Hi, I want to get an annulment, have been married for past 5 years but husband refuses to consummate. Gives all kinds of excuses. I don't have a lot of savings, and am worried that if annulment doesn't work out, will have to go for divorce, so hoping to find a good lawyer with high success rate of annulment. I keep asking why dun wan to consummate, he just keeps quiet. Then i say divorce, he said he didn't want. Claims loves me and wants to stay together and wants to consummate, but I have been waiting since honeymoon, still nothing. Am so tired. Pls help.
Desperately seeking good annulment lawyer
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cococherry
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how patience & make no sense only to wake up after 5 long years..it's a long wait. You can google annulment legal services online and call up the law firm.
u can try www.hoh.com.sg
i saw their legal services ad on tv
u can try www.hoh.com.sg
i saw their legal services ad on tv
Later some morons will come and tell you that marriage is not about sex but many other things bla bla bla bla bla and you forget your responsibilities and bla bla bla bla bla...
Can't you forget about sex and be a good wife? LOL~
Chocolatte is right, 5 years for you to lose patience is you are very the patient. Unless you are super ugly or your husband's dick has already expired... how come you have such a problem?
Normally, healthy guys want it everyday. LOL~
Can't you forget about sex and be a good wife? LOL~
Chocolatte is right, 5 years for you to lose patience is you are very the patient. Unless you are super ugly or your husband's dick has already expired... how come you have such a problem?
Normally, healthy guys want it everyday. LOL~
Cos every time I want to end the marriage, he manages to convince me that he loves me. I guess I still have feelings for him. And he's also a good husband overall. I dunno if he has physical problems but he just keeps quiet whenever I press him or gives all kinds of weird excuses (like don't want to dirty the sheets, it's too hot, etc). And I don't think I'm considered ugly..
Dear Dora Chua,
If you are not ugly... then you have met the 0000.00001% of men.
OK. Seriously, does he watch porns, does his lifestyle have anything special (such as his job), does he has known childhood issues?
If he is healthy...
Actually there is a case... whereby a person contracted HIV or STDs and wants to hide... OR... is he SECRETLY a gay? I know of many gays who married just to appear normal socially.
5 yrs is not a short time, so time for you to do detective work.
To be honest, if your hubby is me... everyday you'd be so exhausted. LOL~
Nothing confusing. Sex is the basis of all men, 5yrs is too long to be considered low sex-drive.
Or, why not tell us how you know your husband and why you married?
If you are not ugly... then you have met the 0000.00001% of men.
OK. Seriously, does he watch porns, does his lifestyle have anything special (such as his job), does he has known childhood issues?
If he is healthy...
Actually there is a case... whereby a person contracted HIV or STDs and wants to hide... OR... is he SECRETLY a gay? I know of many gays who married just to appear normal socially.
5 yrs is not a short time, so time for you to do detective work.
To be honest, if your hubby is me... everyday you'd be so exhausted. LOL~
Nothing confusing. Sex is the basis of all men, 5yrs is too long to be considered low sex-drive.
Or, why not tell us how you know your husband and why you married?
cococherry
New Member
Dora, a man who's having an affair will and can have sex with their spouse. It's totally nothing in yr case so i'll rule this out. Scope might be right, either him having Illness or could be a closet gay and yes I know some friends who's closet gay who date girls as cover up. Sry for being crude but I felt that it's silly to waste 5yrs not knowing the reason and only to wake up now. Tell me, will u accept it if he's impotent? Define good husband? I have heard from women who's husband cheated on them and still tell us that they are good husband beside cheating, absurd to me.
cococherry
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I will annul because I'm impatient if he still insist on Not telling the truth and not open up. But if he tells me the truth that he's unwell and i will avcept it. sex is not a priority in my relationship, i will not leave if my hus has Ed one day, I can be with him without it and adopt a child.
verysadguy
Member
Dora, I am facing exactly the same problem as you. My wife does not want to consumate the marriage and we are married for close to 3 years. I do not know if I should annul the marriage coz she keeps on saying that she loves me but when I ask her why she does not want to consumate the marriage, she keeps quiet and move to a totally unrelated topic. I really don't know what I can do.
Dora, you should have annulled your marriage after one year into the marriage. I suspect your hubby has either diseases or psychological issues that he's not willing to have sex. Convenience in marriage - chances are low if your hubby doesn't have homosexual inclination. But before you really annul the marriage, I still think it's only good for you to find out the reason why. At least both of you would have some form of closure.
mirrorcelcius
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you can hire "Powder" in this forum for a lawyer, after both of you listen what he has to say. you both will get back together again. forget about divorce...hahahah....my bad.
I am facing the same problem. Have been married for 2 years and my hubby was posted overseas after the wedding. I stayed in Singapore. Recently he came back for good and I was thinking finally we can settled down. But I realized his temperament changed so much after he came back. He will lose his temper for very small things. He even said I always call him. I am not those that call non stop. I only call him once a day in the afternoon and one more time before I go to bed.
We are still not staying together and he refused to let me move to his place. We have not consummate our marriage because he refused. He said that now he has no interest in other things except his work which he spends 19 hours at.
Now he tells me that he thinks that he is best left alone and be alone. He cannot live with others and he thinks he is not suitable for marriage. He feels that he cannot be a good partner and is thinking of divorce.
I am very sad and disappointed. We have dated for a very long time before we got married and this is all I am getting back in return.
We are still not staying together and he refused to let me move to his place. We have not consummate our marriage because he refused. He said that now he has no interest in other things except his work which he spends 19 hours at.
Now he tells me that he thinks that he is best left alone and be alone. He cannot live with others and he thinks he is not suitable for marriage. He feels that he cannot be a good partner and is thinking of divorce.
I am very sad and disappointed. We have dated for a very long time before we got married and this is all I am getting back in return.
infojunkie
Active Member
i'm glad just being able to wake up everyday to know that i'm still breathing and living.
to me, that's Happiness...
and it's easy to hv
well chocomilo,
life is all abt making choices, dealing with the losses and learning how to cherish the gains...
u will be happier if u stop comparing urself to others and Start Living ur one and only Life properly.
to me, that's Happiness...
and it's easy to hv
well chocomilo,
life is all abt making choices, dealing with the losses and learning how to cherish the gains...
u will be happier if u stop comparing urself to others and Start Living ur one and only Life properly.
meimei1601
Member
Hi, Can I know that for annulment is it true that only the defendent need to sign? My ex is a asshole, who tells me happy married and not happy divorce, he goes on with the annulment, but the lawyer call me and say he dont need to sign, but only me.. is it right?
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