Hi all,
Its me who initiated adopting a dog. Then my hubby went to spca with me and we decided to bring xiaobai home.. He is the one who wanted to bring him home at first, because i have reservations abt adopting an hyperactive breed.
My hubby is a dog handler at police dog unit..thus he applied the training methods to xiaobai.
During the first few weeks, he was very ethusastic. But recently he kept saying that he was too tired after work to play and sayang him.Thats y i think he is not qualified to be a dog owner. I asked him that will he do that to our children in the future...then he says children will understand that daddy is tired...and dogs shld too.. I was pissed off by his comments becos he cant understand wat a dog or child yearns for..that is a cuddle by daddy and mummy..
The only words that he speak to xiaobai are : no,sit,stay . all those are COMMANDS , not talking..
If i leave both of them alone, my hubby oso wun hack care xiaobai(esp when xiaobai did something wrong earlier). My hubby says that xiaobai will sit by the door all day long if i m not at home.He says xiaobai din take the initiative,so he wun sayang him..stupid rite... after a hard scolding , xiaobai already scared liao, how will he want to go near my hubby???
Now, i try not to comment on how he treats xiaobai, cos i don want to spike an arguement..I just make sure xiaobai receives lots of love from me..
I do agree that xiaobai shld receive punishment when he did something wrong..but my hubby shouted until the whole block can hear...
Btw xiaobai already attended obedience training b4, cos he can understand those "hand signal"...
Its me who initiated adopting a dog. Then my hubby went to spca with me and we decided to bring xiaobai home.. He is the one who wanted to bring him home at first, because i have reservations abt adopting an hyperactive breed.
My hubby is a dog handler at police dog unit..thus he applied the training methods to xiaobai.
During the first few weeks, he was very ethusastic. But recently he kept saying that he was too tired after work to play and sayang him.Thats y i think he is not qualified to be a dog owner. I asked him that will he do that to our children in the future...then he says children will understand that daddy is tired...and dogs shld too.. I was pissed off by his comments becos he cant understand wat a dog or child yearns for..that is a cuddle by daddy and mummy..
The only words that he speak to xiaobai are : no,sit,stay . all those are COMMANDS , not talking..
If i leave both of them alone, my hubby oso wun hack care xiaobai(esp when xiaobai did something wrong earlier). My hubby says that xiaobai will sit by the door all day long if i m not at home.He says xiaobai din take the initiative,so he wun sayang him..stupid rite... after a hard scolding , xiaobai already scared liao, how will he want to go near my hubby???
Now, i try not to comment on how he treats xiaobai, cos i don want to spike an arguement..I just make sure xiaobai receives lots of love from me..
I do agree that xiaobai shld receive punishment when he did something wrong..but my hubby shouted until the whole block can hear...
Btw xiaobai already attended obedience training b4, cos he can understand those "hand signal"...