Hi Joos : MM was the first hotel I started my "Shopping spree" of hotels as early as March, and it gave me the "cosy" feeling when I first went there. Then, I liked the romantic atmosphere at the hotel main lobby, as you sit there, you feel really "wow" this is a 5 star hotel indeed. Comparing both grand ballroom and Vanda ballroom, yes, true, the ceilings for both are pretty low and march in is short, but nevertheless, this did not really compromise on the overall ambience, and everyone is assured full view of the couple. When I told my PS and VG I wanted live feed, they were like...hey it's MM, why do you need live feed when everyone can see you so clearly.
And I have personally tried the food, and every dish was just so good. And I liked the fact that we can choose across menus, and I just like all the things the hotel coordinator arranged for me, even without me asking.
I have been to several other hotels when I could not find the right venue, and I have seen several other hotels will high ceilings etc, but I only had the right kind of feel towards MM, not sure why.....maybe subconsciously I just liked MM for whatever reasons....And I sent my wedding planner to scout two hotels and she came back telling me MM was just the perfect venue....
I guess everyone has a perfect venue in their mind....if you go through the entire MM's thread you may understand the pros and cons of it better? And like other btbs say, there must be a reason why you placed the deposit...try to think of it that way. But if you really cannot convince yourself that MM is just the hotel you wish to hold your banquet, then by all means forfeit the deposit, if budget allows u, since wedding is once in a lifetime, you probably do not wish to live in regret!! haha...so evil!!