jkit, I trust no one esp. coordinator. I also know that I can't be asking my hubby to do the checking as most of the stuff from napkin folding, flowers, to placing cards are all chosen by me and will be made by me too. I know very well and don't wanna have them change when I have little time left.
In the morning, there will be only the couple with bridemaids and flower girls taking photo outdoor for about 3 hours and that's it. We are probably do nothing but resting in our suite. Tea ceremony will be half an hour before the dinner starts.
I've gone thru once, I mean being a pretty bride on my ROM and assuming things will be right but too bad, I was quite upset on that day. Really disappointed. I won't let that happen again. It is my day and I wish to follow up every single details myself, not depending on others as others can't be bother, as it is not theirs.
Everything we are doing for the wedding is mainly to satisfied ourselves, or else, who actually noted that you choose lilt instead of roses for your table arrangement, no one will even bother to remember what colour are the linen used but the couples themselves. I wish to see what I wish on my day. I won't even bother if someone comes in slipper just to sabotage my day. =)