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my htb will be away quite often if we stay together how?? end up it's my house but cause I dont feel comfortable then I move back to my parents' house.. ridiculous right..

in order not to let problems worsen, cant allow his mum to stay at all.. if we give in, that's it..
 


what if the dad doesn't want to live with the kids and want them to form their own family? no harm chattign with the dad.. perhaps he can help persuade the mum
 
my htb suggested that he slowly slowly try to let her understand.. probably let her move in with us and perhaps she will start to realise the problems after moving in then initiate to move out..

but i feel that it isnt a gd solution.. cause all the while I nv show that I am not pleased staying together in her house then suddenly I change after having a new house.. abit weirld right.. she even mention b4 doesnt matter cause as long as stay together, we can take good care of each other in case any thing happen.. she doesnt mind even if cant click.. she just close 2 eyes..
 
ok, i tok to my htb... what if his dad feel the same way as his mum??? ash, i really really dont want to stay with his parents.. I really wont feel happy.. I rather move to my parents place if they really move in.. coz I cant accept.. I am very upset over this matter..
 
all she wants is to be with her son.. but whats the point.. not as if we will neglect her after that.. all along, my htb isnt close with them and he doesnt stay at home so often..

y cant she be more understanding?? btw, my htb just called.. he says no use talking to his dad.. his dad wont be able to persuae her..
 
Ling, I think both of you need to sit down and carefully discuss the most appropriate and workable course of action. Otherwise in the future, you are bound to face with lots of DIL and MIL issues (even if the MIL closes both her eyes). This is no good for the marriage and quarrels are bound to happen.

Anyway, is your FMIL thinking of selling away their flat after they moved in with you? Any chance for them to find a place close by?
 
ash, we discuss le.. then he has tried to explain to his mum but his mum doesnt agree...

haiz.. they thought of selling but we feel even better if rent out if not he has to give her so much for monthly allowance.. his mum wont want to move elsewhere cause she mention she has get used to staying here and if move elsewhere near, no friends then not comfortable with the environment..
 
initially, she shed tears and wanted so much to stay with her son then suddenly, she mentioned cant coz of the new environment, friends, taking care of grandchildren and my htb's father's uncle rely on his family alot cause he is old and very close with my htb's parents...

then now suddenly, she says she wanna move in with us.. my nightmare is here...
 
but then i think his mum is contradicting... moving in with you would also mean that her friends are not there ma... how come she so sure that she will be very comfortable with the environment ha
 
she mentioned if she wanna move in, then she will bring all her belongings here... ALL HER BELONGINGS leh.. not just clothings.. furniture bla bla bla... how can??
 
my htb asked her the reasons.. she nv mentioned abt that.. my htb told me since young, his mum has already told him she must stay with him..
 
hmmm... tell her no space if she bring all her furnitures... :P

just remember not to let her come out with a single cent for the renovation...
 
Sat I can't make it.. so u have to treat urself.. lao shi sun can't make it...

just go ahead with sat ba... i can always join the next time...

next outing i plan... we go clubbing!!
 
sun.. tat lao shi cannot ah.. then other time lo..

drunk??? yek yek yek...good good...haha..****rubbing both my palms togather****
 
got a few shoppers lo...but they more into shoppping around holland areas..this sat n sun will bring them go shop shop see see lo..
 

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