valerie: Ya I know..wedding stuff also can accumulate to few thousands $$...now less than 2 mths I have to settle my wedding cake, wines, jiemei dresscode, banquet theme, food tasting, my SDJ also dunno when buying hur..no news from my bf parents, then have to go dress shopping with my mum n aunt, my cs also haben do...bed mattress also haben buy..wah need to really drill my bf into settle alot of things when he back next wk lol