cube_cube, same situation here. But for me, quite ok cos my fren and i are 100% not pantang...our ADs less than a month apart but cfm we are still attending each other's wedding, haha...but for my hb's side, he is sticking to the 3months rule becos his frens' parents all very pantang. I personally don't believe in it but if others believe, then we'll just to have rearrange the seatings. I rather they cfm now & say cannot come, then cfm can come then last min put me aeroplane....