How to solve this?

[texasholdem]

i am qite unhappy with my partner whenever she goes out with her colleagues. everytime reach home late and expect me to wait for her to call.
before marriage is like this and after still the same. how to solve this?

 

[koikoi]

Hi Alvin,

So you are ald married and not living together?

You can speak to her.
Tell her how you feel.
Bring your points out to her.
I'm sure she will try to understand.

My HB and me will call each other too when he went back to his mum's place for the night etc...

Tell her you will wait for her call but if you did not ans it when it's ald late at night,
she should hang up and just drop you a msg etc.

And how long have the both of you been together?

 

[alcifertoh]

You can go out with your friends as well or find something to keep yourself occupied.

You know that she's been like that before marriage and what makes you think that she would change and be home bound after marriage?

 

[ivy_tan77]

nothing wrong with a female going out with colleague... as long as she remains faithful to u, what's the big deal?

 

[texasholdem]

what i feel is she spending more time with them then with me

 

[hungrydog]

Alvin, since you are concerned abt this, then you have to communicate with her, that you would really hope to spent more quality time with her..Rem to sound nice and dun sound like a complaint abt her spending time with her colls..

 

[smileyclara]

Alvin, even if you are married, you must still have your own life, goals and personal developments. Same as your wife.

Of course there must be time when both of you do things together but there must also be occasions when you have your own time to go out with your friends and have fun. Same for your wife.

Im not sure to what extends/how frequent that your wife return home late. What im trying to say is Married Life does not means that everyday, your life is only revolving around each other.

 

[sheezh]

Are the colleagues a mixed group? or a group of solely females? Could you join your wife and her colleagues??

A few of my married colleagues sometimes bring their partner along, and before we knew it, we are hanging out with their partners and their colleagues.