angelia,
my bf says tt dun need to spend so much on AD PG and VG, especially VG, cos no one will spend so much time watching the video again and again! Actually I feel tt the video will be able to capture the ambience of the AD and everyone's mood. But it is true tt pics are more convenient to look at than videos. So which one is more impt to u, video or photos?
Diane,
dun think too badly of him deciding to go on e trip. Maybe this exposure is really impt to him and u wouldnt wan him to blame u in future when he regret not going. I feel tt as a couple, we cant restrict each other's movement. We can raise our opinions but cant expect the other party to surely listen.
Like my bf likes to go India for community service and I dun like it cos I feel it is dangerous. Spoke to him and he seemed to understand my concerns. Still he said he really wants to go 1 more time before getting married and if he cant go, then he will be quite sad. (see, he use the ke-lian technique. haha!) So I let him go as I dun wan to be blamed for it next time.
Actually I feel tt u and ur bf do love each other. But maybe not good at expressing ur emotions? He seems to care for ur feelings (fr his sms) but when he is in front of u, he says e wrong things to make u angry. And u also seem to like to show ur temper. (opps!!) But what is e purpose of doing that? Like asking him to leave then asking him to come back? Maybe u did tt when angry and so irrational, but seriously when we think back, we are just dramatizing our life doing all these and it serves no purpose. I know cos I used to do all these drama-ma-ma stuff.
Seems like both of u have an acid tongue. Says things tt u dun mean when angry. So next time must control, take a break before thrashing things out. U must know tt when quarrelling, both parties r angry so u cant really expect ur bf to be coaxing u when he is also pissed w e situation.
Do you want to marry him? Do you want to break up with him? If you wan to be together w him, then u need to talk things out properly with him rather than ignoring him.
About saving up for wedding, I know it is difficult. Im also saving up by taking tuition. I feel tt both parties need to show tt they r contributing. Of cos the party tt earns more saves more. Have u tot of doing part-time job? Saving for wedding takes time de lor.