Green, not sure about passport, but for NRIC, the police at the station will always say, "no need to make report". Insist that they make a report for you. I lost my IC many years back, and there are times where you need to proof that you lost your IC (before you collect new ones). Even if something were to happen, like someone using your IC to loan money or sell your passport away, you'll have a record with the police.
Am sorry to hear about what happened. My dad was like this, before I "grow up". Hittin my mother, taking her money, accusin her of another man, while he was caught on bed with other women more than once. Things only turn better when i was about 15 or 16, when i started to protect my mum & family. I've also been thru a lot of emotional threats & physical ones as well. Thank God for the past 10 years, he has changed and is now a wonderful dad and husband. (Although my Mum often joke that it's because he's on my "payroll" now..)
Stay strong k Greenie...
We'll all be here for you...