Jac> Usually u will need to noe, coz u need to ask ur parents how many boxes of cakes they need to gif away to relatives, den u convey to the groom side den they usually will prepare extra, coz eg. ur parents says need 10 boxes, den groom side will haf to prepare mayb 2 or 4 boxes more, so total gif bride side mayb ard 12 or 14 boxes, where the 2 or 4 boxes will need to return to groom. For us (me & my sis), we will be using vouchers instead of physical cakes, coz my mum says dun 1 2 go ard s'pore to deliver the cakes.