Champions Court @ Woodlands - BTO

think kef idea is good.. can stay at our own respective parents hse every 1 wk mayb 1 day or so.. then mayb better lor.. so tat we will miss each other mre like we are dating than everyday c each other.. haha.. :p

bt for me, my bf is wrking nite shift.. so whenever he nt at hm.. i will go bk my own parents hse stay lor..hehe.. :p
 


haha! Me everyday go home, onli met my hubby after work abt once a wk, sumtimes even longer period dun meet him due to his work. We dun haf the habit of saying over at each other's hse, coz hubby says he dun 1 2 let my parents have the impression tat he's an easy-going person. lol... Anyway, i alr told him tat once we're married, he will expect me to go back my parents' hse during wkends, coz my sis will be in dubai wif her hubby, so onli i'm in sg to take care of my parents. He alr agreed to my request. Coz my FIL alr passed away & my MIL has blood cancer, so i told him i'll try my best to see wat i can do wif both sides parents.
 
kef> hmm, i think thats quite a gd idea to keep the sparks flying in the relationship! haha.. but i dun think i will want to b away fr him unless definitely necessary leh.. haha..

alicia> heard u mentioned a few times your MIL has blood cancer.. at wat stage is it?.. she receiving treatment?
 
ok.. alot of things hv to give and take 1.. bt juz hv to get use and adapt to certain things lor..

for my case.. i juz wana get use to and adapt to living with my HTB 1st.. and wanted some private time together 1st..
 
ting> haha! I oso dunno wat stage she's at, but she went thr a couple of chemotherapy. Now she's controlling her illness wif medication, and gg for frequent check ups.
 
for me and my bf...right now cuz one week meet once...so will miss each other...will v excited lidat even after dating for 3 yrs...but we were thinking if married live together...everyday see n see n see n see...the feeling sure is different de...so to keep the sparks den one of the things is stay at respective parents hse for a day or two...so can sorta have the 'married yet still dating' feeling...
 
Alicia> sad to hear this ....

Hahaha u all very funny but good leh still can go back to own parents place to stay .... for me tough lah got kids liao ....
 
ah kiam> Ya lor, if FIL haven passed away, den at least not so worried abt MIL. So i tink if in future if i'm angry wif MIL, den tinking of her illness mite calm me down bah..

Bring ur kids wif u to ur parents' hse to stay a day or 2 lor?
 
alicia> yea maybe thinking that way you would not have conflict lo, can be more understanding. but i think will be tiring if u need to juggle both ur MIL and ur parents urself...

kiam> yea lo...short holiday trip to ah gong ah ma house neh...soemtimes ur husband bring to his hse...sometimes u bring to ur hse...can improve 3 generations relationship oso lo...
 
Kef> No choice leh... I told my hubby tat if he's not at home wen i go back my parents' hse, den mayb can arrange for his sis to go home & visit their mum lor.. I told my hubby tat either i'll be gg to my parents' hse from fri nite to sun nite or from sat to mon (leave for work from my parents' hse den go back MIL hse after work on mon nite). Ya, wenever we tok abt tis topic, he'll get unhappy, coz he says tat my sis very ez, jus need to transfer $$ every mth nia, whereas i'll need to juggle b/t both side parents, he said wat if i fall sick, den how?
 
alicia> its our parents our responsibilities...no choice de...cannot say sis easier..just transfer money only lo..

he has to understand lo...this is responsibility cannot run one...but u really must take care le...i think not easy for u run here and there...can understand sure v tiring one...
 
Kef> Coz i tink my hubby tink my sis easier coz mayb he tinks tat my sis can choose to stay in sg de, but she chose to go dubai wif her husband. lol...
 
ok.. every family has their own prob 1 lor.. i really gona admire alicia.. gota juggle betw her own parents and MIL.. really gota endure if really under this circumstances.. me with my bf 7yrs.. still nt 'sick' of each other leh..haha.. :p

bt i think is a good idea to stay away for a day or 2.. then will miss each other mre..hehe.. :p

hey ryan.. me v curious leh.. wat so 'special' abt kitchen and kef.. wat so special abt service balcony?? hmmmm hmmmm... cannot imagine.. opps.. hehe... :p shldnt it b bathroom.. play bubbles...wahhahaha... :p
 
Wahahahaha if for me i dont want my hubby to bring to my in laws house in future coz im waiting for the day to move to my own house & go celebrate LOL .......
 
CH> hehe! Me oso wif my husband 7 yrs. keke! We oso still not sick of each other lah, mayb coz we seldom meet, but call more. My scenario is bo bian de lor.. Cannot endure oso muz endure.
 
ya i think now we would get sick/no conflicts yet because not everyday see...but once married also different life...u will have babies 'new sparks' in ur life...den do housework together...etc...different kind of experiences but everyday see...sure will increase chances of conflicts lo...

alicia> ur this endure is endure for endless period...ah kiam's endure is 2.5 yrs period more...but for ur one i agree no choice de...if ur MIL not those difficult to live with i think is ok ba...

CH> service balcony alot of uses ma...wash clothes...dry clothes...den later parents in law anyhow use as storeroom (which i think she really will) then i cannot wash clothes there...so no full use lo...LOL
 
Kef> haha! Ya lor, mine is "infinity". keke! For now, coz nv live wif her yet, so oso dunno whether she'll be difficult to live wif or not, jus gotta pray hard tat all tings well bah..
 
Kef> lol! I mean for other "uses" lar. Service balcony cannot lei... later neighbour call mata i die.

Actually i understand the type of problems you all face except for me, mine is a little bit special.

tolerance is very important here. Maybe guys sometimes will be a bit more bochup because last time when some of them serve army, you are stucked with all sorts of people for that 2 years.

some can tolerate better after that, others might just choose not to tolerate at all.

I feel the most important thing is before marriage or after marriage, must chop chop fast fast try to build good relationship with both side folks. That is very important.

For my case, actually still got some distance as my dietary preference is "special." lol I'm a vegetarian so my future in-laws feels quite paiseh that a lot of times, I can't really join them for dinner gatherings or when i go to their place, got nothing to eat, cannot join them for dinner.

I tried to do a different approach like ta bao go their place eat together and such but they still feel a bit paiseh.

Takes a while to get past that stage though but the good thing is that her dad is also on 1st and 15th of the lunar month as he is a Buddhist so they kind of understand.
 
alicia> "endure" is quite a negative word to use wor.. when a person keep thinking that problems will come, then it will surely come.. when u think u have to endure to live together, then life will get miserable.. juz be positive n happy, n im sure things will turn out fine! this applies to all of u too!
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wa, seems that u all have been together with your partners for a long time like that liao.. my relationship with my bf only abt slightly over 1yr.. in fact, when we sent in application for CC, its only less than a yr.. thats y my parents also stressed when i told them im applying for flat liao.. haha..

kef> i agree with u on the usage of service balcony.. i quite like the idea of washing clothes there.. at least u cn put your washing machine n laundry basket there.. then clothes also cn air there.. my bf's bro's hse in sembawang dun have, then i find their kitchen super cramped to have so many things wor..

ryan> nice of u to go the extra mile to get along better with your in-laws.. i think thats the way that we should all adopt to foster a stronger relationship with them.. cos we will b setting example for our kids next time.. i alwaz believe that how we treat our parents now, our kids will treat us the same way in future too.. cos 90% of wat our kids do will be learnt fr our daily life..
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yah.. me too agree tat endure is v cham 1.. haha.. bt alicia.. u hv all our support.. dun wori.. urs is really bo bian 1.. if u hv any prob.. juz let us knw.. at least get things out of ur chest better.. like me..hehe..

me too like to use service balcony to wash clothes.. those hv to hand wash tat type.. hmm.. lucky im nt ryan's neighbour woh.. else, can peep woh..haha.. :p later sore eyes..wahhahahha.. :p
 
CH> yea lor...

I must warn ah kiam in advance first so she can do some parental control/censorship for her kids.

seems like a lot of you like the idea of doing a washing bay at the service balcony. I think it's a more cost saving method compared to switching the bathroom door.

Just to share something about my current place. We shifted the bathroom door and the master bedroom door as well.

Probably the contractor did not do a good job, the new "wall" to cover up the original door way are showing cracks but didn't collapse for so many years (I think more than 10 years already) It's more for the master bedroom door but the toilet door's wall is covered up with built-in cabinet, so cannot see.

So have to bear in mind that this type of things can happen and it will make the "wall" along our small internal corridor looks ugly with the cracks.

The cracks did not develop immediately. it happens after about 6 months or so.
 
ryan> kitchen already v small leh...u still wanna make 'full use'...

ya lo alicia if got problem can find us 'neighbours' talk and relax de...
 
ryan> i guess the cracks happened cos of expansion n contraction?.. cos after all its still another pc added on to the original wall ma..

kef> haha, i think at the rate that we been talking everyday, by the time we cn move in, other neighbours will think we came fr the same kampong.. wahahah..
 
ting> hahah! I tink it'll b beta once we shift in to CC, coz CC is way nearer to my parents compared to now. Hubby is staying at bedok, my parents at bt panjang. So after my customary next yr, i'll be moving in to bedok, den after CC is done, we'll all (me, hubby & MIL) will shift to CC, tat makes me go back my parents' hse easier. =) Ya, i like the service yard too, but seems tat nowadays der's no bamboo sticks to hang our clothes outside liao.

CH> haha! Thanks! =)
 
Ryan ... wat is it about the censor thingy ? hahaha ask my kids dont peep u is it or dont peep me & my hubby .... how to peep LOL ......
 
Kef> Thanks, i will! =)

ryan> My current hse oso got cracks on the wall, and it's long... But i dunno wat causes the cracks. Every bedroom oso got cracks.
 
better ma...we know our neighbours first...rather than go in there so new...dunno anyone..

at least know some ppl there more comfortable and easier to adapt...

ting>u n ur bf less than 1 yr den apply hse le ah...so pro...me n my bf coming 3 yrs is only after 2nd yr then we talk about 'our future' lo...before that we just happily dating without a care lidat...haha...
 
ah kiam> haha, u sound so lost.. haha..

alicia> is your hse pretty new? my bf's bro's hse also got cracks.. his SIL say its cos nowadays flats r like lego, so the connection part will tend to have cracks cos of constant expansion n contraction..

kef> ya, but seems that only the few of us active here nw.. heehee.. ya we applied when only less than 1yr.. erm, cos mayb we both getting old liao ma.. some more i die die want to wait til flat ready then get married ma.. so if wait longer than get flat will surely become high-risk mum liao.. :P
 
me too feel so hapi to knw neighbours b4 we move in.. we fm same kampong mah.. is SGBrides kampong lor..haha.. :p

Ting.. u old meh.. think me oldest here leh..
 
CH> wa lau.. SGBrides kampong sound so funny!!!!
im 28 this yr.. so by the time CC is ready im abt 30 liao.. old le.. so if i nvr apply for CC, then wait until hse ready sure mid or late 30s liao ma, then will become high risk mum liao lor.. haha..

alicia> i guess my bf's SIL last time got complain to HDB bah, then mayb thats wat they were told lor.. too bad our hse all nw build like lego like that.. :P
 
ting> haha! Ya lor, no choice leh.. Coz tink now contractors build hse, no need to tink so much mah... Coz now almost all BTOs similar in design de lor.. lol...
 
err my hse 22 yrs old one...oso cracked...esp my bedroom wall...i think is the constant exposure to the sun ba...den the contraction etc...so long dun fall apart can le...

ting> u are same as me..i oso die die no flat dun wan get married kind...LOL...i wanna get married den straight away can move in le...have our own home...den my bf was nagging me say by then must immediately have babies else later high risk mum...cuz i told him i wanna wait 2 to 3 yrs den have babies...


SGbrides kampong sia...haha
 
alicia> nt really leh.. those yishun BTO i dun like their layout..

kef> haha, i also want to move in when married, so ideally the hse shd b ready juz b4 our wedding la.. cos i dun want to leave the hse vacant too long too.. haha..
haha, abit funny for ryan to say he's fr the SGBrides kampong.. haha
 
ting> Is it? I oso got apply for tat yishun BTO leh, b4 hdb lauch tis, coz my SIL new hse is jade spring. hehe! But tat time our q no. damn big lor, so no chance le lah...
 
yishun BTO got 3 batches rite.. so alicia, u dun even hv chance to select for Yishun BTO huh?? so does tat consider 1 time chance gone??

me hv no idea of all these.. so far, me consider lucky.. coz 1st time select then manage to got my unit liao.. hehe.. :p
 
CH> Ya, yishun BTO got jade spring phase 1, jade spring phase 2 & dew spring. We onli tried applying for dew spring, but q no. was 994 out of 400+ units. So gave up the chance coz by our turn, left onli 4 floor & below. Den CC is our 2nd time balloting. Luckily we got a better q no. for CC. If CC's q no. is like dew spring, by our turn oso left low floors, den we're considered forfeited for 2 chances liao. Den we will haf to go for resale le...
 
lol then i have to introduce my WTB as a "life partner" lol

Ah kiam> so that you can help them put on ear plugs mah.

Kef> small than can get closer to each other! lol

anyway the cracks i have is on the wall that the contractor build instead of the original wall from HDB.

My other walls are still good because that time when we got the flat, i help my father to plaster all the walls.

It's very impt to do that. makes it more lasting and also it's good to add a fresh coat of paint every 2 years.
 
alicia>> my friend also got dew spring in yishun.. her no also exceed.. bt still manage to get 4th floor lor.. bt i also still prefer CC layout..yishun's 1 quite messy lor..
 
CH> Ur fren, is he/she in forum too? Tat time i chose dew spring coz near my SIL & not very far from my parents mah... keke! But well, i told my parents tat i prefer CC wen i applied for it, so in the end, luckily still can get CC. =)
 
ok as promised, here is the money saving method that was suggested from a friend.

Deciding your loan repayment period with HDB Loans.

First, even if both parties are able to repay the loan in a short period of time, say 10 years, don't take a 10 years loan immediately.

Here's how to do it.

Purchase with a longer period of repayment, stretching it longer than what you can afford now. Eg. if you can repay in 10 years, choose 25 instead.

Service the loan for the next 5 years, then shorten it.

HDB loan interest is compounding interest. You can find the meaning of compound interest here:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Compound_interest

I didn't do the calculations but I believe it should not be more interest if you applied the method instead of going straight with the minimum repayment period you need.

In this manner, you will have some CPF as savings and while paying with your CPF income, you have a cushion of CPF to fall back on for your mortgage loan with HDB.

This will safeguard you against loss of job during the repayment period.

I will go figure it out with my own loan and then probably post it up for reference.

but ultimately, this will save money in the sense that if anything were to happen, you no need to stress about having to fork out cash to repay the loan.

it encourages people to shorten their loan in a safe manner and allow the cashflow to not be interrupted by any crises.
 


just happen to be here...

Alicia> I think CH was talking about me :p hehe... we were schoolmates.

I think my 1st appt letter from HDB should be on the way... Been waiting n waiting for sooo long!
 

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