Divorce Group

[simpleman]

Actually, I had a divorce support group that a friend started 5 years ago and I supported it. I met many friends along the way - till this day, we remain as friends and sometimes we met to have dinner or some other outing.

I have also posted information regarding to SG divorce legal stuff on one of my blog.

The group has not been active for at least 2 to 3 years. Somehow, through the years, there are still people emailing me regarding this group as they want to join this group and meet people - either divorced or in the different stages of divorcing.

Normally, I reply politely that the group is no longer active but if there is anything I can help to answer, I will try to reply to the best of my ability.

But I guess, when people are in the initial stages of a divorce or separation - they really need other people to help or support them - at times just by listening to them or just talking cock ..

I am not too sure of the effectiveness of this group and how to keep it going. Mostly, after a while, people move on and some re-married while others remain as singles..

I have no agenda. If people want to meet and talk about their marital problems - it is really fine. Except that it should not be a session of bashing our exs.

Recently, again I received some emails regarding this group. So I thought I would post it here. If there are at least 4 or 5 people interested, I would not mind facilitating this group.

Anyone can join this group. Be it single, separated, divorced, happily-married or anything. I don't really care.

Some may dismiss the effectiveness of such a group. Yes, I would say as a group, it does not solve any marital problems. But as an outlet to know more friends - it is really not a bad avenue especially if you have children and can share child-rearing tips.

Please PM me if you are interested. I am really bo liao I know.

By the way, I am separated for 4 plus years and now in the final stages of divorce. My court hearing is 11 Sep 2009.

 

[its_fate]

Need to pay member fee not... Wahahaha..

I am sorry to disturb your thread

 

[simpleman]

iris,

Of course free lah..

I bo liao.. just that recently got people email me.. and i feel so pai sei to always say group not active..

You want to be the 1st member to join?

 

[mayimayi]

got group in facebook mah? =X

 

[salsa_babe]

Kaypo Iris....


*scram*

 

[applepie2]

SM,

U r not bo liao. U r just being kind hearted to start a support group that u wont get salaried

keke

 

[serene_yam]

I'll be so glad to know this support group. We need support, people need friends, we need listening ears

 

[its_fate]

salsa - NBz... why U titi follow me?? *bash you and ciao*..............

 

[salsa_babe]

I where got follow kaypo kia....where got? where got?

 

[bloomy12]

I am keen.... pls count me in! how to join?

 

[simpleman]

Please send an email to [email protected]

 

[freeport]

sm,
Join you for sure.

 

[simpleman]

rachel,

Don't join me.. join the group..

email me if interested..

 

[muakz001]

single also can join right? got outing?

 

[simpleman]

suz, of course..

 

[simpleman]

I am thinking now..

should I also collect joining fees?

Just joking...

I will be single pretty soon..

 

[applepie2]

SM,
Instead of joining fees, Y not consider "attractive door gifts" to lure members ?

haha...joking oni.

 

[simpleman]

ya door gifts..

Got a chance to take a photograph with me lor..

 

[applepie2]

U r so funny SM! Will dat be a "gift" or "torture"

But is good u ve such a group cos for pp who went thru the intial phase of divorce, it can be quite tough. So, Jia you! for your effort.

 

[simpleman]

anna anna,

Got a lot of young pretty girls want to take picture with me ok.. so what do you think?

 

[simpleman]

Interested.. please email me.. don't just post here cos I need your email.

I already have 7 emails..

 

[serene_yam]

sm, i PM-ed u already. Can? Or must send email to u?

 

[simpleman]

serene,

sorry.. i think better to send email to me..

thanks.. cos my PM goes to another email..

 

[simpleman]

ok ok.. don't have to send.. i just forwarded you PM to my email..

 

[serene_yam]

thanks sm

 

[verysadman]

Myself are undergoing divorce soon.
Feeling super sad and cried almost every night
i never smoke nor drink but now i frequent them... pls help me overcome this pain !!!
why is the world so unfair !!!

 

[judetan]

hey sad man, u shld not behaving like this la, should brace up. I know its very hurting...but pls be strong. We always have a choice, to be happy or sad, to let go or dont let go..everything happen for a reason.

Nothing is fair in this world, u only can be fair to yourself, by torturing yourself, are you heading anywhere? Nothing lor, jst pain...learn to let go slowly...bit by bit..and you will see rainbow after the rain.

need to cry by all means cry..dont hold back, always seek frens, or yr close family to talk to. u r nt alone.

 

[bigmac]

if u think it's tuff, and feel hopeless....check out this guy.

only when ur situation is worse than his, u can consider giving up

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_jeOguqNIAo

 

[verysadman]

i know wat im doing is wrong but i cant overcome the pain now...
whenever song bet us appear, whenever at night, i would think of her non stop... i cried and cried. Tear flow even now writing... i always look forward a loving family with her. Have kids, grow old etc. But why she choose to give up? must so heartless...!!!

 

[muakz001]

SM, I've emailed you ..

 

[naivegal]

I want to join in the group..

 

[another_sad_one]

Haiz, i put my name in the box and it comes out with my user name gg can someone delete my post.

 

[lemontea75]

hi sm, i would like to join. i've emailed you. thanks

 

[lost_n_sad]

Hi SM,

I like to join your group. Thank you for creating the group.

 

[cappucino]

Hi SM,
I would like to join this group; I had already emailed you. Thanks.

 

[mdm]

HI SM,

Wld like to join this group too!

Thanks!

 

[strawberry_love]

can i join too?

 

[simpleman]

Just send a email to me please..