green_tranquility
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Mayi,
Bags again for u hehe?
Bags again for u hehe?
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purplesky379
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Good Morning Chatters!
purplesky379
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Mark,
U nv date ur bestie ar?? Hehe~~
U nv date ur bestie ar?? Hehe~~
purplesky379
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Tat one lor... Your most beloved bestie.. And she oso loved you the most..
purplesky379
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Mayi,
Which brand do u intend to buy??? Muz let me noe in advance, i need to save leh.. LOL~~
Which brand do u intend to buy??? Muz let me noe in advance, i need to save leh.. LOL~~
"Tat one lor... Your most beloved bestie.. And she oso loved you the most.."
u mean who? blur liao.
now i feel stress loh.when i back in office everyone asked me how my exam. shld be able to clear the paper rite? however this paper is very "stressful" for me esp there is high lv uncertainity de.
pray, hope, and pray and hope........ for the best
u mean who? blur liao.
now i feel stress loh.when i back in office everyone asked me how my exam. shld be able to clear the paper rite? however this paper is very "stressful" for me esp there is high lv uncertainity de.
pray, hope, and pray and hope........ for the best
purplesky379
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Mark,
Dun pretend hor.. There's only one who LOVED you the most..
Dun pretend hor.. There's only one who LOVED you the most..
green_tranquility
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Mark,
Hehe rich gal is young, rich family background, nice... When will your heart melt?
Hehe rich gal is young, rich family background, nice... When will your heart melt?
green_tranquility
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Mark,
Hehe at least, she has a personality that's nice enough to attract u to hang out with her every wk. She doesn't make u run away in fear.
Hehe at least, she has a personality that's nice enough to attract u to hang out with her every wk. She doesn't make u run away in fear.
green_tranquility
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I dun see it as a problem in the first place. There's no rule that says that we must accept their love just because they're nice. A nice gal/guy doesn't necessarily means that they are suitable for us.
green_tranquility
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Mark and Heart,
I maybe going JB tomorrow. Do you want me to help you buy any Skin Food products?
I maybe going JB tomorrow. Do you want me to help you buy any Skin Food products?
Look at this. my bestie..
she 40 years old liao yet she sooooo beautiful.
Green, i have to correct you that i don just love XMM and XTT type. this mature type.. can also cause my hormones raged like a BULL.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cB1_8RseCqg
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Catherine_Zeta_Jones
btw she is one rich lady
http://entertainment.timesonline.co.uk/tol/arts_and_entertainment/film/article6395749.ece
she 40 years old liao yet she sooooo beautiful.
Green, i have to correct you that i don just love XMM and XTT type. this mature type.. can also cause my hormones raged like a BULL.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cB1_8RseCqg
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Catherine_Zeta_Jones
btw she is one rich lady
http://entertainment.timesonline.co.uk/tol/arts_and_entertainment/film/article6395749.ece
green_tranquility
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Upz...
Ala Carte Dim Sum Outing
This Sat, 3.30pm
Fortunate Restaurant
Toa Payoh Central, it's beside Toa Payoh Library
http://yum.sg/?component=view_restaurant&restaurant_id=293
Attendees: Mayi, Rin, Mark, Heart, Dragon & Gf & 2 kids, Meng
Ala Carte Dim Sum Outing
This Sat, 3.30pm
Fortunate Restaurant
Toa Payoh Central, it's beside Toa Payoh Library
http://yum.sg/?component=view_restaurant&restaurant_id=293
Attendees: Mayi, Rin, Mark, Heart, Dragon & Gf & 2 kids, Meng
Hi Chatters~
Greenie, thks for organizing... but regret that i got something on till 4pm+... maybe i meet u all for part 2 instead~
can tabao char siew bao and siew mai for me? haha!
By the way, at what time does the high tea end? i might be in time to come help wrap things (food) up.. =X
Greenie, thks for organizing... but regret that i got something on till 4pm+... maybe i meet u all for part 2 instead~
can tabao char siew bao and siew mai for me? haha!
By the way, at what time does the high tea end? i might be in time to come help wrap things (food) up.. =X
green_tranquility
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Mayi,
We will probably be at the restaurant until 5pm. Hehe you give us a call lor. We can order some dishes for u!
We will probably be at the restaurant until 5pm. Hehe you give us a call lor. We can order some dishes for u!
green_tranquility
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Gd morning zzzzz
green_tranquility
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Today is a busy day at work for me ...
dead_heart
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Good Morning Chatters
Everyone looking forward to Dim Sum this sat?
Mayi,
we can take photos to show you if you can't make it for round 1 of the gathering
haha
mark,
Still going for ur swimming regularly?
Everyone looking forward to Dim Sum this sat?
Mayi,
we can take photos to show you if you can't make it for round 1 of the gathering
mark,
Still going for ur swimming regularly?
green_tranquility
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Probably buns type will go soggy. We can still pack other stuff like spring rolls,carrot cakes that won't go soggy.
green_tranquility
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Hi all,
If Mark continues to be so misbehaved, let me know ok. I shall add some chilli padi into his Skin Food cucumber mask! Cooling mask shall become slimming mask hahaha.
If Mark continues to be so misbehaved, let me know ok. I shall add some chilli padi into his Skin Food cucumber mask! Cooling mask shall become slimming mask hahaha.
green_tranquility
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This week, I got to know of 1 more attention-seeking woman who brags everywhere she goes.
I notice the number of attention-seeking, insecured women around me is on the rise. Is it due to their own insecurity or competitive spore culture?
Seriously, super emotional women freaks me out and I will siam far away from them.
I notice the number of attention-seeking, insecured women around me is on the rise. Is it due to their own insecurity or competitive spore culture?
Seriously, super emotional women freaks me out and I will siam far away from them.
greenie, i duno if such woman is on the rise, but i am definitely disgusted by the action of one attention-seeking, insecure woman whom i once took her as a role model.
i am freaking disappointed and at the same time angry that she took everyone's trust in her to sow discord among the people in the clique just to make herself look good...
shes a 180degree difference from what she is in person and in the cyber world..
why cant people just purely enjoy each others’ company at an outing and also to seek true opinions and advices in one another; instead of putting your friends down and giving sucky opinions to make oneself look angelic and pure. Haiz…
i am freaking disappointed and at the same time angry that she took everyone's trust in her to sow discord among the people in the clique just to make herself look good...
shes a 180degree difference from what she is in person and in the cyber world..
why cant people just purely enjoy each others’ company at an outing and also to seek true opinions and advices in one another; instead of putting your friends down and giving sucky opinions to make oneself look angelic and pure. Haiz…
green_tranquility
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Whenever that attention-seeking gal sees my friend feel lousy in certain thing, she will purposely brags that she excels in that thing to put my friend down. Such people need to put others down to make themselves feel better about themselves because they suffer from insecurity. I advised my friend to ignore her words and just focus on how to make her own life improve.
There're really all sorts of people in this world LOL.
There're really all sorts of people in this world LOL.
alcifertoh
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There's always such ppl around. One brand of rice feed many type of people. They thought they can arouse attention by being loud but well, just dun be bothered and brought down to the same level like them.
green_tranquility
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It's an irony isn't it? They feel good to get the attention from the rest but the rest may actually treat them as clowns.
salsa_babe
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well...they dun care when they are feeling good...
perhaps...they are so blinded by the 'good feel'...that they din know/ignore that they are being seen as clowns leh?
which explains why...they have to be EVERYWHERE
they want the I feel good...... feel
perhaps...they are so blinded by the 'good feel'...that they din know/ignore that they are being seen as clowns leh?
which explains why...they have to be EVERYWHERE
they want the I feel good...... feel
green_tranquility
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Straits Times
Bitterness, a destructive emotion
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Bitter behaviour can be so deeply destructive that some psychiatrists are urging it be identified as a mental illness.
You know them. I know them. And, increasingly, psychiatrists know them. People who feel they have been wronged by someone and are so bitter they can barely function other than to ruminate about their circumstances.
This behaviour is so common - and so deeply destructive - that some psychiatrists are urging it be identified as a mental illness under the name post-traumatic embitterment disorder. The behaviour was discussed before an enthusiastic audience last week at a meeting of the American Psychiatric Association in San Francisco.
It's one step more complex than anger. They're angry plus helpless.
Dr Michael Linden, on post-traumatic embitterment disorder
The disorder is modelled after post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) because it, too, is a response to a trauma that endures. People with PTSD are left fearful and anxious. Embittered people are left seething for revenge.
'They feel the world has treated them unfairly. It's one step more complex than anger. They're angry plus helpless,' said Dr Michael Linden, a German psychiatrist who named the behaviour.
Embittered people are typically good people who have worked hard at something important, such as a job, relationship or activity, he said. When something unexpectedly awful happens - they don't get the promotion, their spouse files for divorce or they fail to make the Olympic team - a profound sense of injustice overtakes them.
Instead of dealing with the loss with the help of family and friends, they cannot let go of the feeling of being victimised. Almost immediately after the traumatic event, they become angry, pessimistic, aggressive, hopeless haters.
'Embitterment is a violation of basic beliefs,' DrLinden said. 'It causes a very severe emotional reaction... We are always coping with negative life events. It's the reaction that varies.'
There are only a handful of studies on the condition, but psychiatrists at the meeting agreed that much more research is needed on identifying and helping these people.
'These people usually don't come to treatment because 'the world has to change, not me,' ' DrLinden said. 'They are almost treatment resistant... Revenge is not a treatment.'
Nevertheless, he suggested that people once known as loving, normal individuals who suddenly snap and kill their family and themselves may have post-traumatic embitterment syndrome. That's reason enough for researchers to study how to treat the destructive emotion of bitterness.
Bitterness, a destructive emotion
---------------------------------------------
Bitter behaviour can be so deeply destructive that some psychiatrists are urging it be identified as a mental illness.
You know them. I know them. And, increasingly, psychiatrists know them. People who feel they have been wronged by someone and are so bitter they can barely function other than to ruminate about their circumstances.
This behaviour is so common - and so deeply destructive - that some psychiatrists are urging it be identified as a mental illness under the name post-traumatic embitterment disorder. The behaviour was discussed before an enthusiastic audience last week at a meeting of the American Psychiatric Association in San Francisco.
It's one step more complex than anger. They're angry plus helpless.
Dr Michael Linden, on post-traumatic embitterment disorder
The disorder is modelled after post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) because it, too, is a response to a trauma that endures. People with PTSD are left fearful and anxious. Embittered people are left seething for revenge.
'They feel the world has treated them unfairly. It's one step more complex than anger. They're angry plus helpless,' said Dr Michael Linden, a German psychiatrist who named the behaviour.
Embittered people are typically good people who have worked hard at something important, such as a job, relationship or activity, he said. When something unexpectedly awful happens - they don't get the promotion, their spouse files for divorce or they fail to make the Olympic team - a profound sense of injustice overtakes them.
Instead of dealing with the loss with the help of family and friends, they cannot let go of the feeling of being victimised. Almost immediately after the traumatic event, they become angry, pessimistic, aggressive, hopeless haters.
'Embitterment is a violation of basic beliefs,' DrLinden said. 'It causes a very severe emotional reaction... We are always coping with negative life events. It's the reaction that varies.'
There are only a handful of studies on the condition, but psychiatrists at the meeting agreed that much more research is needed on identifying and helping these people.
'These people usually don't come to treatment because 'the world has to change, not me,' ' DrLinden said. 'They are almost treatment resistant... Revenge is not a treatment.'
Nevertheless, he suggested that people once known as loving, normal individuals who suddenly snap and kill their family and themselves may have post-traumatic embitterment syndrome. That's reason enough for researchers to study how to treat the destructive emotion of bitterness.
