val: dun worry, my wife is even shorter than u
like what mel said, u have to be on ur feet the whole day so not advisable to wear 4" heels on ur AD as it will be very tiring and painful for ur legs.
mel: the more tables u have, the greater the chances of u making a loss
that's the reason why we wanted as little tables as possible, we have cut down a lot on our guest lists after discussion.
1.2k for a pair of heels? that's madness! it's not that u will wear it everyday after ur AD also right? IMHO not worth spending so much on a pair of heels which u will only be wearing for like 2 or 3 times?
gals, if u can get even 80 I think u can laugh already...there are ppl who come towing all their kids/families and give only 200 or less. Likewise, dun be surprised if u get 50 angpows too. for urs mel, every one of ur guests have to give u 110 in angpows if u do not wish to have losses...u think that's possible? I highly doubt so, sorry
that's why after careful consideration, me and my wife decided to go for a budget of 800 per table or lesser to minimize our losses.