aquarius_888
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Lim Boon Heng
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that time i told them that i preparing my wedding and might not have time to meet up. and they said is alright. now keep complaining this and that. beco normally my friend's wedding, they sometime tell me wat they booked and so on. i will also do research myself and share with them. and now straight away said not good, waste money and time, time is so precious.
y so stupid dun find 1 stop BS and so on. i wont lor
y so stupid dun find 1 stop BS and so on. i wont lor
hamham,
no matter how busy u are with wedding preps, u still need to find time for yr friends.
afterall, a wedding is all abt sharing the love and happiness of the couple with family and friends and they should sincerely feel happy for you.
in the midst of wedding preps , if u drift apart from yr friends, then it's ironical cos they won't be truly happy for u by the time u get married.
no matter how busy u are with wedding preps, u still need to find time for yr friends.
afterall, a wedding is all abt sharing the love and happiness of the couple with family and friends and they should sincerely feel happy for you.
in the midst of wedding preps , if u drift apart from yr friends, then it's ironical cos they won't be truly happy for u by the time u get married.
charcos,
i got try to find time, but cant be last min asked me to take leave then go lunch with them rite? weekends i had lunch with parents or in law, so i said meet weekdays, then they said weekdays too tired and so on. wan to have it on weekends.
after i got rom to my hubby, this group of friends like not very happy lor. dunno y. said how come married liao, so busy with family and cant go out as and when. must booked a time first,
i got try to find time, but cant be last min asked me to take leave then go lunch with them rite? weekends i had lunch with parents or in law, so i said meet weekdays, then they said weekdays too tired and so on. wan to have it on weekends.
after i got rom to my hubby, this group of friends like not very happy lor. dunno y. said how come married liao, so busy with family and cant go out as and when. must booked a time first,
well, could be this group of friends are in a way..possessive of u loh. eg if u used to spend alot of time with them b4 u ROM, and u no longer do so now , so they aren't happy. just have to try to manage their expectations and slowly let them come to terms with it loh. afterall, u are married , u have moved out, so it's only fair u need to spend enough time with yr families as well, and they should understand ...
charcos,
i think after married and before married is different lor. with bb even more different rite? of cos cant be like last time like that so carefree, wan to go where also can, spend how much also can. now got family, i have to spend time with them. of cos not meeting them but time will be less lor. but they dun seem to understand. planning my rom they also react like that, make me so pissed off. now still the same thing
i think after married and before married is different lor. with bb even more different rite? of cos cant be like last time like that so carefree, wan to go where also can, spend how much also can. now got family, i have to spend time with them. of cos not meeting them but time will be less lor. but they dun seem to understand. planning my rom they also react like that, make me so pissed off. now still the same thing
Ham, i think they are just possessive of u.like what charcos had said. friends shouldn't try to hog on each other time. that's what i feel personally. me and my best friends, we only meet like 3 times a year since we started working. but if one of us face any problem, all of us will turn up to lend a hand. i think if we talk about best friends, this should be the case.
sorry huh, if the above offend anyone. but this is purely my views onli. =) no offence ok.
sorry huh, if the above offend anyone. but this is purely my views onli. =) no offence ok.
maybe can meet on weekend for tea. just 1-2hrs to catch up with each other. even after i gave birth, i still continue meeting up with my friends (2 groups) for dinner every month/every 2-3months. got to try and keep in touch else will drift apart as time passes. just my 2 cents.
ya, twish...that's y sometimes must keep sane. so friends keep us sane. even if don't meet up, at least must keep in contact.
now i also try to meet up with them regularly. cos we can keep each other sane. and sometimes with hubby or bf too long also will be bored. hahahaha...
but main pt is being friends and good friends one shouldn't be so pushy. cos we have to understand others point of view.
now i also try to meet up with them regularly. cos we can keep each other sane. and sometimes with hubby or bf too long also will be bored. hahahaha...
but main pt is being friends and good friends one shouldn't be so pushy. cos we have to understand others point of view.
twish, u mean joyce knows what stock her sis got already?? i wanna ask her abt my hobo!!!
actually since i got married last OCt, i have been able to meet my 3 groups of girlfriends even more frequently than b4 marriage. will meet them abt once a month each group. maybe cos last time, had to spend time with hubby during weekends and weekday nights since not staying tog yet. now stay tog, even if go out at night, will still come back to hubby and have time together. of cos, weekends are strictly reserved for family and hubby. tht's an unwritten rule.
actually since i got married last OCt, i have been able to meet my 3 groups of girlfriends even more frequently than b4 marriage. will meet them abt once a month each group. maybe cos last time, had to spend time with hubby during weekends and weekday nights since not staying tog yet. now stay tog, even if go out at night, will still come back to hubby and have time together. of cos, weekends are strictly reserved for family and hubby. tht's an unwritten rule.
talking about meeting with frens. i feel that it's more meaningful to meet cos you want to and not becos you are pressurize to meet up. i enjoy meeting up with my frens for dinner though it's quite a hassle with bb now. i usually try to leave ofc on the dot and go back see my gal before heading for my dinner.
last yr we meet ard 4-5 times, but this yr meet less, cny that time, i told them i might be very busy with study, work and wedding. as this yr is my last semester study. then now seem like a different things. tell them i will call them to meet up and confirm the time. now keep asking me not to go parents and in law's house but to meet them.
cecilialim
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just back from bak kut teh.. very full man...
fuschia,
they said tea too short, wan dinner and lunch. so a bit hard for me. after work, normally i will go gym or exercise, meet hubby for dinner at the same time discuss wedding stuffs or meet up some shortlisted photographer, VG and so on. then weekends mostly for families.
i tried to squeeze tea time, they said not enuff. and when i told them sometime cant meet as i already have appointment with PG to view their work. they got angry
they said tea too short, wan dinner and lunch. so a bit hard for me. after work, normally i will go gym or exercise, meet hubby for dinner at the same time discuss wedding stuffs or meet up some shortlisted photographer, VG and so on. then weekends mostly for families.
i tried to squeeze tea time, they said not enuff. and when i told them sometime cant meet as i already have appointment with PG to view their work. they got angry
Jules, got to know her through u all lor. hahahha
fuschia, ya brown boring. but i very don't know how to take care of bags one. sure become dirty. so brown is saver. somemore i wear bright color clothes so if bag also bright, a bit too much lah. hahahhaa...i also think the orange very nice. but not a orange lover. so brown lor...
Ham, just try to squeeze sometime for them. dinner or tea. at least dinner no need to stay too long lor.
agree with jules lei. maybe it's only now that we have less time to meet up with them. in future will have more time. cos everyday also see hubby liao. ahahhaa..but of cos weekends are reserved for family lah..
fuschia, ya brown boring. but i very don't know how to take care of bags one. sure become dirty. so brown is saver. somemore i wear bright color clothes so if bag also bright, a bit too much lah. hahahhaa...i also think the orange very nice. but not a orange lover. so brown lor...
Ham, just try to squeeze sometime for them. dinner or tea. at least dinner no need to stay too long lor.
agree with jules lei. maybe it's only now that we have less time to meet up with them. in future will have more time. cos everyday also see hubby liao. ahahhaa..but of cos weekends are reserved for family lah..
now love meeting my gfs... can go for drinks, chat till late (haha...machiam SATC)... cos i know when i get home i can still see my hubby no matter how late it is. so nice! married life is great!!! *thumbs up*
next time when have bb, can just cart the bb along lor, or dump with IL! hehe.
next time when have bb, can just cart the bb along lor, or dump with IL! hehe.
i squeeze tea time, they said too short, then dinner they said also quite short. y cant i be the same as last time, can meet them from dinner till the next day. last time i go disco pretty often.
they now blame me for my wedding preparation and marriage that caused me cant go out too often
they now blame me for my wedding preparation and marriage that caused me cant go out too often
can ask u all ah, the 7874 and the bigger version of 7874, the C at the bottom not aligned right? cos the one on coach.com is not.
http://www.coach.com/content/product.aspx?product_no=8295&category_id=780
saw this one on ebay... do u tink its genuine?
http://www.coach.com/content/product.aspx?product_no=8295&category_id=780
saw this one on ebay... do u tink its genuine?
aiya this kinda thing can't explain one... u just KNOW when it's the right person ma! i knew hubby for 4 yrs b4 getting attached... then he proposed to me only 6 months after getting attached and i also said yes! we got ROMed 1 yr after the proposal and now married for 9 months liao!! =)
some pp are together for like 6-7 years... and still cannot decide to get married... or worse, end up breaking up. so how long u know ur hubby doesn't really matter lor. see u married so long still so happy right?
some pp are together for like 6-7 years... and still cannot decide to get married... or worse, end up breaking up. so how long u know ur hubby doesn't really matter lor. see u married so long still so happy right?
jules: the first pic looks fake to me for 2 reasons. trimmings shouldn't be so thick + the shape is abit too rounded whereas real one is rectangularish with the side jutting out.
rayna: actually i also worry about orange clashing with my clothes. like what mong said, reserve the orange but wanna see brown too.. just in case!
rayna: actually i also worry about orange clashing with my clothes. like what mong said, reserve the orange but wanna see brown too.. just in case!
Jules, if look at coach.com, the 1st one seems fake lei. cos different from the pic in coach.com
aiya fate this kind of thing very hard to explain. me and my FH in the same company for almost 1 year, don't know each other until 2 days before i leave then was introduce to each other. then the rest is history liao. hahahah 1 year after attach he proposed liao then now we getting married end of the year, also fast mah. as long as u love each other and are happy together then never mind lah. just ask ur friend to accept the fact that u had married him lor.
aiya fate this kind of thing very hard to explain. me and my FH in the same company for almost 1 year, don't know each other until 2 days before i leave then was introduce to each other. then the rest is history liao. hahahah 1 year after attach he proposed liao then now we getting married end of the year, also fast mah. as long as u love each other and are happy together then never mind lah. just ask ur friend to accept the fact that u had married him lor.
