juski, if not wrong, wherever u guys r going to be staying at, then tat's where ur an chuan thingy shd take place cos wat it seems is tat, after u an chuang (usually 1 wk before ur AD), u dun sleep on ur bed till ur AD...however, having said tat, there r still couples who sleep on it after an chuang...oh ya, seems tat besides, an chuang, alot of couples will get the bedside lamp so tat on AD, they can 'light' the lamp for chuan zhong jie dai (to 'create' many generations of kids...hehehe)
in addition, there r many 'schools' of thoughts abt an chuang etc due to modernisation etc...most imptly is, if u have elders who r damn particular in tis, then best to respect their wishes n check wat it is...
aroh - i guess ar, for now, 28 nov is confirmed onz...as for 6 dec, i doubt so...
erm, gals n guy, shall we email each other our hp nos so at least nearer to 28 nov, we can contact each other when we r there...btw, where r we meeting ar?
if not wrong, i tik quite a no. of us here alrd tried gowns before we decide to sign on with our BS or perhaps try gowns for PS...
for me, i alrd tried...