jaq: actually not that we have feminine thinking lah...wedding is abt 2 ppl, so we have to share duties mah. Can't be letting ur other half do all the work while we enjoy and shake leg right? I know of some who dun come forum (like me and darrel) but still, they help out when needed lor...u can't get things done sometimes on ur own efforts really.
white shirt easiest to match any colour jackets...my PS I wore a silver shiny jacket with white shirt inside...for black, easier to match with other colours as well. Besides white, blue, yellow, green...basically colours which provide stark contrast to black will do. My other PS black tuxedo jacket, I matched with my navy blue shirt.