friedbread
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anotherday: wad do u mean by maintaining my relationship with bluebay?
(2012) 2012 Brides to be
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charlottez09
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hi all.. been really really busy with work.. i really have alot to catch up with the threads.. my AD has been changed to 1 Oct 2011..
I just got the wedding bands from Love & Co.. They are having a 10% discount for the month of November.. f.y.i. for those we're thinking of getting the wedding bands from there.. =)
anotherday: R u getting new flat or resale? for me, i'm looking for a resale flat.. here's the reply from HDB regarding the presentation of marriage cert when taking AHG.. hope it helps.. =)
If you are buying a resale flat from the open market under the Fiance / Fiancee Scheme with the CPF Housing Grant, you must produce a copy of your marriage certificate before or on the date of completion of the resale transaction.
Nevertheless, we do exercise flexibility based on merits of the individual case, to allow deferment in the submission of the marriage certificate if you are unable to produce your marriage certificate on the completion appointment. We will need to see some documents before we can evaluate your request for deferment of marriage certificate. You will need to submit the following documents by fax at 6490-3666 or by post to Resale Office at Atrium 1st Storey, HDB Hub, Lorong 6 Toa Payoh, Singapore 310480 before resale first appointment (that is, with your resale flat application) :-
Letter from Church or Receipt from the Registry of Marriages (ROM) to confirm the arrangement for solemnisation of the marriage; and/or
Receipt from hotel/restaurant to confirm the booking of wedding banquet.
I just got the wedding bands from Love & Co.. They are having a 10% discount for the month of November.. f.y.i. for those we're thinking of getting the wedding bands from there.. =)
anotherday: R u getting new flat or resale? for me, i'm looking for a resale flat.. here's the reply from HDB regarding the presentation of marriage cert when taking AHG.. hope it helps.. =)
If you are buying a resale flat from the open market under the Fiance / Fiancee Scheme with the CPF Housing Grant, you must produce a copy of your marriage certificate before or on the date of completion of the resale transaction.
Nevertheless, we do exercise flexibility based on merits of the individual case, to allow deferment in the submission of the marriage certificate if you are unable to produce your marriage certificate on the completion appointment. We will need to see some documents before we can evaluate your request for deferment of marriage certificate. You will need to submit the following documents by fax at 6490-3666 or by post to Resale Office at Atrium 1st Storey, HDB Hub, Lorong 6 Toa Payoh, Singapore 310480 before resale first appointment (that is, with your resale flat application) :-
Letter from Church or Receipt from the Registry of Marriages (ROM) to confirm the arrangement for solemnisation of the marriage; and/or
Receipt from hotel/restaurant to confirm the booking of wedding banquet.
jasangelic
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hi krystaloh!
the price list for 2012 is out for some hotels/restaurants. you can actually lock the current price with a deposit. =)
the price list for 2012 is out for some hotels/restaurants. you can actually lock the current price with a deposit. =)
Hi krystaloh, welcome~
if the list not out yet. you can put a min deposit first.
do you like to join our facebook?
gers: i was joking with my bf that if there's sgbrides. there going to have sggrooms.
and yes. there really has 1!!
http://www.singaporegrooms.com/
if the list not out yet. you can put a min deposit first.
do you like to join our facebook?
gers: i was joking with my bf that if there's sgbrides. there going to have sggrooms.
and yes. there really has 1!!
http://www.singaporegrooms.com/
Hi magdal! Ya sure! U can add mi at [email protected] ..
simplerhappierlife
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hi, what are some hotels that you all can recommend for less than 1000 dollar per table? thinking of having my wedding in nov/dec 2012. thanks
jasangelic
New Member
Hi simplelife,
theres a few hotels with <1k per table.
you can refer to the below link. it shows hotels with their min pricing. =)
hope it helps.
http://www.singaporebrides.com/banquet_price.php?day=Both&capacity=Any&budget=Any&sort=Price
theres a few hotels with <1k per table.
you can refer to the below link. it shows hotels with their min pricing. =)
hope it helps.
http://www.singaporebrides.com/banquet_price.php?day=Both&capacity=Any&budget=Any&sort=Price
anotherday
New Member
Sze sze: oops, were u the one who sign with bluebay?
Charlotte: mine is a new flat, maybe still can write in lar.. I thot can't for those who took AHG, if not y their deadline not the same as those w/o AHG.. Anyway, thanks!
Jazz: seems quite useful, at least there's an overview..
Charlotte: mine is a new flat, maybe still can write in lar.. I thot can't for those who took AHG, if not y their deadline not the same as those w/o AHG.. Anyway, thanks!
Jazz: seems quite useful, at least there's an overview..
" girls, next time when u all arrange parents' meeting, pls do not go for dim sum... so cold lor the atmosphere, cos everyone shy shy, dun dare to order dim sum.. best if just go for a set menu... 
i settled my si dian jin yesterday.. so exp lor the gold now even thou i only picked a damn thin gold necklace... and my white gold ear-rings with total 0.3c diamond is much more exp than my gold too... my MIL immediately say wow so exp ar when she heard the ear-rings price, but still get it for me in the end.. haha
i settled my si dian jin yesterday.. so exp lor the gold now even thou i only picked a damn thin gold necklace... and my white gold ear-rings with total 0.3c diamond is much more exp than my gold too... my MIL immediately say wow so exp ar when she heard the ear-rings price, but still get it for me in the end.. haha
ya during the dim sum ordering, both parents are like "anything anything", then my bf not auto enough, keep asking me to ask my parents what they want... but answer is forever "anything". quite awkward lor... then dunno how to start out a conversation as both parents are those quiet quiet type ones...
ya MIL asked me to choose the si dian jin mysf... then i feel very paisei to pick too, nvr open mouth ask anyone to buy me anything before mah, somemore will be costing so much.. so i keep sticking on to the thinnest gold... then i nvr expect white gold with diamond to be much more exp as after checking out the price for gold necklace/pendant/bracelet that i picked which is few hundreds each...then who knows when calculate the final total, it was a shock, then we realised the ear-rings are so exp ($1800)..
ya MIL asked me to choose the si dian jin mysf... then i feel very paisei to pick too, nvr open mouth ask anyone to buy me anything before mah, somemore will be costing so much.. so i keep sticking on to the thinnest gold... then i nvr expect white gold with diamond to be much more exp as after checking out the price for gold necklace/pendant/bracelet that i picked which is few hundreds each...then who knows when calculate the final total, it was a shock, then we realised the ear-rings are so exp ($1800)..
missvonnie
New Member
haha... i shall maybe ask my HTB to join in the chat in Sggrooms... hehe...
so cute... so guys reli chat in forum?
so cute... so guys reli chat in forum?
missvonnie
New Member
hmmm my mum had a meet up with my HTB parents last month for the viewing of our banquet ballroom... my dad was not ard as he had to work during the weekends...
Throughout the meeting, both side are so paisey... somemore my mum is so called one against two... hahaha...
but heng they still do chit chat around... & we still went for dinner after that....
actually we as the person who know both side should try to let them mix around bahx..
think the next meet up will be during food tasting period whcih might be next 4th quarter (as my AD will be on Jan 2012)....
Throughout the meeting, both side are so paisey... somemore my mum is so called one against two... hahaha...
but heng they still do chit chat around... & we still went for dinner after that....
actually we as the person who know both side should try to let them mix around bahx..
think the next meet up will be during food tasting period whcih might be next 4th quarter (as my AD will be on Jan 2012)....
missvonnie
New Member
Mrs Ho: yr si dian jin is consider cheap leh... u just not it recently?
friedbread
Member
anotherday:yup..i signed with bluebay.. but wad is it about maintaining relationship?
charlottez09
New Member
Shanna: Yup.. But they mentioned that its case by case basis, but I heard usually not a problem.. Just make sure you submit the document that indicate the date you intended to get married before your 1st HDB appointment.. =)
mrs ho, wa~ really quite cheap! I think HTB's mum has a gold ring to pass to me, then just buy 3 more items can liao. 
shanna, so good leh! my parents and his parents totally different... my parents those business ppl, very ya ya type, then his parents those down-to-earth and quiet type... dunno how to communicate lol
shanna, so good leh! my parents and his parents totally different... my parents those business ppl, very ya ya type, then his parents those down-to-earth and quiet type... dunno how to communicate lol
jas, you also teochew? I think at least for teochew it's kind of mandatory... (otherwise the elder generation will !@#$%^)
First, book solemnization venue (decide on no. of pax and whether u wan lunch/high tea/dinner), book JP, then remember to file notice of marriage at ROM website 21 days before. Then prep ROM dress, partner's shirt/tie/pants, MUA, photographer, notify witnesses-to-be, invitations, and solemnization venue's setting/decor. I hope I din make it sound too complicated. :x
First, book solemnization venue (decide on no. of pax and whether u wan lunch/high tea/dinner), book JP, then remember to file notice of marriage at ROM website 21 days before. Then prep ROM dress, partner's shirt/tie/pants, MUA, photographer, notify witnesses-to-be, invitations, and solemnization venue's setting/decor. I hope I din make it sound too complicated. :x
Ya ... headache with my inlaws and my parents. FIL is those high flying executive and my parents are the simple kind . You know the simple aunties and uncles . I scared my ROM do small small then the qing diao clash .
Some more i am getting very confused with the traditions le. My in laws are christians den say some practices are very un christians and den yet want some traditions to be included making me very confused . Luckily I am daughter don't need to follow the proper wedding stuff else my grandparents will want all the frills. Sigh .
Mrsho : the flowers are really very nice.
Some more i am getting very confused with the traditions le. My in laws are christians den say some practices are very un christians and den yet want some traditions to be included making me very confused . Luckily I am daughter don't need to follow the proper wedding stuff else my grandparents will want all the frills. Sigh .
Mrsho : the flowers are really very nice.
jas, unless your parents request, then I think dun really need.
Book JP first! Their schedule v v packed one (at least the more popular ones)~
shanna, so good... my htb's side also not rich/well-off, but my parents will still request for many tables + they want to keep the AP. -_-
Gen, ya I so understand... but is opposite situation... MIL and FIL simple uncles aunties type, but my parents are business ppl... the qing diao confirm v weird. -_-" I think chinese traditions haf nth to do with religion ba? Other than having a church wedding, I don't see much differences for weddings for my christian friends... what traditions do they wan to include?
shanna, so good... my htb's side also not rich/well-off, but my parents will still request for many tables + they want to keep the AP. -_-
Gen, ya I so understand... but is opposite situation... MIL and FIL simple uncles aunties type, but my parents are business ppl... the qing diao confirm v weird. -_-" I think chinese traditions haf nth to do with religion ba? Other than having a church wedding, I don't see much differences for weddings for my christian friends... what traditions do they wan to include?
Serynn, shanna: my HTB also not rich/well off too. lucky my parents didnt request much from him.
But is my brother who me to give this and that.
all the expenses we paying by ourself
Gen: Guess my in law knows that they cant give me anything. so they didnt say anything if i having church wedding.
But is my brother who me to give this and that.
all the expenses we paying by ourself
Gen: Guess my in law knows that they cant give me anything. so they didnt say anything if i having church wedding.
Gen: Actually religion & tradition are 2 different issues. My husband is a catholic, but i'm not. We still go through the customs and inlaws are okay with it.
Was thinking probably it's because we paid everything ourselves (only receive $400 token wedding angpao).. hubby elder brother got married a yr before us and inlaws fork out abt $60k to help them with their wedding. so they really participate throughout the whole wedding process.
Probably you and hubby can settle everything yourself. Can save some trouble & less quarrel.
Was thinking probably it's because we paid everything ourselves (only receive $400 token wedding angpao).. hubby elder brother got married a yr before us and inlaws fork out abt $60k to help them with their wedding. so they really participate throughout the whole wedding process.
Probably you and hubby can settle everything yourself. Can save some trouble & less quarrel.
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