Any above 30s woman looking for love?


I have a female friend just above 30. Very homely and intelligent girl who's never had a bf before.

I don't think she will like me to advertise her here online but interested applicants, can pm me and I will forward the contact to her.
 
Jue, I check with my male friend
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Thanks Aquarius!

I happened to be wondering how I can help my friend and this post came up in time!
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I was going to suggest that she sign with Lunch Actually or something...but figured it will be better for her to widen her social circle first...
 
Jue wrote:
I have a female friend just above 30. Very homely and intelligent girl who's never had a bf before.




Hi, is your friend ugly? No offense. Any friendster to show her face?
 
"Very homely and intelligent girl(in her 30s) who's never had a bf before."

We live in a real world where the probability of such a person being ugly is rather high. For the beautiful has no lack of suitors, and the average looking will also have some.

I emphasis again -- "we live in a real world."
 
yah lah...I mean...fair enuf....to be presentable....
the guy cant expect the girl to be drop dead gorgeous when he himself....errrr.....well...

I cant deny that there could be a possibility too :p
 
OW,
One man's meat is another man's poison...

How do you define presentable then?
Likewise...you said you lived in a real world...
Then what is the purpose of you asking for the gal's photo?
If you wanna meet up, shouldnt you first, being a gentleman (assumption), offer your photo for the gal's review first before you so blatantly asked for the gal's photos?

Remember, the gal lives in the REAL WORLD too. She might not like what she saw as well...
 
One man's meat is another man's poison...


you are saying that beauty is subjective.
Well, maybe some people will find Albigal pretty and wong linling ugly. But these people are by far few to none.
Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder but also subjective to the general public taste.
 
um... the topic my post is about the girl herself and its not about who she met or is going to meet.
She may not like the guy she sees but the topic is about her and no one else.
 
Ok, I have noticed that you have answered my first question.

How about my 2nd one?

FYI : Abigail used to be a GUY. So I guess your comparision is off. And you are comparing 2 extremes end of the spectrum. It's black and white...I'm more looking at the scenario on a grey scale...

I'm more towards the scenario that some people find Fann Wong attractive and Zoe Tay ugly and some find Zoe Tay good looking but gets turned off by Fann Wong. It's THAT KIND of comparison that I am looking at.

And you're married, so why are you asking for the gal's photo arh?
 
which is y every1 say...nan ren bu huai nu ren bu ai lor...

but ultimately...hao nan ren is the 1 who can give u security...

sometimes human beings are weird lar...or in another word...jian...haha
 
Apologies, OW... I posted before I saw your second follow up post...

And to response to your comments...that gal didn't advertise herself...her fren, Jue did...so I dont know how the topic is about her when she didnt start it in the first place...whereas you came in, assume that she was ugly and asked for something private (a photo) from someone you didnt even know...
So my topic here is about you and your perception...
 
Just like the favourite quote....男人ä¸å，女人ä¸çˆ±

Good guys gals find them bored.
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Maybe its better to be a bad guy afterall.
 
but if decided to settle with a 'bad' guy den don complain and whine after that loh...

i think everybody's view of a 'bad guy' is different nah, to a different extent as well..
 
Aqua..not only him, the gal most probably wont wan either lor....

must create a scene whereby both can meet in a gp, den easier
 
Green,
Definitely! I wouldn't let me friend meet strangers alone! And she isn't not pretty...you know theres some pretty gals out there whos never had a bf and never will and then there are those who are so-so only but have tonnes of bfs?

My friend had suitors but she don't find them suitable lor...
 
sometimes i find it's not about looks...

i have a friend who never had a bf before... she's ok looking, maybe a bit plump. she's the kind who talks a lot in front of us, to the extent i cannot tahan 'cos she's SO AUNTIE. but in front of a guy, she totally shuts herself up. my prior effort to hook her up with a guy failed...

so... package man.. package. looks alone is not good enough. average looking girls who an attractive personality will end up looking pretty.

pretty girls with negative character will turn people off too
 
Appearance is only for the 1st impression.

It helps to attract the attention. But for finding a soul-mate, its much deeper than that.

sticky, what u mean by package?
I hope it means self-reflection and improvements. NOT concealing cans of worms.
 
For me, I have to admit that I am a "superficial" guy.

The gal's physical looks have to appeal to me as a good 1st impression.

WAIT!
Before I get stoned to death by all the feminists here...let me explain...

Apppeal means I must find her comfortable on my eyes...She dont have to be drop dead gorgeous, but she must appeal to me on a physical level...

I have met a lot of gals that are pretty by society's standards....but they DON'T appeal to me...get what I mean?

But saying that...I have to admit that character and personality PLAYS a very big part for me if it is to convince me to go beyond admiring a gal physically to actually court her...
 
no milo 'cos not. my reference to "package" is not as definitive and serious as self-reflection and improvements...

it just generally means the overall "being" of a person. nothing pretentious but generally open and engaging.... nobody wants a partner who talks too much, but yet must hold a conversation well enough and can't be too clammed up to the point sometimes i feel constipated on behalf of the friend i mentioned above....

let's just say.... charisma...
 
My guy friends admitted to me that men are very visual oriented. They have to see something they like first, before being interested...

Ah Siao, I don't think my friend can clearly define what she wants. Some of her suitors aren't bad looking at all...she just wasn't interested...haiz...now I can only hope that she gets more chances to widen her social circle!
 
Jue, in certain ways women also go for looks mah. Don't we all want to have a tall man with broad shoulders, nice hair, cute butt, etc?
 
Jue, gd or bad looking sometime is pretty subjective one..i thnk it comes down to chemistry lor...someone who can make her luff n cry....

Doll, usually all combination coming together is hard lar..just u got only one of those nia
 
I gotta say one thing for sure "pleasent looking" plays a part in both guys or gal......before we are able to clear the mental hurdle of "being interested" for beyond friendship hookup.

Its not always about looks coz sometimes it personality that attracts rather than looks.

For me smoking gals turns me off completely even if they're drop dead gorgeous. Wherelse a technical gals would attracts me.
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Ah Siao, I think you hit jackpot liao! I only knew of one guy who caught her eyes and he can make her laugh and etc...

Doll, yah lor...all of us will want a 金城武 if given a choice...haha
 
green... umm... what i meant wasn't quite chemistry... it's more like, one needs to have some personality flair
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you need to exude a certain level of this 'flair' when you date someone, so that it allows the other party to know you more. then later comes the chemistry, whether the party likes what he has seen about you.

it's like work. you need to be performing, put into stressful positions etc. that management will truly see what you're made of. it makes appraisal process easy. whereas for someone sitting in the office doing nothing, it's hard to put a grade on his/her performance 'cos he/she has proven nothing.

so... there must be work on the girl's part too.. i strongly believe in overcoming shyness and passiveness when it comes to a lady looking for love.
 
Should we just say that looks counts, but it is NOT ALL about looks.

Siao - Not asking for an all-in-one man lah. But if just listing down the physical attributes that make me tick hor, then of course it's the more the merrier mah hehe.

Jue ah - I don't like 金城武. Find his face "lack of meat". In truth, I don't go for just a handsome face because newspapers entertainment pages got one too many liao lor.

Lost - What is a technical gal?
 


Jue, if given a choice, i wouldnt want 金城武 as well... unless u give me Andy Lau... keke..

i dont go for looks as well, but a guy with a dimple and nice butt sure attracts me.. heh heh..
 
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