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Aqua..
kekkee... ya lor.. really kiam gan man!!still got pple support him leh.. ka tu lan ah!!

so how is ur bra? me still waiting for my Bra delivery to arrive!! kekekee...
 
28 mins...........

My bras ok!
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Nice, especially the thongs.

Ermmm...did you all realised I hit 8000 posts? wuahahahah
 
Serene..
got lah.. kekeke... actually still very new too leh.. whahaha. .

i go try liao.. just nice!! so happy!! kekeke....

Aqua..
wahh .. u really hit 8000 leh.. really KPO ah! whahaha... lol
 
skylar aiya u shld tell mi early mah!! i got 'jit loh' of lai sa all machiam kena bitten by ka chuak LOL

now i worry leh..coz smallest is B rite? but lim peh bo ani dua..duno will fit bo
 
Serene...

kns lah.. why? u keep ka chuak as pets ah! whahaa....

if not fitting can still call them back to change one.. dun worry ya!
 
skylar kekekee xiao qiangs!

change? but they no A cup mah!!! change 2 wad? wait they ask mi top up more $$$ n change 2 those dats not on sale kekeke
 
morning aqua...
congrats on hitting the 8000 posts mark... now can look forward to 10,000? heh. maybe Chin Leng can give u an award or sth... so much "valuable" contributions.... hahaha...
 
morning ppl....

2day..my mood abit down..

share wif u all hor...u noe in tis forum there r so many ppl who pour out their sorrows in the matters of the heart thread hor...but laz nite i really witness 1

laz nite my ah lao n i went back 2 his parents house 2 haf dinner..then when we stepped in..we saw my SIL wif a big luggage..so we asked 'going 4 work trip ah?' but she replied 'no lah..my husband zuo dui bu qi wo de shi so i move back'

we both were like 'pls lah' n waited 4 another answer...sekali..it was true...i was so so so so shocked dat i juz stood there 4 a few seconds..n when she teared i then realised its really true lor...
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ya...its like i always tot of him as a guai guai n loving husband..very christian type n my SIL converted 2 his religion coz of him...they got married onli 2 yrs back n their baby gal is 1yr old now...

lucky thing is my SIL is a very very strong person..she din break down badly..perhaps we din c it..but when she spoke 2 mi laz nite..she was quite calm oreadi..she said she found out thru all his MSN history...ironically she was the 1 who taught him how 2 use...n says the gal is a new colleague from his ofc..onli 3 weeks...best part is from the history log..he was the 1 who lured her into it..n my SIL was so gracious as not 2 put the blame on dat gal..she even called dat gal n told her she knew abt the whole thing now

the husband came later..n of coz kena screwed by my PIL...my MIL was so upset dat she cried..c oreadi oso heart pain coz my SIL is so precious 2 them n she's really a nice woman..hai..
 
its really depressing 2 noe dat such things happen all the time...i went thru lotsa shit myself wif my ah lao..sumtimes i look back n wonder...how i managed 2 overcome those times..

y some men juz cant behave..? its like..not as if the wife is a terrible wife..n they even haf a kid..y cant they juz behave themselves? if they wanna play..wad 4 even get married in the 1st place..? i guess no 1 can really answer such questions...i cant help but feel darn depressed abt tis whole thing

sorry har..hope i din dampen every1's mood early in the morning..i couldnt discuss tis topic wif my ah lao n i juz need 2 say it out somewhere
 
Of course not serene! Glad you shared with us. Actually your PIL not bad...if it's my hubby who does that I guess they also won't do anything...very likely will side the son...somemore I am not their 'IDEAL' DIL. They always feel I am lazy...but I always tell my hubby, I am working too...is it wrong that I leave housework till the next day? It's my house, I can jolly well do what I like and not always worrying about living up to their standards. Everyone's upbringing is different...doesn't mean my hubby likes things to be spic and span means I have to be like him too.
 
Serene, try spend sometime w ur SIL if she needs. It had happened to my own bro n SIL too. Somehow i dunno how my bro managed to do it, they're ok again liao. Yah, they've 2 sons some more. I hope ur BIL is merely flirting n hav not gone overboard.
 
laz nite my FIL din drink..or else i tink dat guy wun haf it so easy...my FIL only told him off jia jia lat n tell him my SIL will not go back wif him..ask him go home tink abt tis whole thing 1st...i tink if my ah lao's youngest bro ard..he probably would haf throw punches 1st..being the rash type..honestly lah..if it was mi..i oso will chut chiu...

my SIL was disgusted by the fact dat he lied abt lotsa things 2 dat gal trying 2 lure her out..saying things like 'my wife flies alot 4 work' n 'we haf communications prob' n 'she trust mi 2 much 2 noe wad i'm doing' when dat gal asked him 'u tink we haf a future?' he said 'yes'

n laz nite he cooked up more lies 2 defend himself..saying it was the gal who seduced him blah blah blah..but my SIL got all the evidence...
 
tansy ya i told her 2 beep mi 4 anyting..we r quite close infact..will definitely b there 4 her...she oreadi decided her 2 alternatives liao..n she prepared herself 4 the worst scenario..even told mi she found out how much is the lawyer's kinda thing

we duno whether her husband reached the ultimate but from the last log...he asked dat gal out 2 changi on 1 nite dat he told my SIL he's wkg late...
 
Serene yr SIL's tale bring memories....

tt's y i dun wan marry . . . heard too much of such stories n seen too much of it happening...

hope she be fine , lucky she got u who's there for her.

sighx.... wanna marry n wan affair... men......
 
Men are like tis, when their lobang pi za, they'll jus try to push the blame to anyone except themselves. I guess tat gal is oso another victim, since he can even say such thing like they'll hav future.

Besides the D, wat is the other alt ur SIL intend? She ever consider of forgiving if he admit his fools?
 
he told my FIL dat he's sorry n he's in the wrong but still he tried 2 defend himself n push the blame so dats wad pissed every1 off

my SIL dun intend 2 forgive him now of coz...n being a woman..she still feels 4 him definitely..dats y she said 'now wait 4 time 2 c whether he's really sorry abt wad he did' but she oso added dat even if they ever patch back..things wun b the same anymore so wad 4 stay 2gether? which is true...lucky thing is she's very very financially independent so she's not worried abt the $$$ issue at all..n says her baby will definitely follow her
 
Hmmm...comes to think of it, perhaps my SIL chose to let the matter rest cos she isn't really very financially independent. Or rather i think her pay is not enuff to support the two kids.

So bottomline, ladies still need to b financially independent. In cases of such, at least we can still fence for ourselves.

I guess ur PIL must b real upset, cos not only they lost one good DIL, they oso lost a grandchild. Wait a min, ur SIL n BIL live with ur PIL ar?
 
my ah lao those calm type..he din speak a word actually coz he sort of tinking abt some things himself i guess
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he used 2 haf a terrible history too
 
ICIC...sad to say such things happened both to my dad n bro. Grrr!!!!! But somehow i dunno how they managed to do it, ie, my SIL n my mum like over the thing n take their words.
 
Good morning...

Wahh... Serene..
really kinda sad to see these things.. haizs.. but wat to do.. its life!!
Maybe it is coz guys are cheap bastards & they wanna have fun!!
haiz.... dunno why really some guys are just liddat.. actually recently looking at those posted at the Matters of the Heart.. also ke lian man.. very cheng sim ah!
cannot pin too much hope on guys man!!
 
dats y women muz b financially independent..at least when she lost everything else..she still got $$$ n dun haf 2 depend on any 1

skylar...i played maple laz nite...so difficult leh..n i juz anyhow play n died..not easy sia
 
Serene...
keeke.. ya lor.. very true... i agree with u!! cannot be totally dependable on guys man! like my 2 aunties.. they dun work.. just be a housewife & stay home take care.. while their hb are the sole breadwinner.. at times when i see them tok.. my aunties really got no say in things one leh.. very ke lian lor.. haiz..

so the best is to keep keeping $$ into ur own account!! at least $$ is the most trustworthy thing man! whahaha... jialatz...
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Money nv lie!

ok lah maple... wait i go get my monitor we all play together ok? u must watch out for ur MP when ur killing... once ur MP is low, u will die easily.. if ur MP is low liao... stand at a safe spot to heal...
 
Good morning!

Wahhh.. *patting Serene's Shoulder*
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this days guys cant be trusted. sianz... me also having some communication problems with my ah lao lately..
 
Adel...

why? ah lao dun listen to u ah? haiz.. my ah lao also... just quarrel with him recently, both fighting over comp....
 
*Hugs everyone* Me feeling simply lousy today...later going to Isetan Scotts during lunchie. Hope can cheer up a bit.

Ladies, are you all still going to order Birkenstock?
 
skylar the stupid snails so hard 2 kill...i died at level 5 liao

Adel communication is really a tricky issue...i oso had problems wif my ah lao sometime back n it was quite serious...hopefully we'll both improve
 
skylar, fighting over comp is small issues lar. my hubby hor, is typical MCP and dun listen to me at all. at times i really dunno hw to make him listen.. then with my mil telling him tt his wife me is lazy and muz tell me do housewerk.. now hb dun even bother to help me with any housewerk UNLESS he feels necessary! sick
 

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