Any above 30s woman looking for love?

well outlook n size is born with it, unless u willing to go under the knife lor..so just gotta accept wat u have...

wah nice butt..i also like!!...i m going to train squat so to get nice butt..LOL
 


Ah Siao ar, she dunno how to count a guy's interest and in face of someone she likes...he never know her real feelings. Then now like too far apart to cultivate anything. Plus the guy sorta knows her feelings but never really want to reciprocate...haizz...
 
Hi Doll,

Technical as in PC hardware interest. =)

Its pretty rare for gals to get involve in computer hardware as interest....maybe that's why i find tech gals interesting.

Hiyooo.....the heading of this topic i still read ppl commenting "need to be so superficial meh?"
But here all gals starting to say 金城武, Andy Lau..... >.<
 
Jue, cos the guy treats her as a fren lor..making a gal luff is not tat tough but doesnt mean he will like her etc...
 
Side track,

I have a close frend who is early 30s, nv have bf before. Couldnt find any guy friends to intro her as most of my guy friends are younger than her (being that im slightly younger than her as well). Wonder if there's anyone that's keen to befriend her? She tend to be the shy type, looks wise average but she love to travel and hike.
 
Lost...different lah...
The gals are now talking about "FANTASY" here...so of cos can be superficial lah...

As for Jue, you can never "force" a relationship...if a guy never reciprocate, then better leave it as it is...


Excuse me, while I go have lunch with Lin Chi Ling...
 
I dont know why Im beginning to look 'mental' here but tofu man is no kidding hilarious. God, whadda! What are you a writer?
 
my close gf is single &amp; never had a bf before
She looks fine to me leh, certainly presentable

I think it all attribute to mindset. being passive (leave to fate, not proactive in meeting new people &amp; seeking love), too pre-occupied with work (OT OT OT)
 
Yah...cannot force and never try forcing. Wait they find it awkward to even remain as friends then even worse.
 
I got asked recently by a guy what girls prefer - six pack or otherwise. My answer was, depends. If you look xiu qi, your face wouldn't go well with a six packed body.

Siao, nice butt also more or less "inborn". Some guys have more and others, less.

"well outlook n size is born with it, unless u willing to go under the knife lor..so just gotta accept wat u have...

wah nice butt..i also like!!...i m going to train squat so to get nice butt..LOL"
 
well... i beg to diff. I have seen ppl with Big tummy and the rest of my peers said he wont look good with 6 packs.

But when i show them his foto when he was younger with 6 packs. they cant believe it. he way too diff.

That person is my dad. now having a Big beer belly but when he was younger he was a professional body builder.

Well his son did him proud by achieving the ultimatum - 6 pack combined into one Big dangling muscle
 
To have a 6 pack, basically, you have to be quite lean. A person's face is also dependent on how lean they are.

Its quite impossible to have a really round and cubby yogi bear face and at the same time, 6 packs.
 
doll, dun tink i m the one who asked u tat qn right?...LOL

well 6abs is not easy but certaintly achievable!!..look at ur diet n everyday must do 300 crunches lor...keke
 
for those of your friends looking for a partner, can try www.match.com

Your friends must take the step to register. At the age of 30 and above, one have to be proactive seeking a partner. Nothing wrong to join friendster or match.com. At least you have tried and no regrets later.
 
I feel sometimes its not about trying...just keep yourself open while getting on with life. No point trying to hunt out a mate and feel even worse when the efforts failed you.

Get to know more friends while matching their strengths to your requirement.... =D
 
Mark, I don't mean a lean face but a xiu-qi face, very si-boon type lah, which can be a mis-match with a muscular body. Know what I mean now?
 
Siao, never mind if it's you or whoever asked the question. Think for most girls, six-packed abs in a man is not a guaranteed turn-on lah. So by all means, continue to train your abs, butt, shoulders, etc for yourself ONLY.
 
there many attributes not just appearance to be a turn on. i noe of someone fat fat one and all the gals swarm around him saying he is huggable.
 
hehe....
Dear can you be like the bear so huggable.
1wk later, dear can you be like Tom cruise so handsome
1mth later, dear can you be like those model so fit.
1yr later Dear can you be like warren buffer so rich.

just kidding..don hit me
 
Actually, you'll be surprised that quite a fair bit of numbers of gals don't get turned on by 6-pack guy...I asked a fair bit of my lady frens.

Why? Cos they feel insecure...most of them dont have that kinda figure...

Agreed? Ladies?
 
Guys are like Cars to them.

when they are young. They will love to have some lean machines like Sporty looking .. Japanese honda Civi..

Late 20s.-3os then look for Strong machines that can tide them over rough time thus Continental Car ..with 5 STar european safety rating

Then 30s and onwards.. > Big Fat car like those Lexus Rx300. can put lots of things in it. comfy. and FAT..looking

sry for my ranting..
 
haha... powderful.. can post your question to ladies thread? u be sure surrounded by ladies there... LOL

In the mean time, i answer you.. TRUE and agreed with you...thou its a turn off for me to a
6-packed abs guy. duhhhhhhh....

i say for myself..i dunno for some other ladies!
hehe
 
haha... bear.. hmmm gals oso kanna from guys leh..i oso plump bit fat, fat there.. but not so fat.. keke

Dear can you be like the bear so huggable.
1wk later, dear can you be like Cindy Crawford so pretty
1mth later, dear can you be like those model like Gisele Bundchen so fit.
1yr later Dear can you be like Oprah Winfrey so rich.

hahaa... just kiddin too..
 
Powderful,
Agreed! I really can't stand those guys with razer blades under their arms and six-pack and who kept admiring themselves in the mirrors...haha...
 
Doll,
The only guy that turns my head in my office has a si-boon face with 6-pack. I dun find it a mismatch, I find him charming LOL. Haha maybe that's me!
 
Use his photo as HP wallpaper?

THAT.IS.SO.WEIRD~~
and not to mention....a bit gross...

It's like taking the Love-Yourself to another different level...
 
I have a beautiful bloodparrot as HP wall paper
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Has big round eyes, sexy lip, colorful attire.. a dead beautiful he/she, right?! (Didn't exam its gender, so put as he/she or as 'unknown'?)

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powderful

don't think it's because of insecurity lah
gals tend to have the ability to appreciate guys characters rather than simply go for looks looks looks.

There was a Straits Times survey done some time back to attest that.
gals &amp; guys selection criteria slightly different lor
 
Hi pinkhippo,

No matter what criteria comes......i would generally say general appearance comes in as a significant weightage....not say drop dead gorgeous....but to say comfortable looking. Won't want to further elaborate comfortable looking coz different ppl will have different guage. =)
 
Auntie, I not comparing the preferences between looks and characters for women lah...

I'm just saying...for the same guy...would they prefer him with a 6-pack abs/perfect body versus someone else who's just normal lean...most of my lady frens prefer the normal lean kind as opposed to a perfect greek-god-body (kinda like those Spartans in 300)...

There's NO WAY I would be ssssooooo disrespectful as to imply that women are superficial creatures...No way...

***trying to keep a straight serious face***
 

Of cos, my royal sis...dont you know I always have utmost respect for the female gender...

Especially those female drivers that are so oblivious on the roads...hogging right lanes on expressways when there's a vehicle convey of 20 cars behind her...cutting in lanes without any signals or indications...straddling two lanes...

And yet...I still respect them...
***veins popping on temple***
 
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