xuandreams
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hi guys, i am in a conflicted position. my friend has asked me to be her bridesmaid and it's my fourth time doing it. i've heard of people saying how we shouldn't do it more than 3times. what should i do?
4th time bridesmaid
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newproject
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Are you married yet?
littlepinkpointes
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hmmm I dont really think it matters.
1. are u the 'superstitious' kind and do u mind?
2. how close are u to ur friend?
3. will u feel bad rejecting her?
I've been a bridesmaid/team bride/ maid of honour more than 3 times before...even caught the bouquet twice. I just treated all of them as experiences and for the fun of it..... also to help friends out la.
I didnt mind..... =)
1. are u the 'superstitious' kind and do u mind?
2. how close are u to ur friend?
3. will u feel bad rejecting her?
I've been a bridesmaid/team bride/ maid of honour more than 3 times before...even caught the bouquet twice. I just treated all of them as experiences and for the fun of it..... also to help friends out la.
I didnt mind..... =)
mrandmrsertobe
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Agree with littlepinkpointes! I have also been a bridesmaid/sister for more than 3 times 
And I really wouldn't mind if its for a really close friend.
And I really wouldn't mind if its for a really close friend.
xuandreams
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thanks guys!
nope not married yet, getting married this year.
okay thanks for all your advices!
nope not married yet, getting married this year.
okay thanks for all your advices!
newproject
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You can't attend wedding within 3 or 6 mths of yourself getting married I
littlepinkpointes
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Im also getting married soon too and to me it doesn't really matter cause i don't see how being a brides maid will affect my own road to marriage. In fact, with all the help I've offered, they will be more than willing to return the 'favour' to me when it's my turn to walk down the aisle. Hahahaha
newproject
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Depends on how superstitious you are
xuandreams
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yup! my wedding is not within 3-6 months of my friend's wedding!
Enchantedgal
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It depends on how superstitious you are. My fengshui master told me there's no such things as "can't attend someone's wedding if you yourself is getting married within 3/6 Mths". She added it's something auspicious and there's no reason that you can't attend. However, she said we can't attend funeral etc though.
newproject
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Diff master say diff thing. I personally don't care but the master I consulted back then say so without me asking.
it would be my 5-6th time being a bridesmaid~