 (Ox)

Would also like to find out if a baby born in the year of Horse (target June 2014) will get along well with Rat and Tiger.

Appreciate your help. Thank you very much! =)
 
minishop

minishop

New Member
Dear Master, I would like to find out when is the best time for my husband to have his 1st day at his new job. He is born in 23 Nov 1970 (Dog). Thank you very much. ^^
 
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stardust31

New Member
**Repost due to wrong year input**

Hi Master Tong

noted.

Bride: Ox
Groom: Goat

Bride's mum: Rooster
Bride's dad: Horse

Groom's mum: Dragon

we plan to do:

GDL/AC: 12.05.12

or

GDL: 12.05.12
AC: 18.05.12

also, AC can be done by the couple themselves right?

thank you!
 
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jenniz16

New Member
Dear Master Tong,

Previously you were saying 29 Apr 2012 is a bad date for ROM, may I know "bad date for ROM" is referring to how bad? e.g is it like forever bad luck? or will become broken marriage?

Alternatively, any weekends in May 2012 or 28/10/2012 good for us to ROM?

Groom's dob: 12 April 1987 (rabbit)
Bride's dob: 16 January 1988 (rabbit)

Groom's dad zodiac sign: passed away
Groom's mom zodiac sign: 15 July 1954 (Horse)

Bride's dad zodiac sign: 17 December 1953 (Snake)
Bride's mom zodiac sign: 20 October 1952 (Dragon)

Thank you!
 
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jenniz16

New Member
Dear Master Tong,

People nowadays feels that an auspicious date is more necessary for chinese wedding customary+dinner than ROM (if held separately). Is this true?
 
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jenniz16

New Member
sorry master tong! i think i have the answer for "Which is more important, ROM or Customary Wedding?" from your website! hence, you can ignore.. =)

but i really need your help on this:

My brother and his wife (both Ox) are ROM-ing in Feb 2012 and custom in March 2012 & my Fiancé's brother and his wife (both rooster) are ROM-ing+custom in March 2012 too. And me and my Fiancé needs to get married this year too, as our flat is coming! Please advice!

Thank you!
 
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pinkk11

New Member
Dear Master Tong

We would like to seek your advice on a good date in Sep for for wedding ROM and AD (same day).

Preferably on weekday like Wed or Thurs?

Bride DOB – 28 Sep 1983 (Pig)
Groom DOB – 04 Jul 1979 (Goat)

Bride Dad DOB – 04 Jul 1958 (Dog)
Bride Mum DOB – 21 Oct 1964 (Dragon)

Groom Dad – Deceased(Pig)
Groom Mom DOB – 25 Jan 1947 (Pig)

Appreciate your help. Thank you very much! =)
 
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vjrequinton

New Member
Good Day Master Tong!

I was hoping you could do a Bazi reading on our chosen wedding date if it would be auspicious for us. If tong shu is also already available we hope to get that reading too.

Bride: March 25 1984 Year of the Rat
Groom: October 18 1982 Year of the Dog

Our chosen wedding date is February 16 2013. I hope you can give us an idea about the suitability of the date.
 
cmg_consulting

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Jaymee

AC and GDL on 12th is good. 18th clash Rooster

By right, AC is done by an elderly good fortune couple. This is by right. "by left" some do it themselves, but as i said, this will be "by left"
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cmg_consulting

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Mandy

U can choose a good date to move in before your wedding and stay there one night first. That will be consider move in already. After your wedding, you can just go back anytime. This is the usual way of doing
 
cmg_consulting

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Lihui

2013 Snake yr clashes to Pig, hence bad yr for bride to get married. U have to do it end 2012

Here are the general gd dates:

- 01/10, 13/11, 15/11, 18/11, 20/11, 25/11, 27/11, 30/11, 07/12, 09/12, 21/12, 02/01, 07/01, 19/01,

** Note that there are general tong shu good dates only and both your bazi are not taken into consideration yet. If the date does not match both your Bazi, the date is still considered inauspicious, even if the tong shu says good as tong shu is for generic mass consumption only
 
cmg_consulting

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi JG

13th and 19th jan are general good dates that don't clash anyone

Horse clash with Rat, hence on a superficial level, no good. BUT whether if the child brings luck to you or curse parents will have to look at his year month day and hr of birth. Zodiac sign compatibility analyisis is too superficial and not accurate

** Note that there are general tong shu good dates only and both your bazi are not taken into consideration yet. If the date does not match both your Bazi, the date is still considered inauspicious, even if the tong shu says good as tong shu is for generic mass consumption only
 
cmg_consulting

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Minishop

For this, will have to use his bazi (birthday and time of birth) to calculate. Hence he will need to do a Bazi Destiny Analysis to find out.
 
cmg_consulting

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Jennifer tan

It is super bad. It is a Po Ri. If your marriage already got problems, this will aggravate it. the extent of inauspicious depends on how gd or bad your marriage luck in both your bazi.

28/10 is not a gd date either.

you can use 05/05, 06/05, 20/05 for ROM. These are general gd dates and don't clash your.

** Note that there are general tong shu good dates only and both your bazi are not taken into consideration yet. If the date does not match both your Bazi, the date is still considered inauspicious, even if the tong shu says good as tong shu is for generic mass consumption only
 
cmg_consulting

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Jennifer

By right siblings cannot get married same year. If really no choice, at least must be 4 months apart. Otherwise your cannot go to each other's wedding and it is believed to bring bad luck to both parties. No workaround solution. Your will have to work this out yourself who go first
 


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