Forgive again? Please lead me the way...I am totally lost..
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powderful07
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The hubby crying now lah...so give him some time to come up with the ED, work stress story again...and her to grieve about it for 5 mins; forgive him...and then remind him of the tasks that he needs to do for her tomorrow (top up cash card, pump petrol, transfer allowance into her account etc etc)...
Then tomorrow, it'll all be fine again...and she'll get back to her tai-tai lifestyle again...
Until the next incident happens again...
Then tomorrow, it'll all be fine again...and she'll get back to her tai-tai lifestyle again...
Until the next incident happens again...
kk_kids_mum
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Hi
To all Ladies out there who is thinking divorce & wif Kids....
I think some of u may had ever give advice to me about my Sad & Painfull Story in s'pore bride or 'stomp talk back"...
<font size="+2">Juz to let u all know I HAD WIN THE BATTLES</font>
Finally GOD HAD ANSWERS TO MY PRAYER!
They sees & knows that I'm suffering. My 3yrs of Waiting & Suffering FINALLY OVER, I had also climb up from the Grave Yard!
My Kid's father is back...my Husband is back...The "Bad's Devil" had left him & the "Good Angel" is back.
Now the 'World' had changed..so messy & wif many 'Weird Things' happend recently!
But I chose to believe myself, been married wif my Husband for so many year, I believe this is not 'himself'!
<font size="+2">HAPPY ENDING WIF HAPPY FAMILY</font>
My Kids is very happy, lucky I did not make a wrong decision to Divorce him but I learn to forgive him instead.....
(Maybe some of u think that I may be stupid to forgive this kind of man who betray me & make me suffer & hurt my so DEEP! But I think I'm NOT Stupid!! Because If I chose to Hate him forever & take Revenage of him, I think I maybe regret in future & after I get all the revenage frm him, I will not be happy also because my mind & body is full of HATE!!)
So my advice to all of u is..(1) Learn to 'Let go yourself,dont STRESS urself',(2) Don't too depends on ur partner & learn to be more Independent,(3) FORGIVNESS,(4) Don't be HOT TEMPER or Stuborrn person & learn to say SORRY even is not ur fault,(5) Learn to Walk out of the Sufferring by urseif, MOVE ON,(6) Don't be Selfish person,(7) Kids are Important & tell the Kids u will give them a Happy Family,(8) NO Revenage & No Hate,(9) Relax & think back what wrong, why must Divorce?? Tell urself that even without ur partner ur life will still be Good even they are back, (10) Tell urself nothing is Impossible, u can do it! Never think of 'DIE' !!
(In chinese we say "Nothing will Happened to urself even Sky fallen, juz treat it as a Blanket to cover urself )
Don't Die so easy, let ur partner see u are a 'Strong person"!
God can see who is 'Good' & who is 'Bad'! Be happy & let ur partner regret what they doing now.
Anyone who want listning ear or advice, u can PM me to talk wif me!!
<font size="+2">THANK YOU TO ALL OF U</font>
To all Ladies out there who is thinking divorce & wif Kids....
I think some of u may had ever give advice to me about my Sad & Painfull Story in s'pore bride or 'stomp talk back"...
<font size="+2">Juz to let u all know I HAD WIN THE BATTLES</font>
Finally GOD HAD ANSWERS TO MY PRAYER!
They sees & knows that I'm suffering. My 3yrs of Waiting & Suffering FINALLY OVER, I had also climb up from the Grave Yard!
My Kid's father is back...my Husband is back...The "Bad's Devil" had left him & the "Good Angel" is back.
Now the 'World' had changed..so messy & wif many 'Weird Things' happend recently!
But I chose to believe myself, been married wif my Husband for so many year, I believe this is not 'himself'!
<font size="+2">HAPPY ENDING WIF HAPPY FAMILY</font>
My Kids is very happy, lucky I did not make a wrong decision to Divorce him but I learn to forgive him instead.....
(Maybe some of u think that I may be stupid to forgive this kind of man who betray me & make me suffer & hurt my so DEEP! But I think I'm NOT Stupid!! Because If I chose to Hate him forever & take Revenage of him, I think I maybe regret in future & after I get all the revenage frm him, I will not be happy also because my mind & body is full of HATE!!)
So my advice to all of u is..(1) Learn to 'Let go yourself,dont STRESS urself',(2) Don't too depends on ur partner & learn to be more Independent,(3) FORGIVNESS,(4) Don't be HOT TEMPER or Stuborrn person & learn to say SORRY even is not ur fault,(5) Learn to Walk out of the Sufferring by urseif, MOVE ON,(6) Don't be Selfish person,(7) Kids are Important & tell the Kids u will give them a Happy Family,(8) NO Revenage & No Hate,(9) Relax & think back what wrong, why must Divorce?? Tell urself that even without ur partner ur life will still be Good even they are back, (10) Tell urself nothing is Impossible, u can do it! Never think of 'DIE' !!
(In chinese we say "Nothing will Happened to urself even Sky fallen, juz treat it as a Blanket to cover urself )
Don't Die so easy, let ur partner see u are a 'Strong person"!
God can see who is 'Good' & who is 'Bad'! Be happy & let ur partner regret what they doing now.
Anyone who want listning ear or advice, u can PM me to talk wif me!!
<font size="+2">THANK YOU TO ALL OF U</font>
kk_kids_mum
New Member
LOVE... is kind, patient, understanding, never speak of evil
... does not keep a record of wrong
... means never having to say you're sorry
... chooses to forgive and forget
... is a deep feeling we can not just hide or ignore
... still shows you care even though the other person didn't care about you
... lastly love never dies, grows even stronger as the days go by and it will only stop at the last breath of life
... does not keep a record of wrong
... means never having to say you're sorry
... chooses to forgive and forget
... is a deep feeling we can not just hide or ignore
... still shows you care even though the other person didn't care about you
... lastly love never dies, grows even stronger as the days go by and it will only stop at the last breath of life
